I live alone and I would like my new boyfriend to stay the night. We both want to wait till we get married for sex but I want him to stay the night with me. Any Advice?
2006-12-02 17:04:20 · 6 answers · asked by jolie t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think spending the night is the ideal way to wait til your married. it's nothing but trouble and even if you don't do anything, it can lead to bad things and make you feel bad about yourself.
2006-12-02 17:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Justina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he stays the night doesn't mean sex has to take place. He'll understand. Just have a romantic evening and have fun. If you're both planning on waiting then they're no point in worrying.
2006-12-02 17:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you know him well enough first. You could have a dinner & movie night at your place and just happen to fall asleep together on the couch. If he wakes up and says he's going to leave, just tell him you'd like to stay. I'm sure if you've both talked about waiting until marriage, he will understand that you just want to cuddle :)
2006-12-02 17:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by graduatecj08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to wait, then shouldn't the the neighbors think you are waiting? it's fine if you don't care, just letting you know that people assume sex is going on if couples spend the night under the same roof.
2006-12-02 17:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both adults and you both that sex is not an issue then I think anytime would be appropriate. Why not invite him over for dinner and some movies one night and tell him he is welcome to crash at your place. It could just be a nice cozy evening at home.
2006-12-02 17:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by tiger4mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks, no more, no less
2006-12-02 17:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by John M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋