I have been having an affair with a married man for over a year.. and I decided to end it all last Monday... cause I feel that our relationship is not going anywhere and I don't think he will leave his wife for me... But I still love him tremendously... I've been depressed ever since... I cry myself to sleep and I can't stop myself thinking of him...Am I doing the right thing? How do I make myself numb of all these pain... Help me pleaseeeee..
2006-12-05 23:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by She 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should have known what you were getting into with that. If you're going to date a married man, YOU have to be in control every minute. Dating a married man is one thing, when you start to fall in love you gotta get out. There's nothing left now but the pain, that you WILL eventually overcome. Put on a big smile, even when you don't want to, and move on. You find the right guy at the right time. You deserve it.
2006-12-05 23:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give yourself some time! Avoid going to movies or watching depressing TV shows. Enjoy your life now-go to an orphanage,home for the aged,hospitals,abandoned and battered women etc. then you will appreciate life as it should ieven more.
The emotional stage will pass,we don't know for how long,the pain will remain for along time esp if you share the same office.
But look on the bright side you made his kids very happy,his marriage will be in order and for you? PRAY hard that you will find yourself a man who can also give you a family that you can call your own.
If a married man fell in love with you, I don't see any reason why somebody single would also want the same. So smile! Enjoy life go out with friends Flirt and hey do u want to date me! I am single?LOL
2006-12-06 07:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by wolfass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be ashamed of yourself, and you know what?the wheel turned on you and all those tears you are crying you deserve them every last one of them.
Theres nothing more disturbing then to hear about a woman having an affair with a married man, and this has been going on for years.
Just two Q
Do you have any self respect?
Cant you find youre own man? do you have to steal other others.
You know what i feel sorry for you, because one day when you want to settle and youre going to find a man of youre own, someone else is going to do the same thing
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!! YOURE GOING TO NEED IT
2006-12-06 07:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you are doing the right thing I wish I was strong enough to leave my man, he has a live in girlfriend. It's gonna hurt but if you left and he didnt come after you he was never going to leave his wife.
2006-12-06 08:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just simply think this situation. You got married to him and after certain point of time some other smart young girl has come to his life and he also ditches you and starts living with her . Would you like this situation ? No. Therefore I would suggest you to forget him totally and try to find a most suitable young handsome bachelor and get married to him and enjoy you life.
2006-12-06 07:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for once you're doing the right thing, you never should have had an affair in the first place...you should really tell his wife
2006-12-06 07:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by skayy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done the right thing. Just give it time and the pain will eventually go away.
2006-12-06 07:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time find a new man, .A single man who will love only you and for ever!!!!
Good luck xxxxx
2006-12-06 07:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jure 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It stinks to be used and you have been dont allow anyone to put you in that situation ever again.
2006-12-06 07:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the relationship, just have sex!!! :D
Find yourself someone else to love... A dog, a cat, someone who is available...
2006-12-06 07:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋