She is Deaf too... She have little son who is 4 year old. I want be adopt her son beucase she is crazies beat me, she won't hurt her son and Only me why, I tried help her and her son our be three family good but she don't want it why. I think her son's can sign language with his mom then he talking hearing with me right. I really love her son so cute much. what I think I can take away her son from her, I was mistakes something it.
2006-12-08 23:02:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because she thinks that you want to take her son from her, she beats you to protect her son. She is the mother and will do anything to protect her little child from anyone who intrudes in her life. Go slowly on this relationship or you will loose at the end.
2006-12-08 23:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Big&Tall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deaf people get very up set when they cannot understand or explain.
She needs to understand the anger issues.
There are many reasons, but the one that is most treatable is no reason.
These people suffer a chemical imbalance, so by a simple blood test and supplying the chemicals by a tablet it is cured in most cases. In her case the imbalance is caused by stress in her life.
The chemical is call serotonin. But doctor must test blood on regular bases and adjust the chemicals accordingly.
Other need major life style, attitude and other changes. A good psychiatrist can turn them around.
2006-12-09 16:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are saying your deaf wife beats you?
I'd recommend going to her parents first. Ask them about this behavior. Ask them how they would deal with it.
Then go home and tell her that using violence in your home will not be tolerated. If she raises her hand or her voice to you you need to exit the room. Go wash the car or something. End of conversation.
Implement the suggestions her parents gave you or seek out a counselor/ psychologist/psychiatrist and ask their advice. What ever you do, do it consistently.
2006-12-09 13:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pls use correct English, can;t understand ur question,
But still i will try to answer this, whether male or female no has a right to beat any other person, it is against the human rights and moreover u have a right to defend urself.....Take ur wife to a counsellor. bythe way is the son urs or ur wife's? that is not clear... u have been saying his son(rather her son), does that mean the child doesn't belong to u?
2006-12-09 07:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by asha v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops when she hits you next. Have her put in jail and you get the son. No excuse or reason for violence. If she's going to hit you she needs help that you cant make her get.
2006-12-09 07:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by danathefairy1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is strange, Why DOES she beat YOU for? Did you do something, or she justs beats you because she wants, if she does it for fun, than you just go ahead and adopt her son, and tell her you don't wanna be with her by a letter since she can't hear.
2006-12-09 07:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Bob the Cat.™ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I apologize but I cannot understand exactly what you are asking. You need to use the spell check and learn a little more in writing!
2006-12-09 07:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by calieyecandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See a deaf cousilor!
2006-12-09 07:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are she was beat in another relationship, or by her father/mother This is something a good councellor is going to have to help fix
2006-12-09 07:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by zelin 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask help from experts . She apparently needs professional help.
2006-12-09 11:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋