What is in his mind ?
This guy works with us in office , we are to-gether from date of joining,me and my 4 friends, we all get along, aprt from one girl, he takes care of all of us,and is nice , as we are new to this place, he takes us all out mostly we have good dinners , and its always he who does all expenditures , we always tel him separately don"
t spend so much money, spend it on himself ,while giving gift { i asked a gurl to give him the {vallet} she ket it on his working table , and said its from us all ,1st day he said he aint gonna open it,cause it looks soo preety , he will keep it with him till the last.
2nd day he gave it back to us and said, he has a vallet , and don"t want anything in return for his money, he was just trying to buy happiness, cause he was having money ....we did hi-bye 2-3 times after that, but now he never talks , what is in his mind ?
I gave a guy a birthday gift ,he gave it back to me ,what does it means ?
2006-12-02 23:47:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he's very strange or you (girls) have somehow, unwittingly insulted him. Sometimes people say things like spending money, (always paying for everyone), doesn't bother them when it really does. Often times they might think, or someone might put the idea in their head that, "hey, maybe I'm being taken advantage of." He also could have been hoping for romance w/ one of you girls and was just to shy to say anything, so he finally just gave up. Then again, maybe he just got a new girlfriend, (that might not be to happy about him going out and spending money on you four girls), and now he takes her out and spends his money on her instead. Anyway, he sounds like kind of a strange guy to me, so maybe you're better off not going out w/ him. However, if you really miss his company and want to get to the bottom of the situation, I would take him a side and have a one on one conversation w/ him and ask him why he doesn't want to hang anymore. Tell him that you miss him and if he won't open up tell him, (in kind of a joking manner), that you're not going to let him leave until he tells you what's going on. At least make him explain why he returned your gift. Tell him he at least owes you an explanation for that. If he still won't tell you anything, tell him that he really hurt your feelings and that you're sorry if you offended him. Also, maybe squeeze out a couple of tears, guys will do almost anything to stop a girl from crying, especially if they think it's their fault. Good luck w/ this one, sounds like you've got your work cut out for you.
P.S. I know you asked for girls only, but I thought you might appreciate a male perspective as well. Hope you don't mind.
2006-12-03 00:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know it's from you alone, right? He probably thinks that the gift is the result of him being nice to you and has nothing to do, if any, on his birthday. So, don't give up hope yet. Try to know him more in person? Beats me why he keeps on spending on you girls... Is he your senior?
2006-12-03 07:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he doesn't want it. but wondering why he won't talk to you. go to him and talk to him be the first to break the ice. and tell him you miss him as a friend.
2006-12-03 07:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you already ask this????
2006-12-03 07:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋