i asked a chick that liked me out she said no
then she said mabey
before i could answer she said no
we stoped talking
then she sent me e-mails saying she missed me
wtf what am i to do?
2006-12-02 18:43:08 · 10 answers · asked by Jonathan S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she sounds a little confused. Either she wants to go out with you or she doesn't. Come right out and ask her. Could be she's afraid to have any kind of relationship, also.
2006-12-02 18:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, girls are like that sometimes. Notice I said "girls". Maybe you're what she might want, but "not exactly". Girls can be a little fickle about meeting the perfect boy. Or maybe there are other factors that have nothing to do with you personally that cause her to be so wishy-washy. I tell you a sure-fire way to know if she likes you--stop trying. Be as nonchalant as you can about the whole thing. She emails that she misses you--tell her, "oh, you could have fooled me when you turned me down for a date." Or just don't respond. That's better, I think. I mean, it's her call at this point, right? Either she explains herself or you're in search of another object of desire. Use those male smarts. Just like guys, girls love the chase. And when the chase stops, especially with a guy she DOES like, she's gonna find out why. Or drop more obvious hints that she's interested so that you'll stay interested. But remember, if she doesn't, then she really didn't like you in the first place. Honestly, if guys should know one thing about girls is that no matter how cagey or weird our behavior is, we're never uncertain about who we like. Either we do or we don't; there is no inbetween. Then again, I could be answering from a "woman's" perspective, since my "girl" days are over by a decade or two. Good luck.
2006-12-02 18:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by dangerouspoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she misses you asking her out, so that she can say no. Stay away from chicks like this!!!!! She sounds like a drama queen that likes attention. Find another one. Good luck
2006-12-02 18:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes young girls may be to shy to say what they actually mean. ask her out again with only yes or no being an acceptable answer. if she still does not give you a direct answer take that as a no and MOVE ON.....you are obviously above these games
2006-12-02 18:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by jazzie0202 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are alot of fish in the sea - you might like her.....but she is screwing you around........Don't you want to be with someone who is sure that they want to be with you? Take some persoanl time and start looking elsewhere =) You had the balls to ask her out and good on you...you deserve someone who loves/likes you the same way back!!
2006-12-02 18:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by Schafferius 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude it is really hard because women dont know what they want and they change their mind every 2 seconds. i say you should pursue it a litlle stronger if you like her you just have to be lucky and get her in the right. time
2006-12-02 18:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by sims 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her get to know her, let her get more comfortable with you. and when you feel the time is right maybe ask again, that is if you want to. if you dont want a relationship with her then just stay friends.
2006-12-02 18:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by mink_kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes you, but is too nervous to go out with you.
2006-12-02 18:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by Casimir Alexander 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's juz being confused. Ask her upfront if she loves u then get together if not.... dun play around with emails.
2006-12-02 18:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by SunnyFLOWER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be confused
2006-12-02 18:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by psycho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋