iam a senior in college. we had been dating since we were in the eighth grade. we were engaged and were to be married this spring. last february 12 she was making a road trip to see me with the wedding invitaions when she hit a patch of ice, lost control of her car and was hit by a semi. shes gone now, and i cry about twice a week. im lonely, my grades suck and im drinking like a sailor.....omg i miss her so much...we were inseperateable, best of friends and soul mates....how do i go on
2006-12-05 22:26:36 · 12 answers · asked by bugger_nsox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's ok to grieve on a lost one,but it's not ok to hurt yourself the way you do.
I mean she wouldnt like it if this is how you celebrate her life and what a great person she was.
Only time can heal a broken heart,do something productive with these feelings,something that with honor her life and the memories you guys shared.
I'm very sorry for your loss,But I know she's in safe arms,living with angels.
Good luck mate :)
2006-12-05 22:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If part the household approves of the transfer, and it's inexpensive for a extra increased room, I could say, opt for it. Getting extra for his cash could be an advantage to his existence. Now how approximately the foods? Are they complete foods or snacks. Do they get fruit everyday. And what approximately capsule dispension. Is any individual accountable of that, to do away with errors. Some areas have the overseeing of an RN. But additionally many areas can not have enough money the offerings. And does the dispenser of the tablets, put on rubber gloves for sanitary causes? There's a lot to bear in mind earlier than you displace him. Make definite he can manage the transition, so he does not get afraid after relocating. I have a pal, who died 2 days after her transfer. She used to be dealt with badly through employees in that wing, and she or he went right into a catatonic state of brain. And did not appreciate her daughter. And then she died day after today. So weigh matters cautiously.
2016-09-03 11:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find a positive outlet for yourself. Focus on your hobbies or sports. Find a counselor or psychiatrist to talk too. But more than anything keep in mind what she would want you to do. She wouldn't want you to waste your life things about what could have been.
Keep in mind the healing process is long and difficult. I know from experience. One day at a time. Good Luck
2006-12-05 22:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear that. but as times goes by, u'll feel better. love comes n goes. just move on... im sure ur a guy with a heart of roses n a soul of an angle.. maybe she is not meant for u. believe me there is someone there waiting for u. move on n find love. good luck. i know u cant forget her. but what is past is past.
u can always love her n keep her in the safest place whick is in ur heart n in ur memory.
2006-12-05 22:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by jzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading this made me extremely sad too. I might have done the same. It is really hard to move on but you should do it FOR HER. Think, if she is there somewhere and talking to you what she'd have said to you. I am sure she'd have told you to be brave like her man and face the difficult times. She is there in your heart and would NOT like to see you in such state. So go to your parents, relatives and take part in their activities. Time will heal the wound but till then you have to be brave, for HER.
2006-12-05 22:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god...thats so sad..sorry to hear about it =(....all i can say is i guess just cherish da memories....i actually just recently broke up with my first bf....we were together 4 like almost 8 years and we were engaged also, but i found out he was actually cheating on me =(....i moved on knowing ders no way i will get back with him....even though i stil loved him back then, i learnt to move on by hanging out with my friends more and being more out going and trying new things..just enjoying life while im still young =)...i understand why u cant move on...but im sure as days go by u will learn to move on and face the fact she is really gone...ur just lucky u were the only one she really loved =),...i hope u will be ok soon...take care
2006-12-05 22:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by sWeeTcHe11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest counseling. Most schools have some sort of counselor, but you will probably want a referral. Get in touch with your family and friends. They will support you.
2006-12-05 22:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time you will heal but you will never forget and one day you will know that she would approve of someone new Bless you God be with you.
2006-12-05 22:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you contact a Hospice near you. They have grief counselors there, and/or can put you in touch with one.
I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-12-05 22:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard mate because you are allways compare to her ,drinking not the answer ,only time heals and it can be very slow my advice dont rush let it happen
2006-12-05 22:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋