Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

She only has a learners permit, so she's not even legal, and im not ready to be a grandpa yet. The cops caught her out this morning driving at 3 am. I was at work, but my girlfriend was here when she snuck out, Cop says he saw her out the nite before too...Im leaning toward some big-time tough love. She gets honor roll grades and hasn't been in any real trouble before, She just has puppy love?

2006-12-05 23:59:30 · 31 answers · asked by spencer 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 23:59:22 · 11 answers · asked by chucklebunny 1 in Singles & Dating

Six years ago. Oldest sister Kim tells me that when she left her children with next oldest sister Erin, Erin punished Kim's kid in a way that was not acceptable. I told Kim that I didn't want to talk about Erin and Kim assured me that she wasn't saying anything that she already hadn't said to Kim. Erin got abusive and angry that I didn't take her side. The punishment was a time out for Kim's kid biting Erin's kid. I though it was pretty reasonable.
A couple of weeks later, I am visiting Erin and we have a few glasses of wine. She starts off on Kim and I stop her and say that I don't want to get into anything between them but for the record, I agreed that the time out was fair. Apparently when Kim told me that she had discussed it with Erin, was was lying. Erin was furious that Kim had talked about her (ironically because she herself was attempting to talk about Kim to me.) And then things got ugly. Erin told Kim I told her about what Kim had assured ne was already discussed.

2006-12-05 23:58:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What to do when a husband meets with a boyfriend of his wife ?

2006-12-05 23:57:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend just started seeing a girl who is kind of high maintenance he wants to find a gift not too personal and definitely not practical and she likes art but doesn't claim to have infinite knowledge of it...oh and it can't be too expensive any suggestions?

2006-12-05 23:55:39 · 4 answers · asked by Suzanne B 1 in Singles & Dating

I've my relationship (engaged) with my bf and we gonna married next year. He's from the States and I am from Dominican Republic. well, as his wife i will become, he wants me to go the states and live with him together. For that, we need the visa. he had been working alot and me too for save up money. Yesterday we were talking about the spends it requires for succeed the marriage visa which is kinda expensive ($600-1000 dls). he told me what we gonna do is to share the spends (each of us will pay the half-to-half). I didnt offended by that, but im just wondering if in the future things will be this way. Is this correct? I mean i'm not a spoil who wants everyhing-i-wish and neither I dont have any problem sharing.

is this a good sign of a good marriage? i mean,... the fact of know how to share things with your couple... can someone clear up this to me?

I will appreciate even more answers from experience ppl, thanks in advanced!

2006-12-05 23:54:13 · 5 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Singles & Dating

First of all, I am a very private person and normally don't like to talk about feelings...but I think i need some input (from behind a fairly anonymous screen. If you are an asshοle or otherwise have a mind of a 12-year old troll - then stop reading now and leave.)

I think things started getting in motion when i visited my first strip club a couple months ago..something that I left with made me want something more in life. I now seem to be having a difficult time justifying playing simulated, graphic first-person shooter games and jacking off to naked pictures of women.

I have never been in a relationship and frankly I have never been able to tell anyone why, except for the fact that I am afraid...of something. I have no problems with health/car/job..but when I want something more I usually blow it off saying that a realtionship would cost me money and take time away from school and my job.

I guess i am just looking for input at this point..thank you for reading.

2006-12-05 23:53:00 · 12 answers · asked by [ΦΘΚ] ﮎl4CK3R 2 in Singles & Dating

would he give her "space" if he knew she came out of a serious long term relationship a few months ago?

would he keep things "casual" until she showed signs of wanting more, even if you have kissed?

would he wait for her to "take the lead" so to speak?

im a girl asking this Q . lol xxx

2006-12-05 23:52:38 · 11 answers · asked by hunni!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 23:51:32 · 3 answers · asked by Alex S 1 in Singles & Dating

She's never been a very affectionate person. She hardly ever kisses or hugs me. Everything else about our relationship is great except this one area. It doesn't seem to be in her nature to display affection in this way but it is something that is very important to me. No matter how much I try to tell her that I would like more, she just can't or won't do it. She assumes that I just want more sex but that's not it. It's very frustrating and it's getting to the point where I can't take much more. I don't want to end up divorcing her over something like this. It irks me because I have had many girlfriends in the past that were more than happy to shower me with affection and I know I could easily find someone else now that would do the same. Whenever I bring up the subject, she rolls her eyes and says "Here we go again." She thinks I can never be satisfied but I'm like WTF?! There are girls out there that would kill to have their man be affectionate and I'm not asking that much.

2006-12-05 23:51:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

guys, if your seeing a girl really casually, you like her but you have only kissed, but she came out of a long term relationship a few months ago, could that be a reason why he hasnt asked for a date and things have been kept casual for a while?

im a girl asking the Q. lol xxx

2006-12-05 23:49:35 · 9 answers · asked by hunni!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

i have my good long relationship term since over a year already. he wants to marry me and take me to america. Good. But for example, yesterday i started with the crazy though once again about if things dont work out.... that i want to go college (im transfering my college) and i wanna keep working (i am). He, on the other hand, is graduate from college and he got this serious job.... he wants me to live with him and he even is lookin foward about health insurance and benefits for myself for when i get there. Are this my deep wishes that i want to make?? Also i wish to things really work with him cuz i appreciate him and his family alot..

what can i do to stop being insecure (if this is what i have)??
he felt hurted when i expressed him about this. what can i do ? what can i do? why i have this scared feelings???

2006-12-05 23:49:01 · 13 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 23:48:24 · 20 answers · asked by Cailin Deas 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so now ive told you all abotu this boy i like at this place and he seems to like me too but i havnt talked to him yet...any conversational ideas..or hints you could give..that i oculd do hense im only a 14 yr old grl so go easy..but the thing is when im at this place im very relaxed an i dont even think about him being there ..just that hes there makes me happy nd the thing im goin to is sumthin i love doin also so its even betterr...so basicaly any more opinions the people wer really helpful on the last one
thank you

2006-12-05 23:47:53 · 4 answers · asked by grl-needs-help-about-young-love 1 in Singles & Dating

when U had your first kiss did you know wat to do? do U have to have experience?

2006-12-05 23:47:43 · 6 answers · asked by zoey z 2 in Singles & Dating

I've recently found out I have a brother, who'd be 21 now. He was adopted at birth in the district of Glasgow in Scotland. I'd really like to find out more about him but my parents aren't really being forward with information.

If anyone on here has information etc on tracing adopted siblings, please let me know!

2006-12-05 23:45:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Reason I have just had mine cut nice and short ..... and met this girl that says she loves long hair and wants me to grow it... What are your thoughts.....?

2006-12-05 23:45:09 · 37 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

if u are in love with a guy and he doesent keep in touch with you much how long can u leave it before u give in and txt or phone him? can u resist not keeping in touch with him?

2006-12-05 23:44:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 23:44:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 23:44:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been having an affair with a married man for over a year.. and I decided to end it all last Monday... cause I feel that our relationship is not going anywhere and I don't think he will leave his wife for me... But I still love him tremendously... I've been depressed ever since... I cry myself to sleep and I can't stop myself thinking of him...Am I doing the right thing? How do I make myself numb of all these pain... Help me pleaseeeee..

2006-12-05 23:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by She 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi i have this problem w/ my boyfriend..this december is our 2nd aniv. i got this feeling that i don't like anymore. But if i'm with him, i don't want to leave him...get it?? i don't know how to say "it's over" to him. Pls help!!!

2006-12-05 23:43:24 · 21 answers · asked by kim_cute 1 in Singles & Dating

I and my first cousin love each other from past four years, but in recent times only i came to know that it is not adivsable to marry in close relationships. what i have to do now? any medical solutions. how much expensive and how easily it is feasible. i stay in bangalore

2006-12-05 23:43:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i got rejected a while ago and i still cant seem to get her off my mind. the other thing on my mind that bothers me is how long i waited to ask her out only to shoot me down and embarass me. what should i do?

2006-12-05 23:42:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, how to motivate a man to get up and going, to get some interesting activities to do in life, apart from just TV?

Nagging is dangerous, what are some innovative ways?

2006-12-05 23:41:10 · 15 answers · asked by just me.. 3 in Family

2006-12-05 23:40:14 · 4 answers · asked by Reggie 1 in Weddings

Well last night I caught my son looking at porn. I was shocked but he understood not to do it again. I deleted all the records of him doing it so his mother wouldnt find out. Now she did a spybot search and destroy a while later and noted something she saw on it labeled 'adult porn'. She was questioning me about it and I told her she was seeing things. I was lucky she believed me. Now Im stuck having to worry about her doing a spybot again and seeing that. She would go wild if she saw what our son had done. If anyone could please just tell me where exactly spybot searches on the hard disc and registry I would be so thankful. So would my son too, I just dont want my wife finding out what he did. So again, where exactly does spybot search in the registry and hard disc and how do I remove it? I know the basics like going into regedit but dont have a clue where to look. Please help someone.

2006-12-05 23:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by John M 1 in Family

Question to the girls. How do you like to be kissed by a man in the early days of dating?

2006-12-05 23:38:00 · 13 answers · asked by Doris 3 in Singles & Dating

what would I see?

2006-12-05 23:37:39 · 31 answers · asked by sammyantha 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

but her pubic hair is very long and tend to show a lot sometimes it even blows in the wind and looks like a foxes tail hanging between her legs. how would you cope with thid suitation?

2006-12-05 23:36:49 · 45 answers · asked by oh_sh1te 1 in Singles & Dating