Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

My friend Anhsu and I went to school and college in Srinagar, Kashmir. I met her last in 1985. She lived in Amirakadal in Srinagar. She had a younger brother named Sanjay. I am desperately looking for her as I am coming back to India and would like to get in touch with her again. Her husband's name is Mohan and I think he was an engineer with NTPC. Last time I talked to her she had daughter named Esha as well. Please let me know is there anyway I can get her addreSs or het contact email address. Thanks!!!

2006-12-08 23:25:50 · 6 answers · asked by Rubina 1 in Friends

she said that she just was not happy in our relationship so this person is a companion to her and that she met this person about 3 months ago and had been keeping it from me now she wants a divorce what do i do?

2006-12-08 23:25:42 · 23 answers · asked by jrgimp 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who married a foreigner. He is still in his country, but is always asking her to send him money. She smells a rat but they're already married. Please advise.

2006-12-08 23:25:03 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i talked to him
then i liked him
now i feel like i love him.... maybe its because i do huh?

he makes me feel different and i get this weird but good feelining inside whenever i think or even look at him...
its killing me

2006-12-08 23:24:30 · 5 answers · asked by Hill 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 23:23:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you think?..age really matter?...older younger..yeah i know there is too a certain point..

if someone was 18..she could go out with a 25 year old right..?.

but its also good to find someone same age?..whats a good age to most people?

2006-12-08 23:23:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok...here is the thing...long distance relationship...for 1 1/2 years ...things whent great for one year but now it seems that our relationship is geting cold...what can i do re-start the fire in her hart..i know i love her but she is confused...any sugestions grls ? except fowers and all the comon gifts

2006-12-08 23:21:23 · 8 answers · asked by santean1989 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

On your blind date...
Dirty dancing,
Candle light Dinner,
Get to know each other Chat in a park,
or something else?

2006-12-08 23:18:25 · 15 answers · asked by Ramses-the son of light 3 in Singles & Dating

plz post

2006-12-08 23:17:06 · 11 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Singles & Dating

..i have a 4 year old son..i am an only child..he is an only grandchild..my mum is nearly 60 and had a stroke which put her in a wheelchair at the age of 43..so her health is bad..i love them dearly and want us all to have a great christmas but mum and i argue so much..i bite my tongue as her health is bad..too much stress may kill her..but why should i put up with endless put downs which she then tries to rectify by spending money on me or my son...all i want is a sorry...not more bath oils or whatever...help...we are due to spend 2 weeks there..i will never last that long less she LISTENS to me...her 'selective' memory is superb...hears wot she likes..remembers less...but christmas is about family the way i see it and i love them so much...we just do not get along all the time...do i stay at home with my son or go and risk it all kicking off on christmas day...help.....happy hols.....

2006-12-08 23:17:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My gf has had alot of problems recently and has become more distant over the past month. I talked with her and she's said I don't need to worry, but I can't get my mind off of it. I can barely sleep, eat and I've had headaches for the past week. I just don't know what to do...

2006-12-08 23:16:15 · 11 answers · asked by Alan S 1 in Singles & Dating

we were involved 7years before .he is my classmate because of some misunderstanding he broke up with me & married to another girl but i am still in love with him he had a baby also.now i come to know that he still loves me & he came to me & propose for marraige again now i am in confusion what to do my family did't accept this but i dont want to lose him .please tell me what to do?

2006-12-08 23:15:52 · 41 answers · asked by ammy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

At first it was just a few cookie crumbs. And then larger objects started to appear. I remember once when I was about to give her oral, I saw something shiny...I reached in and pulled out a set of keys..and then once when we were about to do it, I felt an obstruction in there, so I reached in and pulled out a Power Ranger! I'm wondering now what else might be in there....should I put on some goggles, grab a flashlight and go in? Who knows, maybe I'll find a million dollars!

2006-12-08 23:15:40 · 17 answers · asked by Poster22 2 in Singles & Dating

I proposed to her the other day and she accepted and now today her father said she will be kicked out of the family if she marries me. I am very well financially, and it maddens me. I dont konw what to do. She wants to marry me but she also wants to keep her family happy. I feel like blowing up. Any advice?

2006-12-08 23:15:37 · 21 answers · asked by Heindrich 1 in Weddings

should i stop my relationship with him? we started on internet from two sides of world cuz of him i stoped with my ex bf , ignore others . but recently got tight, and he said cuz no more fight till we are completely together stop till he come and take me with him . but i dont know if he is trying to get rid or not, i love him even more than befor that now we dont talk. dont want make mistake . wht to do?

2006-12-08 23:14:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a girl for four months. And I am sure that I am in love with her truly and intensely. And I cant imagine a life without her. I am dying without her. We met twice each other. And I proposed her through phone. When I was a friend she told me that I am very nice. But after proposing she told me that she hates me. I cant understan her. She is really a nice girl. She likes me a lot. But I dont know why she is avoiding me. And she is not love with any other guy also. I need her. I wanna marry her. Please just say me that what can I do or What can I say to get her love. How should I behave with her?

2006-12-08 23:13:46 · 14 answers · asked by Danndy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 23:11:33 · 7 answers · asked by him h 1 in Singles & Dating

i am not going to waffle about the relationship itsself, just the pointers are
1 - hes cheated more than once
2 - he sleeps all day and is awake all nite on the computer
3 - he wants to be "friends" with the last "other woman"
4 - we have a daughter (aged 2) together
5 - he talks to me like my dad
6 - we are in debt up to our eyeballs

HELP

what would you do??

2006-12-08 23:11:03 · 26 answers · asked by cadippoz 1 in Singles & Dating

My son has been dating this girl for a year. She is insecure and extremely jealous. When he tried to break up with her, she fell pregnant and he has had the pregnancy confirmed. Now she thinks he is going to stay with her because of the baby. As he has explained to her, he cannot live with her because of her raging arguments and being accused of things he hasnt done. Now she is constantly on the phone to him saying that she is threatening a miscarriage and i think all her tactics are to get his attention. It seems she will do anything to get what she wants. She has even told me (his mother) to butt out of their lives. First of all I dont butt into their lives and I will stand by my son whether she likes it or not. Any sound advice out there. We are not use to this sort of behaviour and quite frankly I dont know how to handle her.??

2006-12-08 23:09:43 · 5 answers · asked by Vonnie S 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 23:05:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother-in-law has had Alzheimers for about 7 years and she is now very ill and we don't expect her to make it through the night. My husand asked me to write a eulogy. So I wrote one that I thought was great, but apparently not! They are not a touchy feely family, they are always there for each other but there is no "I love yous" or tactile emotions.
So after my first attempt which my husband hated, he has suggested that I write one from our kids. I have a 17 year old step daughter who "nanna" doted on. And 4 and 6 year old boys who have never known nanna completely well. So i wrote a Eulogy using the letters "why we love you nannna". For EG When you took us too feed the ducks. But I hate it. Surely she deserves more. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

2006-12-08 23:05:18 · 3 answers · asked by Karen D 3 in Family

Alright ive posted a few questions about my current situation well heres another question..just got dumped from a 5 year relationship where my girlfriend broke up with me to date another guy...its been a week since weve broken up..she said she wanted to see other people since ive been with her since she was 14 and that sounded all fine and dandy but when another man is influencing her decisions i don think thats right at all.well im freakin miserable and i know a few girls from my past that i could call up right now to hang out with..im not talking about sex i just want to feel some attention from girls i know will give it to me..the thing is im not sure i will be able to not have sex with them if the situation comes up..i dont want to be having sex with girls now just because everything is so fresh with the breakup but im so tired of just thinking of her with this guy and i need to get my mind of this..good or bad idea to hang out with these other girls??

2006-12-08 23:03:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is Deaf too... She have little son who is 4 year old. I want be adopt her son beucase she is crazies beat me, she won't hurt her son and Only me why, I tried help her and her son our be three family good but she don't want it why. I think her son's can sign language with his mom then he talking hearing with me right. I really love her son so cute much. what I think I can take away her son from her, I was mistakes something it.

2006-12-08 23:02:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been asked to take my girls on an expenses paid flight to HK. However i am worried that the flight will be too long for them and they will cause chaos on the plane. Does anybody have any experinces or ideas. I am willing to turn down the offer if my girls don't benefit as they have never been on a plane before. Serious answers only please.

2006-12-08 22:59:52 · 18 answers · asked by china doll 5 in Family

posh and you were at uni and you had this commonish friend who kept jokingly copying your accent and making comic remarks about your posh school and rich parents would you be offended?This person has made it very clear she is joking and apologised if she caused offence and also says she won't do it anymore! shes really nice and i know she is only joking and doesn't mean anything by it! Would this annoy/offend you or should i just lighten up!?

2006-12-08 22:59:43 · 18 answers · asked by name. 2 in Friends

2006-12-08 22:59:22 · 16 answers · asked by Redhead 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When a husband/wife does something that destroys the trust you once had, how can it be built up again? We've been to councelling together & I've done so much research on the internet about the issue of trust but I just can't seem to go forward with this problem. It's not that I think he'll cheat on me, it's not that I think he doesn't love me. He has done everything possible to set things straight with us. The problem now is with me...I don't know how to get out of my mind what's happened in the past & I don't know how to trust someone again once they've betrayed that.
all I see on the internet is "get over it" "put it in the past" "go forward" "don't look back"
This is all good advice but nothing tells me HOW???

2006-12-08 22:58:23 · 16 answers · asked by Angel Eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 22:57:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 22:57:26 · 4 answers · asked by Waineo G 1 in Singles & Dating

Will it work?

2006-12-08 22:55:32 · 10 answers · asked by Poster22 2 in Singles & Dating