Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

like i said he is married and promises me that he is getting a divorce. he wants to be with me, but he hasn't started it. he calls me i can never call him. tells me that i am his soul mate. anyone with this same problem. need to know if i am wasting my time. or is it true married men do lie..........or do they mean it from there heart they are divorcing???????......just so they can have there cake and icing too.... do they really get a divorce and come to us?? hello anyone help help please! i know i should just walk away, but i do love him so much... and he says he loves me and wants only me.... he treats me good but its the lies that hurt the most and the waiting him to have the papers done signed and sealed..... ty lilly

2006-12-05 23:34:19 · 44 answers · asked by lilly p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is this thing
that they call life
is it just living,
or having a husband or wife
Im too young to get married,
and i dont have a clue,
were can i find
a life thats new?
i heard wen u die
and go to heven,
there's somthing called
a recarnation.
were u can come back
in a new body,
a new face, a new self,
and new abilites.
but how can i die?
again im too young,
im not sick or in danger,
and i didn't get stung.
does it hurt when u die?
wat is it like?
id talk to my mom,
but we'd get in a fight.
so on the computer,
i type in a serch
it brings me to a website
called "Mary's Perch,"
its talking about suicide,
i wonder wat that is
and look at that,
ill take their quiz.
It says i should
use poison gas
or try and cut
myself with glass
im talking to
some ppl now,
and for some reason they
keep asking me how
So i tell them why
i want to die and
they listen w/ out a lie.
So i listen to wat
they have to say
about how to
pass away.
So i carry out
a dirty deed
and suddenly my neck
starts to bleed
It hurts so bad,
i dont no y
so this is wat its like
yo die...

2006-12-05 23:33:56 · 14 answers · asked by you. 3 in Singles & Dating

there caught ur atentionsee i know this guy ( kinda) ..wel not really iv been goin to this weekly thing for 2 or 3 weeks now an i just cant stop thinkin bout him..when im not there im thinking about him a good lot of tym an when im there..im just happy hes right there beside me..(he wasnt at the start but he is sumhow now)..i think he lykes me too..iv smiled at him an hes smiled bak..but just in general any advice i havnt even tlked to this gy yet..i duno how to start conversation ..if i had conversation i would

sory bout the gramer

2006-12-05 23:32:43 · 12 answers · asked by grl-needs-help-about-young-love 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I used to have sex all the time. Then about 2 yrs into the relationship he started having trouble keeping an erection. (He is 28 and I'm 24.) He would feel bad about disappointing me when he couldn't keep it hard. Now he isn't interested in having sex at all. We have sex about once every 6 weeks. I never made fun of him or talked bad about him when he went limp. We think that it might have to do with his job. His job is very stressful and he feels like his whole factory rests on HIS shoulders and it doesn't pay well. Could his job(and money problems) be causing his "limpness" and his lack of enthusiasm? I have tried everything to get him interested.

2006-12-05 23:32:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shapeshift,become invisible,fly,read minds and control the weather...but only for 24 hours...what would you do with your powers and why???

2006-12-05 23:31:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just found out that theres a possibility that my dad is not my real dad.. and i feel so hurt and confused and my life has suddenly halted for a while.. i have a lot in mind and i couldnt bear losing my dad.

2006-12-05 23:31:06 · 10 answers · asked by Michelle M 1 in Family

hey i ve kinna got a crush on
this boy
so now what should i do
that he just comes up and talks to me

2006-12-05 23:30:29 · 2 answers · asked by natasha gill 1 in Singles & Dating

In my experience when a man cooks for a women he is expecting something in return. Is that always the case?

2006-12-05 23:28:06 · 30 answers · asked by Peace 2 in Singles & Dating

do you ever feel anothers presence even if they are not physically there?...do you ever dream about somene and the next day they call you or show up?...do you ever just think of someone and then they call???...i have a very close friend...an ex lover actually...and we were very close friends even before we ever became lovers...we have a very deep strong connection and though we havent been lovers for years we have kept our friendship intact..in fact its probably better than before...see it can work,lol...anyways we sometimes go a few months between contact but it often occurs that we have this kind of experience...now im biased here...im all about human behaviour,sensuality and energy...i believe wholeheartedly that energy can connect in incredible ways regardless of distance,and what we can see and touch...what do you think?...has anything like this happened to you too...i expect it has...i think its pretty common...do you think its purely coincidence...or do you think something else

2006-12-05 23:27:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yes i want to become a female. i have felt this way all my life. i know i was suppose to be a female. i do plan to start hormones soon. i am going to try to go out in town today dressed completely as a female and see what happens. i am to the point where i dont want to be a guy anymore at all. why is it so hard for people to understand that transgenders are born this way and are not freak shows? we are born with the genetics of a female but look like a male and it sucks. why are others so judgemental of others and how they are or look? i am married and my wife supports me 100% in changing to a female but i have chosen today to be the day to get out and not hide it anymore and be me, a female.
thanks everyone,
tessa

2006-12-05 23:27:02 · 19 answers · asked by tessamoore63 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 23:26:30 · 7 answers · asked by lymillionaire 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 23:26:02 · 9 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 23:25:14 · 15 answers · asked by boselydia 3 in Weddings

2006-12-05 23:23:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is that excuse of being lazy?

2006-12-05 23:22:02 · 12 answers · asked by chris l 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 23:21:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 23:21:22 · 3 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend lied to me a few months ago about spending time with this girl. Somehow we were able to get back together and work things out. My only stipulation was that he stop contacting the girl. He kept promising that he would, but he still continues to contact her. It's troubling to me because whenever I think about her, I remember that bad period where he was lying to me. However, he says that I'm being unfair by asking him not to contact her. He says that he should be able to be friend with here and I should be okay with it. Is it wrong for me to ask him for this?

2006-12-05 23:20:14 · 10 answers · asked by Natural Beauty 3 in Singles & Dating

I am planning to get married, I am on matrimonial site, finding a good match, during when When I chat with them, I really don't know what to chat to make them feel good, what are the basic things a girls should chat with the guys, Since I cannot chat openly every thing, since all chatt persons cannot be the life partner, I would like to do once I finalise, If you can suggest, what are major things an points I need to consider, to make a guy feel comfortable and good, Pls I need some suggestion, Since I am online for the first time, I never been for a chat.

2006-12-05 23:20:03 · 4 answers · asked by marriage 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 23:19:41 · 10 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating

Tinky Winky ?

If so what do you call him

2006-12-05 23:18:33 · 30 answers · asked by sammyantha 4 in Singles & Dating

New guy at work--worked with him for 3 weeks.

Friendly to everyone, very positive attitude

Seems to make particular effort with me in making eye contact, smiling, touching my arm or shoulder. Winks in passing.

Attractive, well groomed, nice clothes.

His boss managed him before...she thought he was gay, but then heard he had a girlfriend. She is still not sure.

Very limitied information, but what do you think? Friendly, flirting, or gay?

2006-12-05 23:17:12 · 18 answers · asked by Barbara 6 in Singles & Dating

i.e. you got back together and stayed that way, happier and better-informed about who was out there and why you really loved your partner?

i only ever hear of bad luck with that idea but it sounds good in theory.

2006-12-05 23:14:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there's this girl I was courting that told me that her ex wanted her back. she told her ex that there's no more chance for the both of them and that she has no plans of having a boyfriend right now. the next day, I just found out that she and her ex are back together! she told me her ex cried his guts out in front of her while telling her he loves her, which must have convinced her he's sincere. she ate her words! I can't believe it.... I feel like such an idiot. what do you think of this? :(

2006-12-05 23:14:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let me propose to you this scenario..?
So:
If a fourteen-year old boy e-mail and told a girl his real feeling towards her and she said she just wanted to be friends, does it 100% mean that she doesn't like him? Or can there be other reasons? Considering that they are STILL 14, I think that the boy has done a huge mistake because it involved a lot of feeling. What do you think?

2006-12-05 23:13:38 · 10 answers · asked by Life is Like A Box of Chocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 23:13:08 · 7 answers · asked by Wat Da Hell 5 in Singles & Dating

My Grandmother is a little.. educationally challenged. She has a grade 5 education and had never had a chance to get anything better than that being an old fashioned woman.. No one in my family can stand her, except for me. I'm the only one that calls her, talks to her, invites her over ( her husband died in 96 and she's all alone). She has 5 kids that don't call or talk to her, my mother being one of them.

My sisters are all very rude to her, she's deaf in one ear and like I said, she's challenged and doesn't understand many things. Christmas time is coming and the only time my grandmother is ever invited to anything is the family christmas dinner that everyone in the family attends. This year is going to be another Grandma bashing event like it always is.. and I can't stand it anymore. How do I tell people to leave the poor woman alone without freaking out and ruining the whole party?

2006-12-05 23:13:04 · 6 answers · asked by Imani 5 in Family

Are many girls not ask out because they are too good looking? When ever I hear the song I think of Rose White. Beautiful and quiet. I never saw any buys talk to her. I always felt she was untouchable.

2006-12-05 23:11:55 · 5 answers · asked by Wat Da Hell 5 in Singles & Dating

What size is good for a man's "member"? Length and width(girth). What else besides that is important and a turn on to women?

2006-12-05 23:10:13 · 6 answers · asked by kirr45 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 23:09:50 · 12 answers · asked by devilsmisstress83 1 in Weddings