although i'm in steady relationship from past 4 yrs,and have real difficulty getting my boyfriend serious coz he never proposed me..i approched him and made him additictied to me so that so he and me are angaged now for about a yr now. lately(about 6 months) i met this new person who is incredebile honest and good-looking. we were flat-mates than and this boy told me that he fancies me and after my reveleing that im engaged, he tried to be friends with my boyfriend and never made me feel awkward before my boyfreind....infact.we r good freinds now! but now i have relocated with my boyfriend about 1 month ago to a diff country...we are in touch through mails....my probelm is that cant stop thinking about him..so that so im dreaming about him every night...what should i do?
2006-12-08 23:33:34 · 19 answers · asked by Deez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont rush, wait till you meet again and see what happens. but some day U'll have to decide and then be honest to Ur boyfriend
2006-12-15 05:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u r in a really goofy situation....but there is a real simple situation.......firstly think really hard......r u really in llove with your present bf???can you imagine your life without him???????if the answer is yes then break off .........if however u r unsure what is going on then just don't take any action right now......sometimes we mistake lust for love........it's ok to be attracted to other people while u r in a realation with someone else.....but just stop there.......it's really not advisable to hurt someone else.....so first be sure that the current man in ur life does not interest you anymore.......u also seem to have momentary attractions........that is once the u r convinced that the guy is interested in u ...u like to move on........this is ok if all you want is a fling but a steady relation demands commitment.........i am sure u must have seen a lot of good in the an u r engaged to now.........so think about why you are with ur fiance and try to find peace in the relation..........if however u still consider moving on make sure that u absolutely do not want ur fiance in your life........all the best......
2006-12-14 23:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You like this new friend now. Hmmm....I don't know about you...but I would probably think about the fiance. Seems like you pressured him into proposing. If he's not ready yet, then I think that you should move on. I mean....4 years! That's a long time. If the other person never brings up the marriage talk....then they're getting too comfortable in the shoes they wear, and don't want anything else besides that.
As for the new friend...well. I don't really have anything to say except, if you really like him. Then go for it!
2006-12-09 05:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as quickly as upon a time there replaced into this guy who replaced into so remarkable to me, he might besides have been an angel who fell in the present day from the sky - an angel with a 5 inch tall mohawk and an remarkable smile despatched to make me chortle, instruct me to relax, and permit me know that i'm enjoyed....i replaced into in straightforward terms able to be with him for a quick time, then he joined the army and that i in no way even have been given to declare so long :( i think of roughly him on a daily basis and want that he's high quality yet i know he in all probability is high quality, because of fact inspite of each thing he's an angel...
2016-10-14 08:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and have a serious conversation about where you want to head with this relationship, and you need to find out what he wants out of the relationship. If you have too many different expectations, there are thousands of other potentially compatible partners. You need to find someone with similar goals and expectations in life. Don't settle for what you have on the table because it's been there soo long if it's not right..I broke up with my previous girlfriend of FIVE years, mainly because of religion..but that was enough of a difference.
2006-12-13 13:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by brian. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second guy Loves and cares for u a lot. His act of making friend with ur boyfriend shows that he loves u deeep from inside and wants u by any means. U will be happier with him
2006-12-16 13:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by naafraat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gal u just need to find out 1 thing do u love ur guy or not sme times u r atracted 2 other guys its normal ihav been thru it but infatuation or liking is nt the same as love an if u dnt love ur guy then tel him that an not lead him on this way no one gets hurt
2006-12-09 04:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant expect only one honest man in the entire world. leave few like me for others too. first of all wts wrong ur bf has done except not proposing to u. but still if u think bout him than talk it out with ur bf or just leave him to meet this honest n good looking man. but than must say tom sm other good natured man tells u tht he too fancies u than wt?? after all u ve still not met me till now.haha.
get the priorities clear whom u want n for god's sake dont cheat on ur bf tht too in night while u r with someelse. be with the one in the bed whom u think bout unconciously.
2006-12-15 20:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by kapil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brake up with your boyfriend (since you are obviously missing something). Your boyfriend doesn't make you happy. I suggest you end it and stay single for a minute (to assure that you don't use the second man and a rebound guy). Deep down inside you know you are unhappy, and this second man gives you something that you and your boyfriend are missing.
2006-12-08 23:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by Sasha 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You will, not completely and not at once... Sometimes it takes years... But still I you love him now really you will remember him for years or even all your life... So learn life with that... Life does not stop
2006-12-16 00:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋