please help me understand?

Question

i met a girl recently and this relationship began as a secret admirer type thing- i sent her a poem i wrote for her, after reading her work on my space. we then met in person and exchanged poetry. she said she was falling for me through my writing but when she is around me, she also wrote poems about my eyes and her desire for me. in person, she flirts sometimes or does things which can be seen as flirting. she has to hold back bc she is just starting a relationship with someone else, which was not concrete when we met. is it possible for her to be falling for me based on writing and if she was also attracted to me but trying to stay loyal, might she avoid me and say that we should just e-mail??
she said that she can't see me anymore which hurt so i;m trying to understand her.

Answer 1

Sounds like too much work. Move on. Someone out there is way better for you.