I've my relationship (engaged) with my bf and we gonna married next year. He's from the States and I am from Dominican Republic. well, as his wife i will become, he wants me to go the states and live with him together. For that, we need the visa. he had been working alot and me too for save up money. Yesterday we were talking about the spends it requires for succeed the marriage visa which is kinda expensive ($600-1000 dls). he told me what we gonna do is to share the spends (each of us will pay the half-to-half). I didnt offended by that, but im just wondering if in the future things will be this way. Is this correct? I mean i'm not a spoil who wants everyhing-i-wish and neither I dont have any problem sharing.
is this a good sign of a good marriage? i mean,... the fact of know how to share things with your couple... can someone clear up this to me?
I will appreciate even more answers from experience ppl, thanks in advanced!
2006-12-05 23:54:13 · 5 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think there any thing wrong with that when your married every thing is 50/50 any way so I think that's a great start
2006-12-06 00:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by blaze67247 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you are married what is yours will be his and what is his will be yours. Sharing is part of being married. Be sure this is what you want. Where in the States is he going to take you? I would suggest you do a search on the Internet on the area he is taking you to make sure you will be happy. Not all the places in the States are that great.
2006-12-06 00:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by bill a 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a partner ship...he doesn't need to provide for you, nor you him...you should both work to support the household, and thus each other....
...unless you've made other, agreeable arrangements. Few modern households (many fewer than in the past) can subsist well without both adults of a couple working to bring in money, and taking care of the home.
2006-12-05 23:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Since you are not married YET, and YOU are the one needing the Visa, I'd say your fiance' is being very generous toward you. However, when you marry, if you continue to work, I'm sure you both will be sharing monitary responsibilities. Maybe you should ask him?
2006-12-05 23:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Look if oyu guys are having problems with money already then dont push therough with it.
Money is the root of all evil and caused relationships to fail.
SO if it is an issue-drop your plans
2006-12-06 00:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋