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okayy. so im kinda young, a freshman. my sister is a junior and has no friends and sits alone at lunch and stuff and everyone hates her. im not gonna like, she's a bit odd and if i wasnt her sister i would never talk to her. and people always assume im just like her. so people start out not liking her and i have to work really hard for them to see im not like her at all. im in the popular group at school, but people who don't know me still think im like her.
and this senior that i like and i think he might like me and i've been told he likes me, well he has harassed my sister alottt and makes fun of her all the time and hates her so much. he's basically made my sisters life a living hell for 2 years. now i know i probably shouldnt like him if hes like that but i still do. and everyone hates johanna so nothing new sometimes i just feel like maybe he's only my friend as a joke or something because of my sister. and him and his friends are just always making fun of me. what should i do?

2006-12-02 17:35:39 · 8 answers · asked by hey there 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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awwww (sad face), i wish i knew more about this situation, like is your sister mean or disabled, why doesnt people like her, but i have to go on what you have here ( i felt like i was reading a mini novel).. I want to know why you cant be "a friend" to your sister? why cant you be there for her? everyone needs someone, Look either you are a leader or youre a follower, you said you are with the "IN" crowd huh? but they still pick on your sister?? then what do you think they really think of you?? they have no respect for you & sadly they probably laugh at you behind your back, speaking on how they do your flesh & blood while you sit back & do & say nothing, from my point of veiw if a guy or group doesnt like my sister then they dont/ shouldnt like me, her beef is my beef.. i feel sorry for you, here you are worrying about some sorry *** creep that youve admitted has made your sisters life a living hell, but yet u wanna know if he likes you~ hell no!! he doesnt even like himself~ MISERY LOVES COMPANY!!!!!

2006-12-02 17:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 1 0

Why does everyone hate your sister? Could she have possibly done something so atrocious that no one likes her? I think she's just shy and she's probably depressed. I'm more disgusted that she's eating at lunch. Why don't YOU get off your butt and eat with your sister? After high school, these "friends" will go their seperate ways, but your sister will always be your sister. You could also start building up her confidence, so maybe she's not so shy or unsociable. Give her a makeover, introduce her to people. It sounds like you're the more social of the two. As far as this guy, I wouldn't give him the time of day nor would I be his "friend". Just revel in the fact that he's probably going to end up working at Mickey D's after graduation.

2006-12-03 01:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Is your sister cruel? mean? terrible? ....or just odd?
Only stupid people make fun of others just for being different and if this is the case, then this loser that you claim to like is an idiot. Don't be such an immature brat - If you love your sister and she just happens to not be "cool"...well, if you turn on her now, then in about 20 years from now when you mature and discover that there is more to life than just "cute" senior boys, you will really regret your actions and possibly hate yourself.

2006-12-03 01:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by Star 4 · 0 0

let me tell you, men come and go but your sister is your blood. She might be weird but maybe it because he has harrasssed her and made her self esteem go down. If he did like you he wouldnt make fun of her,if he does it infront of you and you dont say anything your not a very good sister. I dont think he likes you.

2006-12-03 01:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by samcamcam 2 · 0 0

YOU DONT NEVER LET ANY ONE COME BEFORE YOUR
FAMILY, SHE YOUR SISTER AND IF WHAT GOING ON WITH
OTHER PEOPLE THAT THERE PROBLEM. YOUR SISTER
WILL BE THERE FOR YOU WHEN THIS JERK IS NO
WHERE TO BE FOUND.. YOU DONT LET ANY MAN COME
BETWEEN YOU. A MAN WILL COME AND GO BUT SHE
'WILL ALL WAY BE YOUR SISTER REMEMER THAT AND
FOR THE PEOPLE MAKE FUN OF HER. IF YOU ALLOW
THAT YOU NO BETTER.. THEY ARE NOT FRIEND THAT
DO THAT. HURT SOMEONE FEELING JUST BECAUSE
THEY MAY FEEL SHE WIEIRD. THAT THEY PROBLEM.
NOT YOURS. FAMILY COME FIRST.

2006-12-03 01:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0 0

He harasses your sister mercilessly and he and his friends are always making fun of you...and you have to ask US if you should trust him?

NO. In capitals.

2006-12-03 01:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0 0

see what you look like from the 3rd person point of view.... forget any dude who is rude to you or anyone else.

2006-12-03 01:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

dont be surprised if he treats you bad

2006-12-03 02:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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