we never even had a relationship, really. she dumped coz there was no connection. i sort of tried to ignore her after we agreed to be friends. then i wrote her a pretty long letter explaining its still awkward for me to be friends and that i was really sad it didnt work between us. it was a 'closure' letter. her response was brief, saying she was busy, understands and agrees and good closure, be well. the next day we ran into each other. she was laughing saying my letter was funny. i wrote a couple of funny lines, but it seemed as though she doesnt recognize the depth. the following day i said hi to her, she said hi and looked away, i walked away just like saying hi to an acquaintance..sigh, i wrote this closure letter to move on but i still think of her...i think i fell for her already...i know what to do, but my feelings wont follow...HELP pls...
2006-12-02 16:34:48 · 8 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Vincent.I am by far no expert what so ever,If you'd like to ask me If I have been in this type of situation I can only say yes.What you have to ask yourself is,Is this the way I want to be treated.Do I not deserve better, I bet you replied no to the 1st and yes to the 2nd.There are times when as Men we have to(as much as we don't want to admit it)hold our head up high and simply get on with our life.Its never easy.Putting our past behind us is probably one of the hardest things we have to do in our lives esp when it comes to relationships.If she didn't get the depth of your letter then how would she ever understand you.
2006-12-02 16:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by mac_cready 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT VERY NORMAL TO FEEL AS YOU DO. SHE WAS SOMEONE
THAT YOU REALLY CARE FOR. AND JUST BECAUSE YOU
HAVE GOTTEN CLOSURE WITHT THE LETTER DOES
NOT MEAN THAT YOUR HEART DOES NOT STILL FEEL
SOMETHING FOR HER.BUT YOU KNOW THAT NOW THAT
YOU HAVE THE CLOSURE. TIME TO LET IT GO AND MOVE
ON. IT WILL GET BETTER AS TIME GO ON. BUT YOU
DID WHAT NEED TO BE DONE.
2006-12-02 16:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, maybe pay attention to other girls, get her jealous ;)
but if you don't want to play the game, and just want to move on, only time will help, there is no easy way, it's painful, I know.
2006-12-02 16:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by AnyaNYC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you pursue her the more annoyed she will get and reject you further. Act like you're over her in front of her...go out and meet other girls....she's not the last girl out there. "We always think our first love is our last and our last love is our first."
2006-12-02 16:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by Angie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want her to reget loosing you, you dont want her to be freaked out by you groviling over her, thats a big turn off, stocking, try to make her jealous, its sort of messy, but works out in the end
2006-12-02 16:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mooshak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK OF IT AS HER LOSS!!!! NEXT TIME U SEE HER BE POLITE AND SMILE. AND DONT FORGET 2 TELL HER HER MOM DID WELL LAST NIGHT LOL!!!!
2006-12-02 16:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal.
2006-12-02 16:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋