2006-12-08 18:30:46 · 14 answers · asked by ika sweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I would definitely not be in a relationship with a person if I did not trust him. So to answer to your question, I will/do trust my boyfriend to be faithful to me, no matter how far we are away from one another.
If you have any doubts about your bf being faithful then you may want to reevaluate your relationship.
Remember, honesty is one of the key points to a healthy relationship.
2006-12-08 18:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by healthnut 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How far and for how long. If your boy friend is stationed in the military servie, let say in Japan or Korea. He will most likely be away from you at least 24 month in Japan or 13 months in Korea, and even though you trust him and he really loves you, he is going to be looking around at other girls. Statistics are about 65 % or more will visit a house of ill repute at least once and probably more during such a long stay. He will probably love you just as much when he comes marching home but for God's sake, dont ask him if he has screwed around on you while he has been away.
2006-12-08 18:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to feel secure in a relationship where you are seperated by a long distance for a long period of time. I assume you are asking us this question because you are in such a realtionship now and you are having some fears as to if he is being faithful to you. There is no way to really know for sure. If you begin to doubt him, it will cause nothing but trouble for you, him, and your relationship. Don't accuse him of messing around or having a girl on the side. Just continue to love him and be supportive during your hopefully short time apart.
If there is real love, trust will be there and so will faithfulness. If he cannot be faithtful, then he doesn't really love you as much as one loves that ONE love of their life. It doesn't mean he doesn't care, but he just hasn't found in you the ultimate love. If you both have found that ultimate love, then you will trust each other too. It is normal to have some worries, but at the end of your thoughts, you should always come back to one truth... you LOVE each other and that is all you need to know.
2006-12-08 18:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how far someone is from you if you love someone enough you will trust that person. Love isnt nothing without trust how can you be with someone if you dont trust that person.
2006-12-08 18:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know.i feel like i'll be in love with love and know that love loves me but that love is not hear with me instead it's so far a way.i wouldnt be albe to live my life with the other half of me way across town some damn wear.whos to hold me when i need to be held? whos to be there when i don't won't to be alone? i can't do it cause i need my love my half next to me.you love hem yes both you guys cant live to lives so far away.you know? TRUST
2006-12-08 18:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by when you THOUGHT shit matters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I currently live 3000 miles away from my boyfriend, but I trust him completely.
To be in love, you need to trust him and have him able to trust you back.
2006-12-08 18:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by memoriesareabeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very diffecult task to maintain a long distance relationship. And chances are higher of mistrust. And you should ask this question to yourself how much he loves you. Trust me you know the answer.
2006-12-08 18:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Raul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but usually that does not work when you live apart you grow in different directions, you date someone not only for love it is also to have someone to share life with if you dont have half of the experience is not as good as the together experience, the problem is not if you have others the problem is that you are someone else
2006-12-08 18:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by bepo_a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends upon the guy! trust isn't love. trust goes along with respect for each other.
2006-12-08 18:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all depent on you, if you love him so much you'll get him even he just make some joke in loving you,but i'm sure he'll falls down at the time he relies that your love is true and i'm sure if you seriusly you'll find the way how to make him down on you.
2006-12-09 11:33:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋