I fell in love with someone and I love him like I've never loved anyone before, even my ex fiance. I never knew love could be like this. He makes me want to be a better person, heck, he's made me a better person simply by loving him. He cares about me very much but is in love with someone he cannot have either.
There's a guy who likes me and we're supposed to go on a second date tonight. I'm scared. I don't think I could even kiss him. My thoughts will race and scream how wrong it is. How I love the other guy and how I don't want to drag this guy into the mess.
Let me clarify, the guy I am in love with never said never, it's simply not right now. We're good friends (and a bit more) and like I said, he cares very much. He's aware of the other guy and tells me to go, it's not fair for me to sit and wait for him.
Only it doesn't feel right. At least I don't think it does.
What would you do?
2006-12-08 23:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by kimmp1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take each step day by day. LOL
2006-12-08 23:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy's not ready to commit and says he is in love with someone else, then he simply just using you. Get away from him now. Take a long time to get over him and then when the time is right, try to date again. He cares for you but not in the right way, he doesn't love you and as long as you are willing to be used, he will use you.
2006-12-08 23:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by patsy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just think! the guy your in love with is in love with someone else! is that some1 else you because if it is not then he is feeling the same way your feeling about your date but to you. i've been through this sort of thing and you have to try and move on it would be best for both of you. listen to your heart girl. oh and the date thing i should leave as you are only using him if you dont like him. good luck!!!
2006-12-09 01:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by designed for life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stay away from him for your own sake. you cant move on or get over him while he is still around. however good a friend he is.
2006-12-08 23:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋