what WOULD happen if I made him angry?

Question

Someone answered in one of my questions: 'what would happen if you make him angry?' I don`t know the answer. He gets into fights a lot and his soccer coach pointed out that he has a lot of aggression and that he can channel into the game (against the other team). I`ve known him for years and only saw him smile once (I`ve seen him smirk, but its not the same thing). He`ll get into fights if someone says something to him, even if its not something that bad. When we were playing soccer, someone told him to shutup and he got into a fight over it. He`s a bit of a bully. He put this one guy in a head-lock for no reason at all. I can handle jerks; I have a tendency to go for jerks. I can usually see the best in people; I can see right through the hard exterior. I can with this guy too, but what I`m wondering is, is he safe to be with?

Answer 1

I think I also answered your previous question, and you seemed to handle thisjerk pretty well, but you are still flirting with danger.

Answer 2

He might be not safe, you have a legit concern. Believe it or not, I had a BF like this. I made him angry (that didn't take too much, he'd get angry at a drop of a hat), he shouted at me (more than once) I got fed up and said I'm leaving him goodbye. He didn't want to let me go, and physically tried to stop me. Well good thing is - I managed to brake away and kick his a** because I'm unexpectedly strong for my size and I fight like a maniac, I ended up with torn jeans and a torn purse. He probably got a couple of bruises. So, yeah, my conclusion is - run for your life before it got worse. If you are afraid to make him angry - that's a bad bad bad sign. You will keep being afraid and will keep tucking your head in your shoulders and eventually it will affect your personality.

Answer 3

no way. violence is always a danger.