I want to meet a guy who will love me for my personality, and not my looks. I'm not saying I'm not pretty, but I am a naturally nice and kind person, and I would like to find a guy who is focused on the personality of a person. If you have any advice, PLEASE answer, because I am also a hopeless romantic, which makes this even more important for me! Thanx!
2006-12-02 18:31:23 · 5 answers · asked by punker89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me being a beautiful plus size individual myself know that it is hard to find a guy today who is not interested in only looks. I found that I just like to be myself. I know that I am a beautiful person and I dress very nice and I am a very nice and friendly individual but I am shy. I'm not to quick to go up to a guy and just start to flirt. The way that I found my fiancee, well the way that he found me was by me being myself. He saw me we started to talk and things hit off from there. No I didnt lose any weight or try to be someone that Im not I stayed true to myself and I think that is what attracted him to me even more. Matter of fact Im trying to lose and he keeps saying no that enough I like you the way that you are. And that makes me feel wonderful to know thats the way he feels.
I mean all I can say is be you and do you. Dress nice and keep yourself up no matter where you are going even if its to the grocery or to the park look good. Let that confidence that you have in yourself shine through and show them that even if you dont want to talk to me I know that I still look good and I will find that special someone thats right for me.
2006-12-02 18:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I have seen in one of the posts. Says that some men like a little overweight girls.
That is true. (i am a guy) There is some very hot guys that like a little overweight girls but not too fat.
I am not going to tell you what most answers have given. (And think that most answers were girls). First thing you have to do, it is to loose some weight. Sorry not to be politically correct! but I am telling you the truth.
Almost all guys look a little the look of the girl, of course, they do care about the whole package, but to look at the whole package, first you have to pass the prove of being a little nice looking.
You do not have to loose too much weight, but do something, at one side. Loose weight, in the other side, buy really expensive clothes (they usually hide weight) and become a little flirty.
Then you will be able to find a really nice guy
P.D.; I hope it helps !!!
2006-12-02 19:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not on the outside that should matter, there is someone for everyone i believe.. I am a little person and thought no one would ever want to be with me. But my man loves the way i am.. I think that is something special. So dont u worry honey there will come a day when you find that certain someone who thinks the world of you
2006-12-02 18:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question just compels me to tell you a story. There was a period in my life where I was just totally aerobically fit, and toned etc etc. I had guys chasing me like crazy-because of my looks of course, since they are, after all-guys and that is what attracts them in the first place. For women it's the 'entire package' lol.
Anyhow, after almost being kidnapped, by two guys in my own house/my own room at 5am in the morning when I was seventeen, then after that...just a bunch of other things started happening, and then later in life I had kids too...I gained weight like women usually do. At some point I decided I felt 'safer' the more weight I had, but it DIDN'T stop guys from hitting on me, or asking me out!!
My point is, some guys like plush women...'more cushion for the pushin', some say...lol...and those guys are everywhere...most 'nice guys' hang out with the 'bad boys' lol...heck, I like'm both!
You can always post on yahoo personals, or www.plentyoffish.com or something like that...
good luck!
2006-12-02 18:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by Little Jeannie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry you will find someone who will love you for who you are not for what you are! Just wait until the right guy comes along. Don't rush because if you get too desperate you will end up with the wrong guy. Good Luck
2006-12-02 18:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by andinghsiang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋