Ok well theres this guy and it really seems like he likes me ok he meets me after classes and walks with me, he makes sure he gets the same gym activity, he sits with me on the bus to gym and back, when it was really cold and i didnt have a jacket he gave me his, we walk home sometimes, and he always sees if im staying after school to walk home.Yes i know everything sounds like he does like me i've known him since like 4 years i didnt used to like him at all...its wierd. he also like compliments me and tries to impress me like he thinks i've accomplished alot and tries to make himself look goodenough...he is! he teases me soooo much, but he does do it to others too. He also sits with me and my friends at lunch but it seems like he could like one of my other friends...but does he want to be just friends? please help me with knowing xactly what our relationship is and if he likes me or my friend?
i would ask him but it would be soo awkward if i did... i think atleast...please help!!!
2006-12-02 18:31:42 · 10 answers · asked by ugly truth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are you kidding me!? You sound like you have your answer. You’re looking for his and there is only one person you are going to get that from. HIM!
Look, most of us girls tell by exactly what you are saying, those of us who judge smartly judge by actions and not words.
Remember what you wrote because one day you will be asking, "he says he likes me but he's never available to me, doesn't pay me attention, and doesn’t want to be around my friends."
When that happens you know he doesn't honestly like you. But for now you got it made, Ask yourself what level of commitment you would be comfortable with him and ask him if he could make that commitment long enough to see if this is going to fly or not. Guys stall for a few reasons, a common on is that many girls consider them "friends" so much so that they stop seeing themselves as a romantic option to any girl; it is safer for them to settle for "friends". It could be his age; maybe he doesn't want a girlfriend. But you’re going to have to find out or eventually it will hurt your friendship. Good friends are few and far between; dates to a Friday night move come and go. If you have a good friendship it is ok to be friends, most people make the mistake of assuming it MUST be more and loose a friend for life.
Respect him enough to make this decision with you. Your his friend, and I bet your a great one.
Go Forward.
2006-12-02 18:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be awkward, just take it slow. If you already have his number ring him to talk about anything and then when you finally feel comfortable with him ask him if he likes you. He might like you, from what I've heard it sounds like he likes more than a friend. He probly hangs around you and your friends because he wants to be involved in you life and friends, maybe he is making an effort to get know your friends better for your sake. Personally I think he likes you and should ask him if he does, if not just say I don't want us to feel like we can't be friends any more and I am sure he will understand. Hope I helped.
2006-12-03 02:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it definitely sounds like he's into you and may want a relationship. if you honestly have the same feelings as he does and not just cause you think he does, then go ahead and try to flirt back give him a reason to ask you. or you can always just try to ask him about his feelings too. good luck figuring things out.
2006-12-03 02:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by mink_kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have known each other for a while and all he has done US be friendly.threes a good chance that's all he wants from you.
The good part is you have a friend that you can keep Fr a lifetime,and that's not a bad deal.
2006-12-03 02:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. It's hard but one of you has to make a move. Don't force the issue or else you'll strain the friendship.
2006-12-03 02:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by foogill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he's no more than a caring friend......but it could be love,too......look out for eye-contacts n' gazes from this guy.....observe him.....does he always wants to know u more??? read from the lines.......u can also ask him....c'mon, it won't be awkward.....good luck!!!
2006-12-03 02:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me that he does like you but he could just be trying to get to one of your friends so dont ask him. You could ask one of his friends to ask him then it wouldnt be awkard for u. Or u could have someone ask him for you. But like not metation your name.
kelc
2006-12-03 02:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by kelci a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello aechick43,
Yes, you need to ask him what he thinks of you. I bet that he'll come out with it. Maybe he's been waiting to hear from you, what you think of him, first.
--Rick
2006-12-03 02:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like me. Make your move, he isn't going to...
2006-12-03 02:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by Steve-o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is EXACTLY how i act around the girl i like. take it from me. he's a keeper.
2006-12-03 02:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by whaseup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋