Ok well I'm a pretty shy guy and I really don't have any friends that I hang out with at school so yeah. Well a couple of weeks ago on Thursday my sisters boyfriend was driving me to school and then we noticed that my school had no power so I got to skip school for the day. Then so me and my sisters boyfriend hanged out and helped moved my Dad's friend move. Then we wen't to a restirant, then the mall. I had so much fun, but then after that a couple days later I started to get that empty feeling in my stomach, like I was REALLY wanting to hang out with my sis and her boyfriend. I know this sounds really weird, whats wrong with me?
2006-12-02 17:11:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And NO I'm not gay.
2006-12-02 17:15:27 · update #1
I think it's called loneliness, the wanting of other friendly human company.
2006-12-02 17:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by cocoxnznz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it sounds weird. It sounds like you had a fun day, something out of the ordinary, and the closest you have right now to a friend to hang out with. You can only go so long being totally alone. If hanging out with them SOMETIMES, is not an option, do some of those things alone, like going to the mall, or restaurants, and you'll meet other people doing the same thing....and maybe a new friend.
2006-12-03 01:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't have go to school thats somthing we all miss and frankly get used this feeling get to know it and make friends with that empty stomach because this will be a life long companion and will show up at quite inconvient inter vals
Its your ego telling you thAT your life ain't good enough
don't buy that line of sheeahhhttt
its quite normal to have few friends when you are in school these friendships will not be the ones you cherish for the closeness but for the duration
you ADMIRE your sisters boyfriend no doubt and the ability to be part of their activity is a real compliment to your maturity
which is what shy looks like to others so keep it up don't bother trying to shove yourself out there to compete for attention
we miss feeling part of somthing bigger somtimes but sometimes we need to be somthing seperate and strong alone
it can hurt andwe long for the sense of belonging its just not possible to get that feeling to go away because it expresses some part of you that isn't complete and you long for your self and the feeling that you are wanted by others
you just think about how fun it was and do your homework or somthing
2006-12-03 01:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by aubry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a highschool thing. It's not weird unless you are a geek or something. Since I am in my 40's and have been there and done that I can say you have 2 choices. Do what you feel or choice #2 do nothing and wait later until he or she moves away and you marry someone you really dont want to be with but they are available and they own a car dealership and you just bang him or her because you can. Which life do you think is worse?
2006-12-03 01:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Robert L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with you you are just craving human attention. it's like all of human nature.
dude if you are shy you should def join some clubs or sports in school. you can def make a lot of friends that way. don't look at your sister's bf at a way of being your friend because that is a friend that you had to assert no effort into.
by making your own friends you will learn to socialize and it'll be a greater tool for the future.
2006-12-03 01:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you were having a lot of fun and wanted to experience it again. Unless you felt an attraction to your sister's boyfriend and feel empty now that he's gone...if you're a guy, maybe that empty feeling means you're questioning your sexuality and feel uneasy about it.
2006-12-03 01:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by Angie A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you realized that its nice to have friends to hang out with. since you dont have any of your own, you probably spend a lot of time alone. try to make friends in school, or join some extra-curricular activities, sports, clubs, etc. this is a great way to meet people. everyone needs friends, so what are you waiting for?
2006-12-03 01:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by tma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eh, there's nothing wrong with you. you just really like the guy as a friend. On top of that, he could eventually be a potential brother-in-law. Maybe you wish you had a brother? He might be the brother you always wanted...
2006-12-03 01:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just need to hang out with ppl more or ppl like him. i know cuz i can be pretty shy too. u know not at home or anything but like at school or when meeting someone new. maybe sometime ask him if u guys can just chill and have guy time. then idk try to overcome some shyness and look for someone in your school or class that seems like you would get along with...talk to them more and just ask if you can eat lunch with them and chill ...then i guess u can become friends with that person and their friends too,...thats my idea...hope it helps....
2006-12-03 01:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Starz07cheetahs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing you just like hanging out with ur sis and her bf
2006-12-03 01:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋