2006-12-05 22:31:12 · 23 answers · asked by nicole_elise88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe u should tell her how u feel maybe that would work?
2006-12-05 22:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's likely this is the way her mother treated her. It's sad. Perhaps you could speak to her about how it makes you feel. Try not to get angry or upset or make her feel like you are accusing her of anything. But you can learn from this. You know this is a problem, children need love and cuddles and affection. You can make sure you don't make this mistake if you ever have children of your own. You know it isn't you that is the problem here. I'm sure your mother does love you, she's just not comfortable expressing it.
2006-12-05 22:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That doesn't allways mean you are not loved by her. Some people have a hard time showing there feelings for a loved one. i speak from experience. i love my mom to death but i dont hug her very often or tell her I love her. I show her in other ways.
2006-12-05 22:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am very sorry for you. Maybe you need to talk to her or write her a letter,does she have a mental disorder,I do not mean that disrespectfully. How old is she? I really hope the two of you get this resolved,theres nothing better than a hug from your mom.
2006-12-05 22:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mabey she just thinks that you are getting to old for that kinda thing.
Most kids say it nowerdays cos they dont wanna be ihuged and that infrount of there frindes.
Mabey she thinks the same thing.
Rember life is one big adventure. Theres a different path around every courner. Mabey its time to take the next step. As long as you have a breath in your body the next step is alwyas there.
2006-12-05 22:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Time is nigh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That makes me want to get up and hug my children. I tell them I love, but no as often as I should. thank you
If you wait for things to happen for you, you will wait. hug your mom. tell her you love her. break the ice, once, twice third time. set close to her when watching t.v. or hold her hand when out.
My children do this. for no reason at all.
Maybe she wasn't shown affection as a child or even as an adult. talk about it. let her know its OK.
2006-12-05 22:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why dont you tell her you love her and ask her for a hug and just maybe things might start changing.
2006-12-05 22:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I doubt it is a lack of love, more over it is most likely that she is unsure how to show you this affection since you are an adult. Try talking to her more about your life and see if she engages in what you have to say.
2006-12-05 22:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont be dishearted or feel sad.May be she is facing some problems in life,which you are un aware of them.You are old enough to discuss problems with your mom.Show ur love and feelings to her first.Try to take her in confidence,be friendly with her.Help her in her house work.I think mother and daughter should be best friends.Show ur affection first ,you'll find the result soon..........
2006-12-05 22:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you asked her why? Maybe she feels you don't want a hug now that you are a teen. Try hugging her. See how she responds and tell her you miss being hugged. I bet you she misses it too.
2006-12-05 22:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by moose on the loose 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i no what you mean my mom is exactly the same she also leaves me with my sister all the time whilst she goes out which is not fair on me im on a course so have to be up in morniongs for 1 as well as that i dont live their i live with my flat mate who is 16 ive told her this she never listings i would just try and talk to your mom maybe she will listing to you GOOD LUCK
2006-12-05 22:35:06 · answer #11 · answered by laura j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋