I am not emotionally attracted to women but I am physically attracted to them.
I am wondering if it would be OK to go down on a woman for my own pleasure even though I have no interest in becoming connected emotionally?
2006-12-08 23:46:42 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No - That sounds pretty shallow.
2006-12-09 15:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you could continue life normally after having sex with another woman. I think that the reason why you want to have sex without emotional connection is because you are going through a trial phase (experimental stage) in life. It's normal, I went through it also, where I was aroused at the sight of lesbians in the heat of passion etc. And I was actually entertaining the idea of a date with a female I met around the time where I was was wondering whether or not I wanted to be with women. After I gave it thought, I wasn't into women. I've kissed a woman before and it felt the same as any other normal kiss - however, I knew that I wanted men. I think the reason why I thought I could be with a woman was because of the tenderness and love and sensitivity that I was lacking in my relationships with men. Just for the record - I'm married to a man and I don't like women. You are just curious - and that's alright.
2006-12-08 23:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, of course that would be ok, people do that all the time. If men had to wait to be emotionally connected to women to have sex with them, there would be about 4 billion less people on the planet.
2006-12-08 23:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
As long as she is aware that you are not going to emotionally invest. There are lots of women out there that don't want complications.
I have a sneaking suspicion that once you try it, you will begin to become emotionally involved.
2006-12-08 23:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by Star 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Scripture forbids it.......please read the following scripture in your Bible:
Mt 19:4-6
Rom 1:26
1 Cor 6:9
1 Tm :10
Ask our Lord to remove these lustful thoughts from your mind. He is faithful & wants to help you, just call on him.
2006-12-09 00:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Stacey W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it would be ok as long as you made it clear up front so the women does not get emotionally attached. Can I watch?
2006-12-08 23:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is tough to not be physically attracted to them. If you have the emotional maturity to handle a purely physical relationship, it is mutually enjoyable, and no one gets hurt, I see no harm in experimenting.
When one is trying to find their own path, some times they need to get off the main highway.
2006-12-08 23:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by Often self-amused 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess - but I think the first step is finding a female that will let you do that. I can tell you are young and once you experiment sexually with another female (I am assuming you are female) you will figure out if that is "your thing" or isn't "your thing". Good Luck either way.
2006-12-09 00:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes as long as the woman you are involved with knows she is a friend with benefits instead of a potential life partner.
2006-12-08 23:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you'll be amazed at how many other women like you are out there.... you are pretty normal. Everyone gets curious.
There are a websites where you can meet people for this purpose.
2006-12-08 23:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW!! Ive been saying the same thing for years!!! I've been doing it for years & funny thing is, 9 out of 10 times, they dont want the emotional attacment anyway... Try it & hopefully you'll like it as much as they do!! (& trust me... they DO like it!!)
2006-12-08 23:58:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋