Tell me about your first time and how it changed you! How did you know you were ready?
2006-12-02 16:43:44 · 6 answers · asked by x BlueMorning 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was 18 and in college. I thought I was ready, but I wasn't. It's not the kind of thing that keeps me up late at night wondering why I did it; in hindsight, I could have easily waited until my third or fourth real boyfriend. There's just so much you don't know at that age, and luckily I wasn't scarred for life. Actually, I found the foreplay to be wonderful but the actual intercourse very disappointing. Waiting until marriage? Married for the first time at 39...nah, that wasn't going to happen!
2006-12-02 16:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off,i don't know your age here and i would hate to be giving advice about something like this issue to you,i feel that you are young and the best advice is talk to your mother about your feelings.I know you are thinking no way,i felt the same,but at the end i was so relieved that i did talk to her.I can say make sure that your first time is when you truly feel in love with your partner,you don't want to be having sex to just say you had it,it would be meaningless.I know this has probably confused you alittle more but on a for real note,talk to someone that you can trust and love about this matter than people on line,this is about you and it should be personal.Okay?You take care and i know the answer and the timing will come to you in time.Best of wishes and Good luck to you always!
2006-12-03 00:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first time was a quick fumble in a field. I can't say I wasn't ready for it but I soon regretted it. Wait till you find the right person. You will know this, as this person will a) wait for you to be ready and (B) Ensure it will take place in somewhere ither than a car or outside.
2006-12-03 00:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine was taken from me at 13. It changed me, alright. I didn't trust anyone for a LONG, long time after that.
2006-12-03 00:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 25 and she was willing. I think it was about time.
2006-12-03 00:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by nemostorm512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first time was my wedding night and let me tell you it was totally worth the wait!! i am so freaking lucky!!!!
2006-12-03 00:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by jmd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋