i Dunno why but ive become shy around girls. Its weird. IN the past, ive been able to talk to girls and all in midddle school but, now in high school, its hard to. I mean everyone else is tallking to girls, i mean every boy, but now i dont. I used to be a big flirt but now i ve changed and i feel like ive fallen behind. SOmeone tell my why im so shy?
2006-12-02 17:35:56 · 6 answers · asked by big e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but i feel as though im the only one shy
2006-12-02 17:52:09 · update #1
well that is your fear , be confident . "conquer your fear"!
2006-12-02 18:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by CLoud9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi big e,
You haven't gotten shy, you've just noticed that girls are growing breasts and nice shapely legs. Well, you need to get back into the habit of flirting and talking with girls again. Flirting is something that you need lots of practice with to be good at.
Work on your eye contact, smile and build up a script of questions, compliments, and other conversations. Build up your self-confidence.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-12-03 01:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can`t tell you why you`re so shy, but I can tell you that it isn`t a bad thing. I`ll tell you why.
I currently have the hugest crush ever on a boy that hardly talks. I don`t like him just for looks, I like him because when I attempt to talk to him and finally get him to talk, he`s really fun to be around.
Even if you`re uncomfortable going up to girls and talking to them, there will eventually be a girl who will come up to you, and as long as you talk a little bit and she`s actually interested, you`ll be fine.
2006-12-03 01:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't "fallen behind" you've just matured and become more aware of situation and things going on around you. Once you learn to accept your new self then you'll be able to enjoy what's going on around you.
2006-12-03 01:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by lovey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change and you are young what it was big deal for you some days are not anymore do not force yourself into something that apparently you do not want to do
let time pass and let moments come to your life those moments that will make you be the person you want to be with the right girl
2006-12-03 01:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Yami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how come you lost your tuogh.
2006-12-03 02:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋