Im 18 year old virgin and i know im going to have sex soon and when i do i want to be good at it for my very first time. I mastebate almost 3-4 times a day for the past 4 years i dont know if that will effect how long i last or not... Are there any tips you guys can give for me so my first time isnt bad and is actually good? tips on lasting longer, oral pleasure etc... what mistakes did u do on your first time ? thanks
2006-12-02 23:45:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it in a car the first time. So many of us have that as a memory. Just find a nice comfy bed and spend the whole night with the girl. Take your time and be sweet to her. Kiss her a lot and don't be in a hurry.
2006-12-02 23:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by Roger S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way you're going to be able to enjoy your first time is if it's with a female that you truly wish to be with. It's not the experience, but rather who you're sharing it with. Sex is mostly mental, about 60%. Probably the best thing you can do is foreplay. Touching and kissing each other's bodies, including genitals, give you all the mental stimulation you need. If you're worried about premature ejaculation the best idea is to have the female give you oral sex or hand pleasure first, then afterwards you'll be able to last longer. Remember that virginity does not determine whether or not your experience will be pleasurable. The only pleasurable experience for me was with the person I am now dating, who happened to be a virgin and never had a girlfriend before me. If you're nervous, that's going to be the biggest mood killer. Also a tip that males seem to abandon--do not verbally ask for sex. Get the female in the mood by kissing, touching, and progressing. When she asks for it, that's all the confirmation you'll need.
2006-12-02 23:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are playing with yourself too much. IMHO. Good luck finding a girl that will want to have sex that often. The mistake I made was I was worried about my own pleasure. If you concentrate on the girl and try to make sure she has a good time, like giving her a lot of foreplay (all of the women I have been with love receiving oral sex) you should be fine. Try not to be too nervous and just relax dude. Good luck.
2006-12-02 23:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by waltstinkycorny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First try to stop wacking. When you get a girl make sure shes clean preferable a virgin. If shes a virgin kiss real quick, give her some head get sloppy for like five mins. Then get head from her for a loong as you please. When u start hittin it mechinary, if u bout to skeet pull out chill for a second or switch positions (back shots). When ur in there try not to think of how good it feels. This may help you go longer.
2006-12-03 00:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jay B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-02-14 01:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no tips we can give --- because everyone is different --- the person you are with will have their own foibles as do you --- do what feels good --- try to make the process last for both of you ---- lots of foreplay and then practice practice practice
2006-12-02 23:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-28 23:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by wilson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No answers you get here are going to help you mate....nice try!!! You just have to back yourself with the BEST of you!
2006-12-02 23:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by renclrk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you still with masturbation . go get a girl as soon as possibile
2006-12-02 23:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
most people's 1st times are not that great...
2006-12-02 23:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋