We broke up not very long ago, and she has a good guy friend
When we were together, she said to me
"I don't know I should trust him or not" (She meant the guy friend)
I didn't get it, I thought : " it's just friendship, why is she confused on whether she should believe in him or not? And what can make she believe or doubt in him?" That quite confused me at that time.
Because I am not the kind that value friendship too much, so I didn't get it until we broke up, and you see, she's with that guy friend now. It's both my fault (anger) and her fault (immature). (Whatever I don't care, let's not waste time on this)
And she told me recently, the reason she said that is that the guy friend is way too kind to her, she means treating her very very kind, so she didin't know she should "trust" him or not.
She's with me and is confused whether she should "trust" another guy? I still don't think it's very cool today.
What's your opinion of this girl, and how do you think of her behavior?
2006-12-08 18:38:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she is confused and she needs to do everyone a favor and stay off the circuit for a while.
2006-12-08 18:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be trying to make you jealous. To see how you will react to her having someone else. She is trying to point out to you how nice he is to her and I think she might miss you a little - or a lot. You didn't say how old you two are - but maybe she is just messing with you - especially if you 2 just broke up and she is already talking to you about another guy.
2006-12-08 18:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by daybreakxoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, i could be slightly "pissed" - yet in actuality that feeling could probable be protecting jealously. not asserting which you're jealous that she went out and did drugs, yet perhaps that she's experienced some thing which you have not. No, that is not a super deal. you may not sell off her. She got here right out and advised you what she did, while she incredibly did not could. definite, you'll be ok with it because of the fact she did not cheat on you - yet you may already assume that with any drug she does she won't cheat on you. do not overreact, she in simple terms tried some thing.
2016-12-13 05:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by presswood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and her are broken up right? good for you. Cos, obviously she is very confused. she doesn't "trust" this guy cos he may have had bad relationships in the past, or he is trying to get some of her. But, you should just leave her alone for awile until she figures her mind out. You need to tell her this as soon as possible. or else, it will go down between you and her very badly.
2006-12-08 18:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by christi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about her behavior. Its about yours.
You know that this guy isn't just her friend...not in his mind anyway. He is trying to get with her.
Any girl that you arent sure about...kick to the curb. You don't need the hassle and she will only get in the way when someone truly special comes along.
2006-12-08 18:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by cybrrgeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's confused, but the other guy is sneaky. He probably trying to get with her.
2006-12-08 18:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is confuse.. let her know that you are jealous of him being nice to her. she just want to see how much you love her.
2006-12-08 18:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes the guy
2006-12-08 18:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by EryKha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋