My boyfriend and I have been together a year. Our sex life has always been sporadic and his explaination was a combination of "saving his energy for sport"(he is a professional) and that "fornication is wrong" -religious reasons.
I dont really understand why he would refuse on religous grounds because we have already had sex out-side of marriage.
My main problem isn't the fact that we dont have sex, its that we dont do other things like kiss passionately -he isn't a 'kisser', or engage in any fondling or anything. BUT, when he is tipsy or drunk he initiates sex!!!!
He rings me ten times a day, is constantly doing nice things for me and spending money on me, although he isn't particularly romantic. He hasn't said he loves me, claiming that actions speak louder than words.... I am an attractive blonde, size 6, I go to the gym, I wax, I shower, I smell nice.
My question is, what do I do to encourage my boyfriend to have more sex and to kiss me??I want to feel loved.
2006-12-05
22:23:48
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