she is single.long distance relationship.we meet once in 20days.have great sex life.she, sometimes i fear may eventually leave me and marry-as she has no future with me.
today she is emotionally dependent on me for mere survival.should i break up?how?continue how and why?
2006-12-08 18:29:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You see, this is what screws up so many kids nowadays and why terms like "sanctity of marriage" are such a joke.
'Should you break up?' 'Continue?' You know you are going to keep this girl regardless of what is advised here.
The question is, do you have the guts to face your family and announce that after deceiving them for months that you're now quitting the marriage. At least then your wife stands a chance at taking you for everything you've got. That's at least some level of justice for the crap you're eventually going to put her and your kids through.
You've already chosen, now give them a chance at having a life after you've gone.
2006-12-08 18:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by warp6point6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry u got urself in this predicament, But I`m wondering if u have a loving wife, why did u get involved with another woman, in the first place, do u not love ur wife at all ? I think u r infatuated with the other woman, not madly in love. If u see her once in 20 days, that is what intrigues u. U had better give some serious thought about ur situation. Ur tying up the girls best years, since u don`t seem to be willing to leave ur wife and kids and ur being unfaithful to a "loving" wife. U may someday get caught, r u willing to risk losing ur family, many people may get hurt in that case, is it worth it ? The final comment...do u mean u have been married for 7 yrs or 47 yrs? If its the latter, then u r much to old for ur mistress, she may have u as her sugar daddy !
2006-12-08 19:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what your question is but I feel bad for you to be in this predicament. I'd ignore all the haters that will answer this. I doubt you planned it and we have so little control over this stuff. Your wife is loving. You are better off with her so go with the flow until your girlfriend finds a new relationship. Don't get caught, don't introduce her to your wife,ever. Cover your tracks. You don't want to hurt your wife inthis way.
2006-12-08 18:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing is wrong, to your family, your lover and yourself.Fortunately YOU are the only one that can fix this.
You are being deceiving and a traitor to your wife and family, and you are also leading this other girl on. If you really care about them you wouldn't have put yourself in this predicament .You know if your wife finds out it will hurt her, You are also, leading this other girls by keeping her attached to you emotionally, this is also preventing her from finding someone that can honor her and give her what she deserves.You've said it yourself , she has no future with you. I think you are being selfish. You have the power to make things right 'Do it !
2006-12-08 18:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Intrigued 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THink about how many times your wife has been madly in love with someone else but didn't continue with that relationship because of her family. You're a pathetic loser.
2006-12-08 18:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by sobefobik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should break it off with her because you answered your own question.You are a married man.If you have no intentions of ever leaving your wife for her.She has no future with you.That is.What I would tell her?Personally I believe there is more to a relationship.Then great sex.You are not being honest with this woman/your wife to countinue on with this affair.Then.You are the one that has to live with the choices.You choose to make.
2006-12-08 18:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you marry ur wife? you dont even have any idea of what this would do to your family. let the girl go, you are like a father to her, that is the emotional bond. how old are your children? i guess you are willing to give up everything for her, because that is what will happen. love your wife be there for her, believe me she already knows something is not rite.
2006-12-08 18:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by mearea3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny! 100!
2016-03-13 05:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey mr
dont be a fool . u have a family and kids. dont u people ever think of ur kids future and mental state once they know thier dad is having affair. dont do this. nothing is impossible try to forget her and let her have her life. dont spoil ur life and hers also at the same time.Think twice.
2006-12-08 18:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if 47 years is worth given-up for a 29 year old then i say go for it, but, if this girl cant provide nothing more than good sex ? then it is not to your better judgement !!!!!!!!!! never trade in a golden egg for a cheep hen
2006-12-08 19:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋