Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

But I thnk life cannot be enjoyed alone without a girlfrend. But i don't know how to find and make one.......cause every girls don't
have the power to differentiate between good and bad boys.
Someone With whom i can share my thoughts, my joys,...
pls God help me....before i loose my youth........

2006-12-02 17:46:15 · 8 answers · asked by planetearth 1 in Friends

My little sister has lupus and has had many complications. Her kidney functions were at 25% 2 weeks ago and now there down to 15%. She is on the list for a transplant, will it help? Can I be tested as a donor at a hospital in another state. My sister has two young daughters 3&5, she doesn't want to die. Please tell me how can I help her?

2006-12-02 17:45:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

And i feel like if there is a somewhat cute avatar then that person will be cute.........am i weird?

2006-12-02 17:45:16 · 5 answers · asked by im a princess! 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy that I am dating text me and told me he was going to his friends house. He said that she was like one of his best friends and her boyfriend just broke up with her, and he is going over there to watch movies with her and cheer her up. He's also staying the night over there...because he said it was a long drive. I dont know whether to trust him or not. Im very protective of myself and have been in a lot of bad relationships...so i keep my guard up. I just dont know what to think.

2006-12-02 17:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by Lindsey 1 in Singles & Dating

Someone answered in one of my questions: 'what would happen if you make him angry?' I don`t know the answer. He gets into fights a lot and his soccer coach pointed out that he has a lot of aggression and that he can channel into the game (against the other team). I`ve known him for years and only saw him smile once (I`ve seen him smirk, but its not the same thing). He`ll get into fights if someone says something to him, even if its not something that bad. When we were playing soccer, someone told him to shutup and he got into a fight over it. He`s a bit of a bully. He put this one guy in a head-lock for no reason at all. I can handle jerks; I have a tendency to go for jerks. I can usually see the best in people; I can see right through the hard exterior. I can with this guy too, but what I`m wondering is, is he safe to be with?

2006-12-02 17:44:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it just me or do people sometimes get so so low...as in self -esteem then end up feelin so worthless...and that u cant talk to anyone bout wats goin on...not that u dont want to...but its just that u dont know how to...???...i dont evn understand myself somtimes..

2006-12-02 17:43:39 · 5 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Friends

2006-12-02 17:42:07 · 28 answers · asked by scgraphix 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am finding difficulty in adjusting with my wife. We have been married for 7 years. We thought we were made for each other. Since last year things are changed. She is an MSc and a house wife. Most of the times we get into arguments because of in laws. I don’t like her parents and family due to some un favorable incidents that took place in the near past.
Not living together is not the solution, it will have more problems than what we have now. I want to support my parents and family. She doesn’t like it. She has “tit for tat kind of attitude” is there any one who can provide free marriage counseling in Bangalore? Is there any yahoo group where I can post specific problems and get answers. It is an arranged marriage. Now i think that I have chosen a wrong partner. There is not guarantee that wife /husband will have the same attitude which he/she has at the time of marriage. In the case of a job we can change the job and apply the learnings in the new job. Is this the life...........?

2006-12-02 17:41:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think he is great looking the way he is, but he wants to look really hardcore and stand out. I want him to do as he pleases because i dont want to be one of those chicks who tells their man what they can and cant do. So what can I do.. just live with it, or how can i learn to love it..??

2006-12-02 17:40:04 · 5 answers · asked by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl at my school named Sarah. She is not really my friend, but I CAN'T GET RID OF HER!!! She just keeps following me...THINKING she's my friend. She's not. She is just some person who keeps following me and she won't leave me alone. I don't like her because she talks funny, she's NOT funny at all, she does'nt get ANY jokes, and she wears the stupid pink shirt like everyday! and now she bought this even UGLIER jacket and now she wears THAT everyday! and I know I can't be seen with her. People already think that I'm a geek just because I hang with her! I don't know how exactly to say that I want her to leave me alone. and even though I know that she's not the kind of friend I want, I know that I'm the kind of friend she needs because she HAS no friends. WHAT DO I DO?????

2006-12-02 17:40:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-02 17:39:18 · 21 answers · asked by mangleshpanchal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 23, and I have a little bit more money than most and more than what it looks, I own 3 houses and get rent from all. I met a girl, I dont want to have it want me for just the money, is it a good idea to not tell her all about it all, so she wont use me. My last gf definaly took me for the money. she said "buy me this ($400 purse) or we will break up" (many many times like that, but i usauly bought it) I didnt, and she was pissed at me, next day I told her "okay I will go buy you a new car" so we went to dealer and as she waited inside, I said be right back, I left her there. I had dealer guy give her the purse, and tell her why I did that (i kinda knew him) so I dont want to do that again, so.. what do you think

2006-12-02 17:39:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i Dunno why but ive become shy around girls. Its weird. IN the past, ive been able to talk to girls and all in midddle school but, now in high school, its hard to. I mean everyone else is tallking to girls, i mean every boy, but now i dont. I used to be a big flirt but now i ve changed and i feel like ive fallen behind. SOmeone tell my why im so shy?

2006-12-02 17:35:56 · 6 answers · asked by big e 2 in Singles & Dating

we were together for 1 yr and 3 mo's but our past month had a lot of problems because she said she was changing and that our love was different, she also lost all of her sexual drive since the start of that month of problems... anyways we got through all the hard stuff like we always have and then we had a hard time again and she said we needed a "break" but 3 hours later she called me crying and saying that she was sorry and that she loves me. Then that weekend we went and had a lot of fun and started fresh and it seemed like everything was starting back good and we both had a good time, a week later she broke up with me saying that she liked someone else, that i did nothing wrong, and she still loves me, she said she still wants to be friends... i can now see from myspace that this guy she goes to school with broke up with his girlfriend of over a year at the same time my girlfriend broke up with me and they are now hanging out, we aren't talking,dont say move on i want her back help

2006-12-02 17:35:48 · 14 answers · asked by pleasehelpme353 1 in Singles & Dating

okayy. so im kinda young, a freshman. my sister is a junior and has no friends and sits alone at lunch and stuff and everyone hates her. im not gonna like, she's a bit odd and if i wasnt her sister i would never talk to her. and people always assume im just like her. so people start out not liking her and i have to work really hard for them to see im not like her at all. im in the popular group at school, but people who don't know me still think im like her.
and this senior that i like and i think he might like me and i've been told he likes me, well he has harassed my sister alottt and makes fun of her all the time and hates her so much. he's basically made my sisters life a living hell for 2 years. now i know i probably shouldnt like him if hes like that but i still do. and everyone hates johanna so nothing new sometimes i just feel like maybe he's only my friend as a joke or something because of my sister. and him and his friends are just always making fun of me. what should i do?

2006-12-02 17:35:39 · 8 answers · asked by hey there 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 17:34:57 · 6 answers · asked by CLoud9 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a single old Grumpy Man,and I wonder,Is love still Possible,even if you old and Grumpy?

2006-12-02 17:33:27 · 15 answers · asked by karl s 3 in Singles & Dating

i am in depression.i am an artist in the class and will be with girls as my assistants for all the projects.as i will be talking to girls, all my friends start teasing me. i am not of that type. but still, they insult me by putting links and telling it to the teachers. i feel like crying but still....... . i need a good advice. i am in 9th class

2006-12-02 17:33:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son, a newly truck driver, just found out his girlfriend had committed suicide. He is very upset. He thinks if he was there, this would not had occurred. He is many miles from us at the moment and I have a very heavy heart. I feel like the wind has been pressed out of me (and I never met this young lady, only talked to her on the phone!) I cannot imagine what he is feeling. Can someone give me a direction where I can at least help him out? I just don't know what to say to him.....he was very much in love with her. I told him it was not his fault but he seems to do the "if I" or "what if.." He just got out of Iraq where many of his friends were killed, now this. I want him to know that life is more than death. Suggestions?

2006-12-02 17:32:15 · 9 answers · asked by Sillyme 2 in Family

get my mom for christmas?

2006-12-02 17:31:51 · 4 answers · asked by kelsey b 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you get over someone?

2006-12-02 17:31:17 · 7 answers · asked by kelsey b 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't go to bars, I don't hang out at casinos, I just work. And somehow, I attract alcoholics. I never realize how bad they are until I fall in love. Then it all comes out. My first love was my husband, who drank away our marriage. After it was over I rekindled a relationship from my youth. It was all so good -- until I learned he was a raging alcholic. He is now sitting in jail. Our relationship is now over -- whether he realizes it or not and I must move on. What does it take to meet a nice guy who I am attracted to, that wants to live life, intsead of drown himself in his addiction? I just want to be loved and have someone I can love without fear. But where do I met such a person? Do they even exist?

2006-12-02 17:30:51 · 17 answers · asked by Pam E 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is a pyromanic and keeps burning things, i'm afraid if this continues it will become problematic. He's already burnt down the shed in the backyard and keeps attempting to light my older son on fire while he's sleeping. What should i do? Please help.

2006-12-02 17:30:36 · 13 answers · asked by Fidel 1 in Family

Is their any kind of "tests" to find if i am a good kisser?

2006-12-02 17:29:14 · 6 answers · asked by paul1e 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just finished watching the movie Hostel, after being completely disturbed and horrified by it, I got to thinking.

What leads a human being to desire such things?

For those of you who are not familiar with the movie, it basically goes something like this: Some eastern European country created a market fullfilling sick fantasies of rich people from around the world. Basically what they do is they kidnap people, and handcuff them to a chair in a torture chamber of sorts where the rich patrons pay them to torture and kill in gruesome manners the kidnapped individual. Americans are in high demand.

I wonder what leads people into such psychophatic behaviour? Could it be because they are rich, and having everything that they ever desire becomes boring to them and they want that which is taboo?(we humans bore easily)

I've heard of thing like this happening around the world, such as: people eating human babies, paying to rape a woman, and the more common pedophilia.

2006-12-02 17:29:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-02 17:28:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I married my husband 5 and half years ago now. 3 years ago we had our first child, a boy. My husbands family have never liked me. I was never good enough for them. But for some reason they seem to now take it out on their son, and grandchild. They dont ever spend any time with our little guy, and make promises to see him and then never show up. They will come and visit my hubbys sister and her 3 kids for a week, and our son is lucky to see them for an hour during that week. My son is now starting to pick up on the fact that Nanny and Poppy never spend anytime with him. He was promised by them a visit today and they have not shown up. He is asking us constantly where they are. We both dont know what to do or say.
It is now to the point where hubby has thrown his arms up in the air and is about to tell his parents to go jump and not bother with us at all anymore. Although I dont like his family, this upsets me as family is very important to me. HELP

2006-12-02 17:27:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Or something similar, like...

1. My brother is being sent to military school
2. My dad passed away
3. My dog passed away

You get the idea.

I never know what to say in these situations, and I want to avoid awkwardness.

2006-12-02 17:27:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm going out with this boy and once, we went to the mall. We went to the movies and he even kissed me twice. I don't know if he really likes me or not. Then the next day, he asked me to be his girlfriend. We're really good friends but I never thought we would be togther. What should I say to him?

2006-12-02 17:27:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy at school thats one of my best friends but everytime he can he hugs me or touches me and always wants to be close to me i know those are signs that he likes me and i feel that

but then i see when hes around other girls he hugs them too

so what do u think is going on??

2006-12-02 17:27:15 · 4 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Singles & Dating