I am planning to get married, I am on matrimonial site, finding a good match, during when When I chat with them, I really don't know what to chat to make them feel good, what are the basic things a girls should chat with the guys, Since I cannot chat openly every thing, since all chatt persons cannot be the life partner, I would like to do once I finalise, If you can suggest, what are major things an points I need to consider, to make a guy feel comfortable and good, Pls I need some suggestion, Since I am online for the first time, I never been for a chat.
2006-12-05 23:20:03 · 4 answers · asked by marriage 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are planning to get married? But you haven't met anyone yet? And you are picking your life partner from an online web site where people are safely hidden behind the anonymity of a computer?
You do realize that these people can be anyone? Men posing as women. Women posing as men. Sixty year olds claiming to be 25. Serial rapists. Child molesters. Men already married claiming to be single. Women already married claiming to be single. Gold diggers.
2006-12-05 23:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I heard of somebody who got married by getting a husband over the internet and got chopped up into little bits and put in the freezer. A lot of women where I live (Madagascar) do this and no that they are not going to get the best quality goods but its a way out of grinding poverty. To answer the question what points you need to consider to make the guy feel good and comfortable Tell him he has nice eyes.
2006-12-06 00:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by Biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first answer says it all. You are taking a huge risk doing this. Where I live, a lot of girls are willing to do anything, too, to escape life here. Unfortunately, there are a lot of predators out there waiting for them and they know exactly what to say to sound good. A lot of girls from my part of the world end up as sex-slaves in the West. It's not worth it...
2006-12-06 00:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by boots&hank 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As a guy i am telling, guys dont love throu ears, but throu eyes. whenever u chat do not stress on any materials such as profession, education, finance or any such materialistics. Try to make him believe that you like him basically as a person as a human and not because of his materials. Try to be innocent, but dont kid too much.
Atlast what i want to say be yourself. He has to like u as u r because u can't act for life time. but few modifications can be made.
2006-12-05 23:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by LoveLife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋