Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

This guy I work with and went out once but keeps asking me out always rubs his chest when I talk to him. It really bugs me and I wonder why he does it...does anyone know why?? He gives you that look like he is looking right through you (creepy) and then he just moves his hand over his chest up and down the WHOLE time you talk or he talks and it's like AHHHh. haha.....soo...anyone got any clues as to why he does this?? THANKS!

2006-12-08 18:38:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We broke up not very long ago, and she has a good guy friend
When we were together, she said to me
"I don't know I should trust him or not" (She meant the guy friend)
I didn't get it, I thought : " it's just friendship, why is she confused on whether she should believe in him or not? And what can make she believe or doubt in him?" That quite confused me at that time.
Because I am not the kind that value friendship too much, so I didn't get it until we broke up, and you see, she's with that guy friend now. It's both my fault (anger) and her fault (immature). (Whatever I don't care, let's not waste time on this)

And she told me recently, the reason she said that is that the guy friend is way too kind to her, she means treating her very very kind, so she didin't know she should "trust" him or not.
She's with me and is confused whether she should "trust" another guy? I still don't think it's very cool today.

What's your opinion of this girl, and how do you think of her behavior?

2006-12-08 18:38:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this really cute guy at Boomers on a feild trip when I was an assistant teacher at this daycare I worked at during the summer. We started talking and he gave me his #. Now we are friends but he hasn't asked me out yet. Its either because he's shy or he doesn't like me. So I'm planning on making the 1st move. But usually a guy asks the girl out. And if I do plan on asking him out how do i do it because I' really shy too?

2006-12-08 18:37:57 · 5 answers · asked by °lia° 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know much about her

2006-12-08 18:37:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had been flirting with a guy for a few weeks when i found out he has a girlfriend, well im bi and i was joking with him about a threesome...as it turns out his girlfriend is bi too and he and i both agreed to do it but then i got shy and made it seem like a joke? how do i find out if he was joking?

2006-12-08 18:37:12 · 7 answers · asked by nope 2 in Singles & Dating

a watch or a shirt for chirstmas

2006-12-08 18:36:26 · 12 answers · asked by girly_goth1 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm looking for a guy just to have sex with but i want an actual decent one. all i can find are creeps

2006-12-08 18:35:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and never followed through with it, but when she saw you again - she said you made her shy?

2006-12-08 18:34:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my ex...well I broke up with him...and then my stupid friend went after him...and now he won't talk to me or anything....and I still really love him and things but should I ask him out again

2006-12-08 18:34:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am an attractive 33 year old woman who recently had a brief non-sexual(yet at the same time,steamy and passionate)romance wth a 22 year old guy.I liked the fact that he and I were both musicians and could play music together,as well as a physical that attraction brought us together.Though he got back with his ex,who is 24(closer to his age),the experience was a positive one and I realize now that I'm more drawn to men younger than me.Does such an online dating service exist.The people I meet on Match are much too conservative for me.Thanks for any leads.P.S..Obviously some people will have a predjudice with this type of circumstance,however,I also know of several men who explain why they are drawn to older women.So,if your open-minded,please give me your experience,if you are not experienced or have anything good to say,all I can say to you is.....Have a great life.

2006-12-08 18:34:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have heard that women can masturbate Stealthily, at any place and any time (even in their workplace) in the midst of all the people without any one noticing. Is this true. If yes, how they do it?.

Also tell me is there any way, we guys can know it when they are doing it? (by means of observing their facial expressions etc.).

My second part of the question is "what kind of things actually provoke them to do it. Like for example, we guys get provoked to do it when we see a sexy girl. what kind of things inspire them to do this.

This is really a serious question & I have some relevance in asking this. This is not asked for cheap thrill

2006-12-08 18:33:55 · 5 answers · asked by licker_sucker_bummer 1 in Singles & Dating

Would it be to let you be free to do whatever (within reason i.e: No cheating, lying, flirting, anything to hurt the other person)Having time to do what you want? What tell me what you'd like in a relationship. And if your what I agree with lets make babies. Thanks

2006-12-08 18:33:13 · 5 answers · asked by Mike Hunt 2 in Singles & Dating

all the sudden my best friend just stops talking to me for no reason and just starts hanging out with different people! I already made new friends but im still pissed off at him for joining a "Cooler Crowd" and just stop talking to me. I was basically one of the only people in the whole school who actually was his friend everyone else hated him except for the new crowd he is hangin out with.i hate people like that ! What is your opinion on this?

2006-12-08 18:33:03 · 11 answers · asked by scruffles 2 in Friends

I'm lonely :(

2006-12-08 18:31:35 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 18:30:46 · 14 answers · asked by ika sweety 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 18:30:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a person in my life, from the first day i know that he luv's me but i always refused him. His feeling are still same, n 1 thng more he also become my vry vry good frnd i share every thng wt him n he shares wt me wtout thinking that he luv's me i did it , he luv's me a lot , want to see me happy can do any thng for me, are frndship is now covering 1 1/2 years . n now he again propsed me . I dnt know wt to do . say him yes or no . one thng that i dnt want to lose him as a frnd bt i cant say yes. i thng some thng has graped me i dnt knw plz help me

2006-12-08 18:29:29 · 7 answers · asked by shazia s 1 in Friends

she is single.long distance relationship.we meet once in 20days.have great sex life.she, sometimes i fear may eventually leave me and marry-as she has no future with me.
today she is emotionally dependent on me for mere survival.should i break up?how?continue how and why?

2006-12-08 18:29:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

abortion will make women stop trying to get rid of babies. I knew this 15 year old girl whos mother would not let her get an abortion because of her religious values. Rather then beg her mother she poisened herself in attempts to kill the baby inside of her. It worked and the girl had to have the baby surgically removed from her stomach but luckily it did not cause her any permanent damage. there will also be sick *** women who despite adoption, will just throw a baby in a dumpster and forget about it. If you illegalize abortion this is whats going to happen to many women.

2006-12-08 18:28:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I guess the beginning is a good place to start. I got out of a relationship, and along comes this other guy. He's not your typical guy, but we started talking a LOT and I enjoyed it. I knew he liked me in a romantic way, but I couldn't say the same because I wasn't ready. One day he told me he loved me... I didn't know what to say. I didn't love him... I liked him, and beginning to in a romantic light, but not that yet. He apologized, but he still feels the same. He even tells me every day (not uncomfortably, just when we say goodbye). He really likes me a lot, and I feel I'm not being fair because I don't want to lose him but I just can't commit to him. Today at a dance he asked for a hug and I did. Was this wrong, or..? I just feel really bad about the whole thing. Now this old guy shows up out of the blue and...I'm ashamed of it, but I still feel there's something there. Ah what do I do!? What do you think?

2006-12-08 18:27:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we dated for over 1 yr/were so serious he mentioned marriage to me,though we had our arguments but who doesn't?he had a playboy streak but i tamed it (whoo!)bc i knew he was worth it (he's SO funny, adorable,i love being around him,and focused; we're in college and he's studying for med school to be a surgeon!).but then i had to leave school for a semester so i broke up with him for 5 months.he waited for me to come back to him (that is totally unlike him,so i knew he really loved me).we got back together but our parents/friends were not happy with it.he was distrustful of me and we'd argue more so i dumped him. he refused to get back together a couple weeks later,and was going on a date with a new girl.i got so mad that i "yes"ed a relationship with a new guy.my ex found out and the next day he was in a relationship with that girl.i dumped the new guy.my ex chose the new girl over me,but he would still call.he would tell her 2 b more like me/was selfish to her,so she dumped him.IDEAS?

2006-12-08 18:27:57 · 1 answers · asked by stelze 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to find information on marriage,birth,divorce certificates or criminal records that are free.

2006-12-08 18:27:19 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy in my class, i've known him for 3 years and we're friends. i found out that he likes one of my friends, so i want to get over him. but everytime that i see him or talk to him, my heartbeat speeds up & i remember why i like him so much. but, i know that i have to get over him, but i still want to be friends with him. I think about him CONSTANTLY i'm not joking, i think about him so much it seriously drives me insane, but when i see him i act like nothing is wrong. what do you think is the best thing i should do?

2006-12-08 18:27:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need real help. plsease

2006-12-08 18:26:47 · 10 answers · asked by danny b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do I need to explain????

2006-12-08 18:26:22 · 10 answers · asked by bepo_a 2 in Singles & Dating

I really miss my ex-boyfriend, we haven't talked in over a month.
He was due to have backsurgery in November and now I find myself thinking about him and wondering how he did? I guess I shouldn't call him. I am not sure he wants a call from me. But I do care. Any ideas?

2006-12-08 18:25:59 · 8 answers · asked by e_piphany214 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 18:25:30 · 10 answers · asked by when you THOUGHT shit matters 2 in Singles & Dating

No one ever approaches me and I have given up on finding a mate cause i am so ugly. Any ideas?

2006-12-08 18:25:01 · 6 answers · asked by anonbealove 3 in Singles & Dating

I jUst wAnT To KnOw

2006-12-08 18:24:29 · 7 answers · asked by 2 Minutes ago 1 in Singles & Dating

If the night you stand if not the night you wanted. Than thing run half way, what is your next action?

2006-12-08 18:24:15 · 7 answers · asked by melvinsyc 2 in Friends