Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

Making love to my husband used to be about just that- the love. These days, it's just about the destination. It's quick, it's not passionate, and once i'm done I just want my husband to hurry up and "finish". I am currently 26 weeks pregnant, (and maybe it's just the hormones, lack of sleep, different schedules, pain and discomfort during sex that make me feel this way), but I have no interest in sex anymore. And i know it sounds horrible, but I also keep thinking to myself(esp. lately) that we don't need to have sex anymore, after this pregnancy we have all the kids we need. I also keep thinking about birth control after the baby is born, and don't want to have to deal with it. I am only 21 and can't get the tubal ligation done until at the least 27 according to my doctor. I absolutely do not want to have anymore kids, esp. if i have to go through another pregnancy like this one.

2006-12-02 18:44:02 · 23 answers · asked by Cyndi Storm 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-02 18:43:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 26 and there's this guy in my class age 20 who had express interest in me. We have been out a few times and kinda of have fun. But should i go into relationship with him with our age gap?

2006-12-02 18:43:44 · 8 answers · asked by SunnyFLOWER 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband doesn't know what love is. I am almost sure that he doesn't love me because he doesn't touch my hair, never hugs me, doesn't initiate sex, doesn't want to talk to me, says I am a waste of his time, and never even thinks of talking to me and sharing his thoughts, experiences, or doing any activities together. He hates me for bothering him with my feelings or needs. When I ask him if he loves me he tells me he doens't know what love is. I yell at him a lot and have even started kicking things and slamming doors and slapped him in the face. He says I'm abusive. We're going to try a period of separation. Any advice? What is love? Have you been divorced? What would you do?

2006-12-02 18:43:13 · 6 answers · asked by Cynthia W 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i asked a chick that liked me out she said no
then she said mabey
before i could answer she said no
we stoped talking
then she sent me e-mails saying she missed me
wtf what am i to do?

2006-12-02 18:43:08 · 10 answers · asked by Jonathan S 1 in Singles & Dating

i met a girl recently and this relationship began as a secret admirer type thing- i sent her a poem i wrote for her, after reading her work on my space. we then met in person and exchanged poetry. she said she was falling for me through my writing but when she is around me, she also wrote poems about my eyes and her desire for me. in person, she flirts sometimes or does things which can be seen as flirting. she has to hold back bc she is just starting a relationship with someone else, which was not concrete when we met. is it possible for her to be falling for me based on writing and if she was also attracted to me but trying to stay loyal, might she avoid me and say that we should just e-mail??
she said that she can't see me anymore which hurt so i;m trying to understand her.

2006-12-02 18:42:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now we r together and want to tell them, but are worried about how they will react.

2006-12-02 18:41:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-02 18:41:17 · 4 answers · asked by sims 2 in Singles & Dating

or they just like the blonde or red hair ones with a lot of eye-liner and make-up?and wild?do tehy like soft beauty?like the asian ones?

2006-12-02 18:40:15 · 7 answers · asked by ImJuStAgIrL 1 in Singles & Dating

MY BOyFRIEND HAS A LOT OF STRESS W/ RUNNING HIS BUSINESS ..our time together is limited . i left his house tonight disappointed,sad,drunk. with absolutly NO LOVE!!! he says he is planning for our future. i dont know about that . i put him to bed got the tequila bottle and came home. (what i always due)................................i truely love this man....but dammnn ..i need more TLC.....let me know what you think

2006-12-02 18:40:04 · 3 answers · asked by jazzie0202 2 in Singles & Dating

I really liked this guy for just over 2 years, we would talk for a long time every day. He was my best friend & i was really attracted to him..i'll just say that there were certain factors keeping us apart. Then we actually got together after about 2 years & I was so happy. A couple of weeks after this, I think he blocked me on instant messenger & we never got together. I hadn't talked to him for about 2 months..then he appears "online" on messenger & i say something saracastic and kind of mean, to show that I was NOT happy... & i get a short one liner response. A couple of weeks later he tries to talk to me & I say something short & I leave. I kind of feel bad, but I wanted him to feel guilty..I know, shallow, but... he seemed to have gotten my point. A little while ago he instant messaged me & started calling me names & stuff...hard to explain but...then we calm down & he says hes been moody lately and hes sorry, its cool but... i was, & still am kind of, really mad...am i justified?

2006-12-02 18:39:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't have a wife or girlfriend at the moment, but what I find helps with occasional loneliness is getting together with other single friends of both genders to have fun, like going to see a movie, play pool or something like that. It's funny, though none of us have love lives to speak of, we all are very active socially. Do you feel similarly? Or were you in that situation at one time?

2006-12-02 18:39:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dated someone for 4 years, we remained great friends afterwards. It has been almost 10 years since we have known eachother and I have never gone longer than a week or two without hearing from this person. In the Spring I didn't hear from him for about 2 months. I had been worried, but figured he just had some things to figure out for himself and he'd call me when he wanted to talk. He did and things were fine for a month and a half and he said "I'll call you on Thursday or Friday", because he had some friends coming into town. It has been 5 months since that day and I still haven't heard a word from him. I'm very worried. He was going through some tough times. I've done searches on the internet but alas, have not come up with anything. I have no number to reach him at, since his phone was shut off and my cell number has changed but not my house. I did find his sisters on Myspace and wanted opinions as to whether or not people thought it would be ok to ask them how he is?

2006-12-02 18:38:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok i like this guy named chris. one day in class we had to do a group project. and he happens to be in the same group as me. i was standin/leanin on the seat behind him. john said "aye can you hand me my backpack behind you?" and i said no. and he said aww u look so pretty today. and said tahnk you but no. and then chris said. no she look fine. he said that just when i got up to get the backpack. he also tried to play punch me in da stomach. and notice and i play punch him back. so basically we were like punchin eacother. in lunch. he was sitting on the other side of the bench. he saw me he walk over and sat next to me. my friend said awww u guys make a cute couple and he said oh really? during passing periods, when he sees me, he stops and look at me. and sometimes i can see him starring at me. and once in lunch, he was sittng and saw me so he stand up and i said what and he said what. i said what you looking at. he said looking at you and smiled. so do you think he likes me?????????

2006-12-02 18:38:03 · 5 answers · asked by Nooodle 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend at work and I've developed quite an attraction to him but I'm wondering if he feels the same way I do. We've in the past few months exchanged phone numbers/e-mail addresses originally so he could give me my work schedule while I was on holidays so I knew what day I would be starting back. While on my holidays I told him to call me and we would hang out which we did. This one day of hanging out has since turned into hanging out on a regular basis. I was seeing/living with someone when we first started hanging out but have since broken off that relationship and have moved out. He was aware of what was going on with my ex the whole time and even said yes to helping me move out of my ex's place. Anyways....this guy told me the other day whole shopping for Christmas gifts together that I'm invitied to his familys place for Christmas dinner...he also told me that his mom asked why he didn't bring me to their house for Thanksgiving. Do it sound like he likes me?

2006-12-02 18:37:47 · 6 answers · asked by twisted_cherry85 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this may sound crazy, but I'm in my thirties and I may have the opportunity to meet a guy I met via Internet. Any dating tips for this first-timer? And it sounds like he wants me to come meet him on his boat. Should I go, or should I suggest a more public place? He sounds really sweet and I'd really like to meet him. Also, I really want him to like me. Any advice from the dating pros here? Thank you.

2006-12-02 18:37:44 · 1 answers · asked by cherrycharmca 2 in Singles & Dating

Need some ideas on what to get my mom for X-mas. She has everything already. Trying to think of something new. She is 46.

2006-12-02 18:36:55 · 7 answers · asked by Miss. Tee98 4 in Family

I have been married since 2 years and my husband doesn't love me and he had an affair in past after marriage too,which was there before our engagement.Now i was away from last 9 month from him,i didn't felt like talking to him and neither i was eager to be in contact with.Now he came back to me and wants this relationship to work,but i don't feel love or any feeling for him.but my heart want this relationship to work.As he is soory for his behaviour,but I am blank from inside.i don't feel anything .

2006-12-02 18:36:24 · 17 answers · asked by Lonely_girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-02 18:35:18 · 10 answers · asked by derpem s 1 in Friends

cuz i have a brother and 3 sisters and i just always wish i was an only child cuz they are so annoying!! but sometimes they are helpful and im the oldest so i get blamed for everything!
Calling all only children out there!
How does it feel and does it suck?

2006-12-02 18:35:06 · 14 answers · asked by ~*IN LOVE*~ 2 in Family

mine would be....... the wild kabuli

2006-12-02 18:34:12 · 22 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 18:33:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Husband comes out of room with work cell phone in his hand, saying someone was calling &he wants me to do a reverse look-up of the number on the net. I tell him just to call the number back and see who it is, I try to take the phone out of his hand, but he won't let go and when he does, he's on the screen that says dialed numbers and they have all been erased. He says he erased it 3 days ago, but hasn't made ONE phone call to his workshop, for driving directions or what not in 3 days? I think he's lying. So, I do a reverse look-up. The phone number is an unlisted landline in Eugene, Oregon. Now, back when we met, he had a thing for a girl in Eugene, and lied to me about talking to her on the internet, even though I knew the whole time he was, he would deny it and get all upset and angry. One day he finally confessed because as it turned out he then wanted me to talk to her, so she would still be 'his friend'. He calls and its a girl, saying she got the number from him calling her.....?

2006-12-02 18:32:42 · 15 answers · asked by Little Jeannie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well theres this guy and it really seems like he likes me ok he meets me after classes and walks with me, he makes sure he gets the same gym activity, he sits with me on the bus to gym and back, when it was really cold and i didnt have a jacket he gave me his, we walk home sometimes, and he always sees if im staying after school to walk home.Yes i know everything sounds like he does like me i've known him since like 4 years i didnt used to like him at all...its wierd. he also like compliments me and tries to impress me like he thinks i've accomplished alot and tries to make himself look goodenough...he is! he teases me soooo much, but he does do it to others too. He also sits with me and my friends at lunch but it seems like he could like one of my other friends...but does he want to be just friends? please help me with knowing xactly what our relationship is and if he likes me or my friend?
i would ask him but it would be soo awkward if i did... i think atleast...please help!!!

2006-12-02 18:31:42 · 10 answers · asked by ugly truth 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont know if i should belive her... I dont remember what happened. nothing passed kiss though- should i tell my husband just in case i DID kiss someone else? what if it really didnt happen- not sure what to do!?!?

2006-12-02 18:31:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to meet a guy who will love me for my personality, and not my looks. I'm not saying I'm not pretty, but I am a naturally nice and kind person, and I would like to find a guy who is focused on the personality of a person. If you have any advice, PLEASE answer, because I am also a hopeless romantic, which makes this even more important for me! Thanx!

2006-12-02 18:31:23 · 5 answers · asked by punker89 2 in Singles & Dating

*sigh* i like him but im not sure what to think of his mixed signals...

2006-12-02 18:30:11 · 15 answers · asked by fawkingsupergirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has gone missing. To cut a long story short he had an arguement with his ex on the phone yesterday afternoon and then said he was going for a drive to clear his head and I have not heard from him since. I can't go to where he lives cause he lives interstate and I don't have his parents phone number or any of his friends numbers. He isn't answering his phone or email and I don't know what to do. Am I worried about nothing or should i be worried? He was really angry and worked up and has high blood pressure and other medical problems so maybe he is in hospital but I am beginning the think the worst. What should I do? Oh and he lives by himself so can't even ring anyone there.

2006-12-02 18:28:26 · 15 answers · asked by curious_23 1 in Singles & Dating

Please click on "My Answers" and review my remark on, "My man is trying not to drink and i need some help here?" This woman is in heavy denial, and she feels that...(her words) "he is an adult and as hard as it is for him he is just going to have to live without it (alcohol) if someone has sugar they don't stop going places that has sugar in their food they just eat what they are allowed and that it it...." Give me a thumbs up if you feel that I am right, and please excuse the bad grammar because that was not my quote.

2006-12-02 18:25:56 · 7 answers · asked by Nut 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to rock my GF's world this weekend, any suggestions or tips for me? We have been together for 5 years and she is a classy girl so keep it clean please :-)

2006-12-02 18:25:16 · 10 answers · asked by entropy1976 1 in Singles & Dating