Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

Years ago I met a girl and fell in love with her. We both ended up marrying other people. I'm single now and looked her up and found out she's single too and we've been talking alot. I want to be with her but am afraid. What if it doesn't work out, what if she tells me she changed her mind? She tells me she loves me and not to worry about it, she's not going to change her mind. She's beautiful and I worry she'll find another man and be with him. But how do I get rid of these self doubts? We saw each other a week ago and it was almost like magic, we hit it off great and the look in her eyes said she really does love me. I love her so much and yet these self doubts are there.

2006-12-08 23:58:40 · 15 answers · asked by scared_heart 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 23:56:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hey, i really need your help, i have to ask forgiveness from my friend cuz i hurt her feelings..but i want to apologise through a song, ant song you know? thanks

2006-12-08 23:55:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She is very hot for her age.. and its all my fault for this situation. She is our neighbour, and I like her very much. I used to go to her place and admire her when she is busy working at ther home. I cannot control oneday, so hugged and kissed her. we had sex after that.
Now she says she loves me, and want to live with me.. I am doing my 12th. I want to concentrate on my studies. But still I cannot control my feelings for her.
Some body please help me. What should I do?

2006-12-08 23:54:56 · 38 answers · asked by timepass_hain 1 in Singles & Dating

yes, i really am that clueless!

2006-12-08 23:54:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You are talking to a person you really like. Both of you are clearly interested but haven't gone out on an official date yet. You are on the phone with them and someone else calls so you ask if they can hang on a second. You tell the other person to just wait a few minutes you will be down to meet them. You get back on the phone and apologize and then they say "who was that?" 1) At this stage, is asking too intrusive? 2) Should you answer?

2006-12-08 23:52:34 · 15 answers · asked by coolstreem 1 in Singles & Dating

love anal play, but are too afraid to admit it? Is it the best kept secret in the bedroom?

2006-12-08 23:52:23 · 27 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i was goin out with this girl for about a year and three months she always told me she is really happy being in a serious relationship with me, then we had a fight three weeks ago she thought she was pregnant n wudnt talk to me she is not pregnant though it was a stupid fight, and she broke up with me 2 weeks ago, she said she doesnt want a relation ship anymore cause of the preassure, i havent really left her alone ive being calling her n stuff, and i know i shoulndnt do that cause that puts preassure on her and thats what she hates. so i left her alone for a few days, she emailed me yesterday and said she was going to flynns(bar) she said she was goin with a freind and said she will see me if im there.. i didnt go i wanted her to have space and i didnt want her thinking she can play me im not desperate..... she called me a a few mins ago and asked if she could get her stuff from my room, i said of course you can(im trying to keep cool) she said ok, then i just said cya..

2006-12-08 23:52:05 · 3 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Singles & Dating

I am not emotionally attracted to women but I am physically attracted to them.

I am wondering if it would be OK to go down on a woman for my own pleasure even though I have no interest in becoming connected emotionally?

2006-12-08 23:46:42 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 23:45:51 · 18 answers · asked by lily 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 23:44:15 · 7 answers · asked by ANANTH S 2 in Singles & Dating

a gift that boys will surely like..a birthday gift...

2006-12-08 23:44:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I fell in love with someone and I love him like I've never loved anyone before, even my ex fiance. I never knew love could be like this. He makes me want to be a better person, heck, he's made me a better person simply by loving him. He cares about me very much but is in love with someone he cannot have either.

There's a guy who likes me and we're supposed to go on a second date tonight. I'm scared. I don't think I could even kiss him. My thoughts will race and scream how wrong it is. How I love the other guy and how I don't want to drag this guy into the mess.

Let me clarify, the guy I am in love with never said never, it's simply not right now. We're good friends (and a bit more) and like I said, he cares very much. He's aware of the other guy and tells me to go, it's not fair for me to sit and wait for him.

Only it doesn't feel right. At least I don't think it does.

What would you do?

2006-12-08 23:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by kimmp1 3 in Singles & Dating

isn't it about time you faced your problem head-on?

2006-12-08 23:42:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other day I walk into stable and I find my goat with another man. She looking for him very sexy. I am now worry that she like him, since she is scratching her horns and making crazy.

I fear for her.

2006-12-08 23:41:12 · 33 answers · asked by Steve-o87 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or just forget about it

2006-12-08 23:38:35 · 20 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Too much to drink, and way too much rough sex last night. What do you recomend?

2006-12-08 23:37:22 · 28 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

date,fall in love,marry a 41 year old twice diorviced,woman 4 kids ages 21,16,8 year old twins
do you think i have a chance at true love honestly

2006-12-08 23:36:36 · 14 answers · asked by nicname 5 in Singles & Dating

he is in love or not , we think he is in love tell us ur .......................................

2006-12-08 23:33:53 · 2 answers · asked by lalit k 1 in Singles & Dating

although i'm in steady relationship from past 4 yrs,and have real difficulty getting my boyfriend serious coz he never proposed me..i approched him and made him additictied to me so that so he and me are angaged now for about a yr now. lately(about 6 months) i met this new person who is incredebile honest and good-looking. we were flat-mates than and this boy told me that he fancies me and after my reveleing that im engaged, he tried to be friends with my boyfriend and never made me feel awkward before my boyfreind....infact.we r good freinds now! but now i have relocated with my boyfriend about 1 month ago to a diff country...we are in touch through mails....my probelm is that cant stop thinking about him..so that so im dreaming about him every night...what should i do?

2006-12-08 23:33:34 · 19 answers · asked by Deez 2 in Singles & Dating

The problem is I think she likes my bestfriend at work. When the three of us are together she is always flirting with him and laughing at every single thing he does, funny or not. The final straw came yesterday when for the second time she asked me if I was going to happy hour after work, only to ask my friend too, and say that she would only go if he went. This girl is not stupid. She knows I like her too but I'm unsure if she knows that it upsets me to see the two of them having such a good time together. When I'm around the two of them and they are sharing one of those moments I just get very silent and usually have to leave the area. Aside from avoiding them at all costs I don't have any idea what to do. Would I be out of line if I asked her to stop being so flirtatious with my friend at work while I am around the two of them because it affects my work? I don't want to stop them from getting together, I just don't want to see them together.

2006-12-08 23:31:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a guy in a hotel and he is so handsome and he came up to me that night and we talked and then the next day we went out and ever since we've been meeting. we have slept together but one time he told me that he cant commit to anything cause of his work, he is in the US millitary. and i got hurt but im still hanging with him. he says he likes my company etc. last week we went to the disco and i was dancing with a guy who apparently kissed me on the forehead and he saw me and made a fuss about it all. and now he wasnt talking to me for a while cause he got mad at me. and now he is showing so much attention to me etc. i mean, im confused since he told me that he cant commit, why did he get jealous and is now giving me all the affection and attention??? how do i handle this?? please help

2006-12-08 23:31:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 23:31:18 · 5 answers · asked by him h 1 in Singles & Dating

I've met this guy 5 months ago and since we didnt know each other at all we decided to be friends before we date. We just talked as friends and went out and had fun. We're both very shy people and thats the problem. We discovered that we dont do anything romantic and eventhough we like eachother alot it's just plain boring, it doesnt feel like a bf/gf relationship but I wanna try make it work. What can we do to make things a little bit more romantic?



sex or making out is off limits.

2006-12-08 23:31:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

through me, moneys still come out of my check and she says she will but shes dragging her feet
i don't want to cause any problems with her but it kinda bugs me...iss there anything i can do..??
thankyou for your help!!!!!

2006-12-08 23:30:25 · 14 answers · asked by johnnny805 2 in Marriage & Divorce

otherwise he is a loyal person i am afraid that if he continues visiting these sites he may end up dating with somebody,afterall it's human nature to explore.

2006-12-08 23:28:55 · 38 answers · asked by depressed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think my girlfriend want to break up with me cuz she thinks she make fast decision in dating me but i love her so much and something could happen to me she broke up with me , what can or do i have to do?

2006-12-08 23:28:23 · 7 answers · asked by midodisho 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out my sister in law is hosting christmas eve. At thansgiving, her and my brother in law strutted right by me (when they arrived at my inlaws) without even acknowleging me. My sister in law also "helped out in the kitchen" without washing her hands! It was easy to avoid the items she touched that day, but she's making the whole meal! Aside from boycotting the event, what should I do?

2006-12-08 23:27:40 · 10 answers · asked by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 in Family

2006-12-08 23:27:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl who is 14 and wants to come and live with me and my family. She is miserable at home and just wants to live with us. Her mum will obviously say "no", but is there a way to have her anyway. My mum said she should be able to, and something about child services. Please help, and give facts, not opinions. I'm in Australia by the way. Thanx

2006-12-08 23:26:42 · 7 answers · asked by Homunculus 1 in Family