I've met this guy 5 months ago and since we didnt know each other at all we decided to be friends before we date. We just talked as friends and went out and had fun. We're both very shy people and thats the problem. We discovered that we dont do anything romantic and eventhough we like eachother alot it's just plain boring, it doesnt feel like a bf/gf relationship but I wanna try make it work. What can we do to make things a little bit more romantic?
sex or making out is off limits.
2006-12-08 23:31:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore the pic. it's not my account.
2006-12-08 23:36:08 · update #1
You need identify things that make you happy or things that excite you. Like going to movies or different restuarants, or ice skating, or walks in the park, etc. etc.. Then share these things with your friend. If he has the same interests get the ball rolling. Do things together that you both will experience fullfilment from. I agree with you life is not all sex and making out, these should be done under the marriage guidelines. Good luck and I will pray for you both.
2006-12-08 23:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by MeToo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many questions for you .. after 5 months...
Is there chemistry between you both ?
Are you really just friends?
You say kissing is not an option? Why?
How old are you ? Are you too young ?
You want a bf\gf relationship, but you want Romance but no kissing?
Can you hold hands and take a walk in the park?
Can you have a simple dinner with good food and candlelight?
We will need more details
2006-12-09 07:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by truthwalker7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. You have the same dilemma as of many other people. I can see where you are coming from and where you are standing. First of all you really need to talk to him one on one and say how far are we going. I know you may not have the courage to do this but you are going to have to pluck up the courage to do this im afraid. Make a nice meal like a chilli or something or a nice SPICY curry and a nice bottle of wine ask him. If he says he wants to go further... it will lift itself from there :). If he says it will take then obviously it will take time. If he says no then youll be upset course you will but he means no which will be ashame. Just be urself and try your best. Good luck :)
2006-12-09 07:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold hands
snuggle
watch romantic movies together
go to nice restaraunts
Honestly the best times I've had with someone I like are the times when I've just said screw it all and acted like a kid or a tourist in places I know well. One of my favorite first dates ever was a haunted house. Find things to do that you don't normally do. Step out of your comfort zone. Search in an artsy newspaper for different activities.
Things always work out how they're meant to.
2006-12-09 07:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by kimmp1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try actyin closer to him.any where ,try to sit beside him n not opposite to him.try to go out more, like movies ,not malls.any thing can happen in the dark! good luck!
2006-12-09 07:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging from your pic, that's the least of your problems, you need some medical attention!
2006-12-09 07:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by Poster22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
after 5 months with no sex your SOL move on
2006-12-09 07:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋