Hi i have this problem w/ my boyfriend..this december is our 2nd aniv. i got this feeling that i don't like anymore. But if i'm with him, i don't want to leave him...get it?? i don't know how to say "it's over" to him. Pls help!!!
2006-12-05 23:43:24 · 21 answers · asked by kim_cute 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get some time off and think deeply about it. Do not rush to conclusions. Don't say it is over until you are sure you want to leave him. Remember when you say the word, it will cause a wound that would take some time to heal. You can never take back spoken words. So get a week or two weeks off, have a deep retrospection and then decide. Good luck.
2006-12-06 06:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be in a slump and need a "time out." This is hard for both of you. Not everyone understands "if you love something, let it go. If it comes back then it was meant to be." But this sounds like this is what needs to happen.
2006-12-06 07:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Donkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything unless u r completelly sure its over. It may be that u perceive lack of fresh feelings, which u used to have, as the end. But love modifies with time, so think b4 telling him that its over.
2006-12-06 07:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by JUSTGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. If your seeing someone else you have already moved on. No one likes to be lead on. The sooner the better. It's hard no matter what, but it's not fair to either one of you. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-06 08:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, tell him the truth. It may hurt him a little but at least he will have some respect for you for being upfront about your feelings.
2006-12-06 07:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Raven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him, just tell him, I dont want to be with you anymore. There is no easy way to say those words, you just have to be honest, and I think he will appreciate that.
2006-12-06 08:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by devviash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you are with him at this point the more miserable you are going to become. Just tell him it's not working and your sorry, but you have to move on.
2006-12-06 07:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're not sure what you want. Two years is a long time. Tell him what you've just told us. Talk about it.
2006-12-06 07:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say : yo chuck guess what i got something to tell ya it really funny but yo man im not feeling you anymore but we cool holla and walk away or you can say you converted to lesbian you choose..oh yeah do it in public or his house
2006-12-06 07:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by KANEBRO2DANITE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no better way then coming straight out and saying it.
2006-12-06 07:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by Red Winged Bandit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋