Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

he's not really my brother but he basically is. he's always there for me. and we have so much fun together. we wrestle and have pillow fights and watch movies and write songs. we just have so much fun. now he's leaving for iraq and probably won't becoming home because he has a very dangerous job. i want to spend as much time as possible with him before he goes. one problem, my mom. she doesn't like him. she's heard "sketchy" things from his ex girlfriends mom. great source huh? she won't let me hang out with him so anytime i do see him it's basically behind her back. i feel bad but it's not fair. he hasn't done anything wrong. its just the way he dresses and stuff. he has his eyebrow, tongue, and ear pierced and he goes by spike. my mom's so stereotypical. i don't really know how to go about this.

2006-12-02 16:48:01 · 3 answers · asked by defofutbol13 2 in Family

My friend, she is really emotional. But she doesn't cut her wrists or whatever. She copies my friend and goes "Oh yeah I'm goth and punkish kinda emoish" and then later on a story goes "Omg I can't believe they call me goth and emo!" she also physically slapped my sister before and she always thinks how she is ugly and how she will never get married in her life. My dad went to her parents and talked about how she's been writing emo poems. And she calls them fake but I really don't think so. She also has major anger issues. Well her whole family does, I think. They are always yelling at each other. Not only do I think so, but my friends also notice it. And she tells people to get therapy, when others in the past told her to get therapy, and she's not emo right now or cutting her wrists but she always thinks her life is miserable which will lead to a bad future I think. What can I do to help this situation?

2006-12-02 16:47:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How many people our in love and proud of it? I am I love my man!!! Rain or shine, ups and downs we hold together like glue

2006-12-02 16:46:48 · 6 answers · asked by mizcokebottle_06 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriends "best friend" is mad at me because i told her quite harshly that MY best friend was not going to date her. as a result i think she might be mad at my gf. now she (my gf) claims that sometimes the other girl is imature and goes through little hissy fits. but i dont want something i do to ruin this. is she being childish or should i honestly feel awful for hurting her feelings. ps she took it completely differnetly than i intended

2006-12-02 16:46:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance and i have contacts that can provide music and the cake so that should not be a problem, however as i was looking at websites there're lots of expenses we need to cover.

my wedding is until sept. 2008 so there's time for plans and to save up money.

i dont plan a big wedding but not a small one either. i want an average reception and a church ceremony. i dont plan on having bridemaids. we plan on inviting no more than 200 ppl.

2006-12-02 16:45:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He was contacting a woman who lives 30 min from here. He was asking for photos and was offering some of his. Would you forgive him?

2006-12-02 16:44:50 · 30 answers · asked by Xuxu8765548034567680 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 15 and ive been Always like really outgoing and i always catched the attention of boys but like a friendship type ... i was very popular and i was always so confident about myself .... from the group of my friends only 2 of my friends are pretyy and me ... but now theres this friend that lost weight and somehow she became pretty and even though guys dont like her as a girfriend type its seems like she took all my confidence and im just there ... what happeens also is that im very pretty we can even say sexy ... but i dont act like a sexy person ive never had ... i really need helppp becuz i feel like im having low self esteem .issues.. and im always trying to be better that them .. i dont know what to doo

2006-12-02 16:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by alexaa 1 in Friends

how do u kno wen ur in love????

2006-12-02 16:44:17 · 5 answers · asked by gustavo r 2 in Singles & Dating

Tell me about your first time and how it changed you! How did you know you were ready?

2006-12-02 16:43:44 · 6 answers · asked by x BlueMorning 1 in Singles & Dating

ok... we just got together like a week ago.. but we've know each other for like 3 years.. we're 16... i have like almost no budget.. but i wanna get him something nice... i have no ideas! he skates, he plays football, he's gonna start golf in the spring...oh and he plays w.o.w... he goes to to school in a little bfe town... idk... i just wanna get him something nice.. i'm sure my mom would help me out on the $ if i had an idea of what to get him!!! please and thank you!

2006-12-02 16:43:26 · 4 answers · asked by angel_of_rock_09 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you look for in a girl or guy?
explain what you like to do for fun or to just pass the time.

(also........ you can email me if you'd like.
i'm really bored and would like to meet new people. :) )

2006-12-02 16:42:57 · 12 answers · asked by bad_ambassador 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so there is this guy that i have been trying to talk to for like 3 weeks ..but i get soooo nervous that i feel like im going to be sick..i get the chills and everything...but last nite he finally added me to msn..and we were talking and stuff and his friend told me that he wanted me to ask him to semi...so i did i asked and he said no cause he wanted to ask these other girls first ....but then he said that how bout if i get turned down by all the ones im gunna ask.then ill difinatly ask u......now semi is next saturday...in 6 days from today (sunday) ....and i no the 2 girls he wants to ask ...and i no they will prob say no cause its to late of notice...so like since he said that he will ask me...does this mean like im last option kinda thing and that he really doesnt want to go with me but he will if he has no one else to go with?...cause i dont want to be like that..i like this guy alot alot and there is just something about him that makes me think about him all the time and stuff

2006-12-02 16:42:49 · 3 answers · asked by Cutie101 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 16:41:28 · 20 answers · asked by metall.pingwin 3 in Family

2006-12-02 16:41:14 · 13 answers · asked by acvat3 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend but i don't really like him as much as i used to. he's just to immature. but i can't break up with him because his friends have become really good friends of mine and if we break up i won't have those friends anymore because it will be really akward. and my parents and siblings absolutely love him. i like a kid from venezuala. he's here as a foreign exchange student so he'll be leaving in june. and he's a senior but he might go to college here in the states. i don't think he likes me like i like him though. he's super sweet and funny and he's an amazing soccer player so we share a lot of the same interests and stuff. i don't know what to do.

2006-12-02 16:40:54 · 7 answers · asked by defofutbol13 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok im a sandy blonde and i was wondering if you think i might look better with dark red hair?

http://i98.photobucket.com/albums/l271/sdw5523/untitled10.jpg

2006-12-02 16:40:05 · 10 answers · asked by sdavid5523 3 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if your husband cheated and is now trying to work things out with you. He has gone to counseling by himself and is asking you to go with him to the counselor so that you can work it out. I do love him but am so hurt by his affair. It went on for 10 months and the reason he says he did it is because he didn't feel like I loved him and I wasn't there for him emotionally or sexually. He swears that it was all about sex but I know that isn't true cause they went places together and did things. I know that I wasn't there for him emotionally or sexually for awhile but I was really struggling with my self esteem issues and didn't want to go out places. I don't blame myself for the affair cause it was his choice and he made it alone. I am struggling with the issue of working it out or not. I have been married to him for 11 years now and we have a child. What would you do honestly if you were in my situation. Please no rude comments I can't take that right now and need advice.

2006-12-02 16:39:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-02 16:37:36 · 16 answers · asked by Johnny bravo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Define in one or two sentences.
Thanks.

2006-12-02 16:35:57 · 7 answers · asked by *nevermind* 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 16:35:49 · 11 answers · asked by farewell_moose 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 16:35:42 · 5 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Singles & Dating

about life and about holiday

2006-12-02 16:35:39 · 5 answers · asked by little_bear 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 16:35:20 · 14 answers · asked by divagrl3174 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in Love with My boyfriend but i dont htink he loves me as much back...he is totally geeky but i love him....sometimes he puts his friends in front of me..like he will tottaly ignore me and only pay attention to his friends...i really like him but what should i do?......we havent even kissed yet in 2 months...going on 3....i think we are both afraid to make the first move....

2006-12-02 16:35:09 · 1 answers · asked by Brookeee(: 3 in Singles & Dating

im in love with this boy at school and i told him that me and my friend liked him and the next day hes like i dont want to go out with angelica and the other girl and im like that other girl is me ( but in my head ) so the days past me and him talk and all that but what can i do?

obsessed with life!

2006-12-02 16:34:50 · 13 answers · asked by ~~ = ] ~~ 1 in Singles & Dating

we never even had a relationship, really. she dumped coz there was no connection. i sort of tried to ignore her after we agreed to be friends. then i wrote her a pretty long letter explaining its still awkward for me to be friends and that i was really sad it didnt work between us. it was a 'closure' letter. her response was brief, saying she was busy, understands and agrees and good closure, be well. the next day we ran into each other. she was laughing saying my letter was funny. i wrote a couple of funny lines, but it seemed as though she doesnt recognize the depth. the following day i said hi to her, she said hi and looked away, i walked away just like saying hi to an acquaintance..sigh, i wrote this closure letter to move on but i still think of her...i think i fell for her already...i know what to do, but my feelings wont follow...HELP pls...

2006-12-02 16:34:48 · 8 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Singles & Dating

My finace told me tonight that he isnt sure that we should get married even though we love each other. He isnt sure that its right, because he is a mess. He seems to be worried about money....but maybe its just that he decided he doesnt love me or found someone he wants instead. What should I do?

2006-12-02 16:34:07 · 10 answers · asked by mischievous 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never asked out a girl before...and this is like...killing me inside.

Of course if you've read my other question, you know what Im talking about.

But anyways, I just need some advice for asking out that special girl...advice for a guy who's asking a girl for the first time...

2006-12-02 16:33:10 · 3 answers · asked by mrdatoe 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 16:31:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

an old friend and the last words they said to me!

2006-12-02 16:31:47 · 15 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Friends