ok...here is the thing...long distance relationship...for 1 1/2 years ...things whent great for one year but now it seems that our relationship is geting cold...what can i do re-start the fire in her hart..i know i love her but she is confused...any sugestions grls ? except fowers and all the comon gifts
2006-12-08 23:21:23 · 8 answers · asked by santean1989 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Make a trip out to see her for the weekend. Plan a special weekend. Spend time together and talk. See how she feels. Things are hard when you are far apart. Are you engaged? Have you popped the question? If you know you love her, do you know you want to spend the rest of your life with her? Just some questions to see if you might possibly become engaged in the near future. Maybe that is what she wants? Best wishes to you.
2006-12-08 23:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been having the longest long distant relationship ever--we used to be, we were able to handle 5yrs... The secret Communication... This keep the love alive! And being honest with her. Visit her in her place invite her for dinner at least once a month or if its really that far call her every now and then just to say you love her.
and never forget to tell her how important she is to you.
2006-12-08 23:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by meaurge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, where are you, Jail. If it was service you wouldn't be ashamed to say, would you. I'm only assuming though. And, why so long?
Are you trying to buy her off, is this the plan? Well I have no idea what to buy her, that would buy her off? you'd have to send her something, wouldn't you? why not a gift certificate and let her pick out her own present and then, you could give her the amount that you thought she was worth, and, tell her.
2006-12-09 00:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something spontanious. Go see her and sweep her off her feet again. If she is still unsure after that, then maybe it is time to move on. I know, it's hard. But if you have made it 1 1/2 years in a LDR, then maybe she needs to see you, hold you, and know that you still love her....take a week vacation and go see her....make it a surprise!
2006-12-09 00:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by KJ97Y100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise her with something very exciting. Try some love games, roll play, dress up , play games that you have to take one piece of clothe for every wrong answer, things like that. It'll bring back the enthusiasm.
2006-12-08 23:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you could learn to spell or use spell check. Secondly you are not going to rebuild passion by being apart. If you are that serious about her, then move to where she is. Otherwise, let the relationship go.
2006-12-08 23:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Figure out what you are doing differently. Talk to her. Try to spend some time with her or lastly -- Move On
2006-12-09 06:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be really romantic (compliment her). Try and see her as much as you can. She proberly does care for you but don't realise how much.
2006-12-08 23:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋