am software consultant,living in New delhi with My friend
for the last 6 yrs.
am fair in colour,5"11 tall ,good looking ,
i love someone so desperately ,but she is married & elder sis of my friend.now guys i want her in any cost,i even always saw her in my derams,but nobody knows execpt her.coz once i had kissed her in her lips & she forgive me.
but after that i just show her affection that how much i love her by placing kiss on the chick when ever i visited her & she give me a sweet smile in responce.
now guys whatever you think abt me but am totaly mad abt her & i do love her very much.
what do u think that she loves me or not.
2006-12-05 22:16:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well dear its far from love.. its bad. its wrong. you will destroy her life and of her child.. you should behave yourself..
find another girl.. and you will easily 4get her.
2006-12-05 22:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by usman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BuZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!! Wake up......
You are going to break a marriage without even the fault of the women you are talking about. Forget about how you feel and open your eyes and see that the women with whom you are highly obsessed with is your friends sister who is married.
Who cares if you are fair in colour,5"11 tall ,good looking....Learn to be a gentleman first.... haven't you heard "A gentleman never kiss and tells"..... She was nice that she forgive you once as she did not want to be the reason to spoil your friendship but you beware she might actually tell her brother the next time.
Just let her go and find someone else for yourself. Sorry for being harsh but i felt that you should wake up and smell the coffee. Its Bitter friend. Move on and save her marriage.
2006-12-05 22:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you then she will eventually tell you. A lot of women give a sweet smile in response to being kissed on the cheek. It sounds like she is a sweet lady.
I personally wouldn't intervere when someone is married as it can (and always does) cause a lot of heartache for all parties.
It may be that you lust after her or are in love with her because you cannot have her. Things are often more appealing when we know we cannot have them.
If you truly are in love with her then you must leave her alone. If she loves you back then she herself will have to end her marriage to be with you, but that is between her and her husband only.
Take a step back and give her space to work out her feelings. She may be in love with her husband but has not told you as she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
Try to focus on the fact that she is married and therefore unavailable.
Best wishes to you.
2006-12-05 22:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by PP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still have tons of love for Axl. Not sure where all the hate is coming from these days, I figure its the same thing with the recent Metallica album. They made a fool of themselves since the mid-90's, and people bash them mercilessly. Then, they do something right (Metallica with Death Magnetic, GNR with Chinese Democracy) and the public feels lost, becuase they don't have any respectable hard rock musicians to bash anymore, so they make stuff up. Like Death Magnetic, they say the mastering is all messed up, NO ONE in teh entier world really notices anything wrong with the album, they just needed something to bash Metallica about. And I think alot of would-be Chinese Democracy fans are still all hung up about the 14 year wait. Personally, though, I love the album and still have all teh faith in the world in my main man Axl.
2016-05-22 23:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oops! man, thats cool.
see boos, you can do nothing and she can do something. if she loves you very much and if she cant live without you then ask het to talk to her husband get divorced.
after she is divorced, you can marry her. but if that does not happen then dont go to her. let her suffer for what she did. she should not have married the other guy.
but if we look from her end, she might be helpless because of numerous reasons. she might not be in a position to come out of everything and marry you.
she is married and as per 99% of our indian society you should not meet her or have any relationship with her. but there are few relationshops that no one can understand except you and her.
i dont say you are doing wrong and at the same time i dont say that you are doing good. i have no answer.
you both should talk and come to a conclusion. its tuff man.
im really sorry that i could help you out in this matter. i wish you all the best. believe in god and he will make everything right.
cheers!
2006-12-05 22:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
To me, the only rational and morally correct thing to do is move on and forget about her. Don't even try to read her actions because you might be seeing things that are not really there just to convince yourself that the feeling is mutual.
The fact that you are:
(a) "totally mad about her",
(b) "love her very much", and
(c) is now asking whether "she loves you or not"
is irrelevant in the situation.
I believe you already know the answer to your question, but is too afraid to admit and actually act on it because you know you will be hurt in the end. But oftentimes, doing the right thing will cause us pain initially but eventually will save us from longlasting sorrow.
Coveting someone else's wife is downright wrong -- secularly and religiously speaking.
Exodus 20:17 clearly states "You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, or his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor."
2006-12-05 22:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by Alias G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its surprising rather disgusting, a software engineer ( considerably literate person ) does'nt know the difference between true love and infatuation....... wake up....... you have still more fresh females at your credit.. she is after all a second-hand.
2006-12-05 22:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by sona_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yu shall deserve hate bcoz she is already married so don't ever try to express yur love
2006-12-05 22:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by sidd the devil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, hard to guess wether she does or not.anyway she's got a family,she can be happy,you've had a partner for 6 years now who seems honest and loving.why...destroying some lives just for one apparent love?you must be selfish if you do.
2006-12-05 22:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by ** lgreece2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude lay of her , if you are as hansome as u claim u will definately find somone of your liking. Dont ruin her life, grow up
2006-12-05 23:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by shubn_nandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋