ok ok the deal there is a nice fellow .. somehow we are going on serious .. hes jewish and i'm muslim and he knows it obviously. but i'm sure this is going to flare up both sides of the family.. somehow i'm trying to avoid him before it gets much worst (before i really love him to death ) why why why
2006-12-02 23:57:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wish all jew boys could fall into love with muslim girls and all muslim boys had children with jew girls. In a couple of generations this madness would start ceasing. Yet you are all alone out there and you are screwd up. I'm so sorry for your mortal love.
2006-12-03 00:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because religion defines your values and beliefs. Being w/ someone w/ a different religion could cause misunderstandings. Whether you two could reconcile them or not, depends on how much determined you want the relationship to work. With regards to family, religion is really an issue since it's sort of a tradition for the family...like the religious traditions you practice. One obvious tradition is the wedding ceremony. Obviously muslims and jews have different wedding ceremonies. The only solution i can see is either you be a jew or your guy becomes muslim...But I bet you wouldnt wanna change your religion... But really, if you love each other, you should fight for each other.
2006-12-03 00:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by stormy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jewish and Muslim ?
Does love have a denomination or a race?
Are you over 18 ? If so you can make your own decisions.
Will your family dis-own you and no longer love you if you love a Jewish man?
If you were to marry, could you not live your life together in a different location if the families could not get along?
It just seems sad to not love someone based on there spirituality.
2006-12-03 00:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by truthwalker7 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's going to depend on how devoted to your particular religious beliefs you are. If either both of you are convinced that you must adhere to your specific faiths, you are looking at a difficult journey. I was once engaged to a Catholic girl, but she didn't think it was the Pope's business who she married. I don't think it's a decision you can make on the spot. To change religion for a romance might seem easy to some, but if these beliefs are an integral part of who you are, they won't just go away. The bottom line is, if you are both devout in your religious beliefs, your love for each other is going to make you want the other to change their beliefs. If you aren't, then you might want to just back off of the religious position, develop your relationship and seek God together from a religiously neutral position. It's good to hear others' opinions, I guess, but this is a dilemma only you can resolve.
2006-12-03 00:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by celebduath 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well families are of course gonna disagree with ur situation, i guess cos everyones been bought up with different religions and values and certain religions beleive being with someone from the same religion as u jus makes lfe easier, and u don't have to face any religious disagreements..eg if u get married and have kids and ur muslim and he's not muslim, how will u decide on names, celebrations, christining, jus those things, but things are changing but it's all down to the individual in what they wanna do.
2006-12-03 00:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
religion is and was a means of control by a bunch of cynical old men --- if you love each other then the families will have to live with it -- of course both of you will have to decide what to do about it as well --- marriage children etc ---- maybe the best way is to investigate some other non confrontational religion that will offend both sides equally --- Buddhism is a good one
or just toss religion completely
2006-12-03 00:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as a results of fact there's a element called intolerance it relatively is often related to the very company ideals held by a non secular person. It motives the shortcoming to compromise in lots of occasion. Realistically you may't blend oil and water. and you may't blend 2 thoroughly polar contraptions of non secular dogma except the two all and sundry is keen to realize a compromise. And faith does no longer compromise as you may't serve 2 masters.
2016-10-17 15:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why go ahead with your plan if you really love him.Religion will not be bar in your Marriage.However if he is in Israel and you are in Palestine then there may be a trouble from both side but if he loves you too then Israeli will accept you dear.Good Luck to you.
2006-12-03 00:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by shri 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A devotion to a religeon is just that...a devotion. Especially for religeons such as judaism, islam, and christianity. Those involve your entire life. My suggestion to you
1) change religeons or
2) find someone in your own
Crappy situation to be in...I have heard it said, "do not awaken love before its time"
2006-12-03 00:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Before you take any decision... you need to test it.
Introduce him to your family
And ask him to introduce you to his family.
Not all religious people are intolerant.
You never know...until you tried it.
2006-12-03 00:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋