Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

i recently got a divorce we tryed to work it out i ended up messing around on my ex hubby with another guy and now i am really confused and he cant seem to get over me any ideas

2006-12-02 17:26:45 · 9 answers · asked by chey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have an unusual happening! When my wife and I have sex-she usually has 2 or 3 orgasims to my 1. (no I'm not bragging) I'm 48-and she is 50. I'm just an average guy in most all respects (no I don't have a huge hammer). Been married for a long time and this just started happening in the last 5 yrs or so. I don't mind this so I'm not complaining , but it's got me wondering what has changed.
We usually have intercourse for less than an hour. Any one got any feedback????

2006-12-02 17:25:37 · 16 answers · asked by T J ! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-02 17:25:09 · 6 answers · asked by emoisme771 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 17:24:43 · 6 answers · asked by basava 1 in Singles & Dating

I see pictures of girls and they stick their lips out like as if they have angelina jolies lips but they dont and they look pretty damn stupid if u ask me..

2006-12-02 17:23:39 · 8 answers · asked by rave 2 in Friends

So theres this guy I like, and for a long time he looked at me like a deer in the headlights. I introduced myself and he looked all uncomfortable. After a few days he eventually started talking to me. Now on occasion he'll come sit next to me in the library and talk for a few seconds. The other day in class he asked me if I wanted to study on Saturday in the library. He said he'd come find me where I usually sit and that he was gonna have to work (in the library) from like 5 to midnight so we'd study in the day. Then he never showed up! And he started working. On my way out of the library he started to talk to me like nothing had happened and then I left. I didnt want to ask in front of the person who he was working at the counter with. The thing is, I've been making a fool of myself introducing myself, trying to make small talk, and he finally came around and initiated some stuff with me and now he ditched me! What does it mean? Does he like me or not?! What should I do?

2006-12-02 17:22:54 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

Married people I need ur advice.

2006-12-02 17:22:50 · 9 answers · asked by AAYY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met up with this girl I'm into at the mall. We walked around for a little bit and talked. I took her to the movies, then we had some coffee and talked more. I gave her a hug and she kissed me on the cheek. Do you think she is into me or was just being nice? We are both 15.

2006-12-02 17:22:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 17:21:56 · 5 answers · asked by OLIVIA! 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has 2 kids. How do I help raise kids that aren't mine?

2006-12-02 17:21:27 · 22 answers · asked by dww32720 3 in Singles & Dating

Was this relationship abusive?(emotionally, mentally ........)

I was kind of old when i had my first boyfriend, i was 16. I had all my firsts with him including my first kiss and sex. At first we could talk about anything especially sex. then after things got serious he started acting wierd he would allow his cousin to tease me that i talked "white" and he told me i had to change talking that way and that i needed to be more "hood' and that i had to get rid of one of my girlfriends because she dressed wierd. Then he would contantly question the relationship between my guy friend and i he even asked his female cousin because he knew we were friends. But when i would ask him stuff like his favorite color he would get mad and tell me that i was annoying and it was like everything i said was stupid. When we started having sex he said it would help our relationship i was dumb i kno, i just wanted to be close to him you kno (he was my first) but when i asked him if i could see his penis he got all defensive and asked why i wanted to see it and how he didnt want to see my vigiana and the only way i was going to see it is if i gave him oral sex and he doesnt give oral sex he said it was nasty. in the end he broke up with me because i told him i didnt want to have sex any more becuz i didnt like it and he said it my fault i didnt like it and that i was a bad girlfriend and he wouldn't be surprised if i was a gay, be cuz he never had any complaints before. he said that "i was a just a little girl cuz i couldnt even handle a dick" Im just not sure if he was right because his cousin that was my friend said the same thing: it was my fault. I just feel so guilty and stupid like it was my fault becuz this was my first relationship and it failed so horribly... I feel hopeless

2006-12-02 17:20:38 · 6 answers · asked by kandi61689 2 in Singles & Dating

my gf have good neture and so sweet so i like itand its behaviour so good

2006-12-02 17:20:38 · 9 answers · asked by diney 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. I do love him so much though. But I have been cheating on him ever since I've known him. I mean every guy that I've been out with I have cheated on them. I'm 21 and he's 40. I've been cheating on him with this one guy and he is 50 years old...and other guys as well...let's just say over 10 guys probably just this year... does this make me a slut or a hor (spelling?)

2006-12-02 17:19:58 · 26 answers · asked by A A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this guy, and he is definately "mr. tough guy." His soccer coach says he has a lot of aggression, and its definately true. He`s gotten into fights with other guys all the time; a lot of the time for really stupid stuff like looking at him the wrong way. No one can stare him down, he`ll get into a fight over that. But, he nearly knocked my friend out of her chair when he walked into her. I looked at him like he was an idiot, a look that would usually set him off, but he just glared at me, I think he expected me to look away, but I didn`t and he ended up turning away. He looks at me a lot and during the pep rally (i`m very hyper) me and my friends were the only ones really cheering for anyone. When his name was called to go get an award for soccer, I cheered really loud, but my friends didn`t (I was kinda embarrased). While he was standing up there, he was staring at me and I smiled at him. He looked down at his feet! This is NOT the type of guy who does that! Whats going on?!?

2006-12-02 17:19:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, theres this girl i like, and i never could tell her i like her. so the day i gathered enough courage to tell, before i could, she started bein mean to me for no reason. i havent told her yet... what should i do??

2006-12-02 17:19:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like does he like to talk about his family and stuff like that when he has feelings for a girl?

2006-12-02 17:18:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating a guy but tonight he made a really rude joke.
I was telling him how my sister in law who is a Russian Jew (just like me too) is starting to age fast and she's only 30.
He thne said point blank "well everyone knows Jews and Russians both age fast and fall apart as they get faster than everyone else"
I was furious at him and retorted that since he's Irish why isnt he an alcoholic ?
He told me to relax it was a joke and other people say the same thing.
Is he a racist for saying this ? I have never ever heard anyone say that us Russians or Jews age faster. I am so angry. I think Ill break up with his lame self.

2006-12-02 17:18:28 · 32 answers · asked by MeadowMeade 1 in Singles & Dating

sorry i heard it before, but i don't know what it means. i like this guy, and he smiles at me a lot, and when he passed me he says 'hey amanda' everytime and he is the first BOY to say anything nice to me. i can't stop thinking about him, even though i know he has a girlfriend. what should i do? and btw, what is love at first sight??

2006-12-02 17:17:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have liked this guy for a long time now and we used to be like almost best friends. and when school started he ended up in my french class with me and we talk a little but he still is a little shy around me. +i have known him sence i was in 5th grade now i and in 9th grade.

2006-12-02 17:17:16 · 6 answers · asked by Danii 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm not trying to rip off a movie...but is it a bad idea to contact a few ex-girlfriends to find out what it was that turned them off? why they left? because relationships, dates, all of it has been on a steady downhill fall for a while...

2006-12-02 17:16:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat do guys look for in grls (and im not talking about the slutty ones) so ingeneral u know?

2006-12-02 17:14:55 · 17 answers · asked by awesome_cha 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well I'm a pretty shy guy and I really don't have any friends that I hang out with at school so yeah. Well a couple of weeks ago on Thursday my sisters boyfriend was driving me to school and then we noticed that my school had no power so I got to skip school for the day. Then so me and my sisters boyfriend hanged out and helped moved my Dad's friend move. Then we wen't to a restirant, then the mall. I had so much fun, but then after that a couple days later I started to get that empty feeling in my stomach, like I was REALLY wanting to hang out with my sis and her boyfriend. I know this sounds really weird, whats wrong with me?

2006-12-02 17:11:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She need to be nice, pretty and inteligent

2006-12-02 17:10:08 · 8 answers · asked by Raffy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 17:08:49 · 14 answers · asked by blake b 1 in Singles & Dating

Thanks for the help on my question, i was the one who asked how to get a girl to see me despite my looks. Oh to awnser someones question im 18, no acme, i have black hair and blue eyes and im really skinny.

2006-12-02 17:07:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean wouldn't it just be the same thing twice, wouldn't it better to have two different women. I just don't get it, i think the differences what make it hotter.

2006-12-02 17:06:55 · 8 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18, this girl I met is good friends with me and is 17. We're at different schools.

She invited me to her school's prom with her. I replied yes immediately as i'm interested in her.

She also said in a text that she waits for guys to make a move on her, is this a hint?

But in the same text in the invite to prom, she said only as friends, but I think she's just saying that to make me do the first move, and she's maybe not wanting to be the first to "put thing's out in the open".

Are there hints here??

2006-12-02 17:06:28 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 17:05:45 · 9 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 17:05:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live alone and I would like my new boyfriend to stay the night. We both want to wait till we get married for sex but I want him to stay the night with me. Any Advice?

2006-12-02 17:04:20 · 6 answers · asked by jolie t 1 in Singles & Dating