Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

ok, i'll be honest, i've never been in love, thats why i ask a lot of questions on it, but is there ever such a love like the ones you find in romance novels??? is there any chance things happen like that??? if so, how often? it makes me wonder if love like that ever truly exists cos if it did, i wonder why they'd write about it so much... sorry for all my weirds questions...

2006-12-03 00:46:01 · 13 answers · asked by Gaz K 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 00:44:13 · 18 answers · asked by yup 1 in Singles & Dating

After 18 years of marriage, my ex left me to marry his secretary, who was also married and left her ex after 25 years of marriage. These two people destroyed two families and caused a lot of pain not only to me and her ex but also to four children from both sides. When I tell my story in details to some people, they tell me there is something called 'equilibrium in the universe' meaning, when someone does you harm, the universe gets unbalanced and tries to find its own balance. So as that can happen, the person who did you wrong will get back with the same intensity.

I have hoped my ex to divorce his current wife as both tried to build up their happiness on at least 6 people's misery. It is very difficult to forget, specially when my children have been living with them and they do not have a good relationship with his new wife.

2006-12-03 00:43:08 · 7 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a dream with a girl, she was not super model or anything but she was the most beautiful girl i dreamt with, for some reason i dreamt with her many years ago, or so I think cause that face was very familiar and i still remember the 1st time had a similar dream that impacted me so much. How do i find this girl of my dreams. Or what does this dream mean?

2006-12-03 00:41:33 · 11 answers · asked by Guillermo R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 00:41:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother in law who is a white skinned moroccan, calls my sisters (who is African American and Caucasian) side of the family ni**ers. I know that sounds strong but thats what he been saying. They have been married for two years now. How can I get her to realize that this is completly unnaceptable?

2006-12-03 00:40:58 · 17 answers · asked by MIKE s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think about having some attachment issues that you KNOW you need to drop? I've been apart from my ex for soooo long yet I am still not completely over her. How can I move on 100%?

2006-12-03 00:40:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how long do you have to go out with a guy before you start cutting the cheese in front of him? and i don't mean the silent ones but the loud ones

2006-12-03 00:38:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 00:37:41 · 8 answers · asked by Derrick 1 in Weddings

appreciations

2006-12-03 00:36:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it true that women are attracted to married men? I have been married for 5 years now, and my wife is always telling me to watch out for women because they like married men.
I attract a lot of looks from all types of women but never have i been proposed for an affair. In fact i notice that for the most part women respect the fact that i am married.
so are you out there, women who like married men?

2006-12-03 00:34:58 · 27 answers · asked by heycanwedoda 2 in Singles & Dating

Out-shined in terms of your aspirations, your goals, your efforts e.t.c.

2006-12-03 00:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by jiven85 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife doesnt approve my intention to still give financial support to my mother. I have spoken to her about this matter many times but it only leads us to heated arguments or she's giving me cold treatment. Shall I explain the matter to my widow mother that I cant do it or help her still and just keep it secret from my wife?

2006-12-03 00:33:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He has a hard time telling me no, sometimes saying things I want to hear so that I can be happy. He isn't my boyfriend either - just a guy I've come to know and consider a friend.

Also, I'm beginning to wonder if he says these things because he might be interested......

2006-12-03 00:32:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like after 2 months have past and it just does'nt happen even though I have answered 100s of them. Should i move to Mars? Is two questions allowed in one? o thats 3 oooppps

2006-12-03 00:31:51 · 14 answers · asked by info click 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boy of two years plus is getting married. Ive been invited to the wedding and im planning on attending. I wish him well and happiness with his future wife.
A few friends think its a bad idea to go. considering we parted well and have been friends ever since i dont see what the problem is. What do you think?

2006-12-03 00:31:24 · 21 answers · asked by Classique 3 in Weddings

Now a days money is the new god. people work day and night to bring in more money. The women are also working. I believe that being a real home maker is a full time job. It is because children need mother all the time. Working mothers have to leave childern to baby sitters. This results into many horrible things like child pornography, drug addiction and god knows what more. Therefore the women should be encouraged to be full time home makers. Working women can at the best be called house makers. Great difference.

2006-12-03 00:30:57 · 23 answers · asked by RD 1 in Family

I met a man the first of Sept. 2006. He right away wanted to date, talked about growing old together, stayed with me every day for about 2 months. First of Nov. he said he had to go stay at his house to take care of it and help his dad out, he comes stays all nite about 1 time a week. I've wondered if there was another woman, but never sure. He doesn't seem to be sexually attracted to me any more, he doesn't seem to be as interested in me & he gets upset with me a lot. After about a two months of us dating I over heard my son tell him that he had seen his My Space profile, so I checked it out, his status said he was in a relationship & his (what i'm here for - said- networking & friends. Today, I just went to his profile, I don't know why, I was bored I guess & now his status says: single & his: what i'm here for says: friends, dating, serious relationships & networking. This has really hurt my feelings & upset me! Please give me your opionion of why you think & what should I do?

2006-12-03 00:29:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First off my younger sister lives with me (17) and are 4 older brothers (19.21.23) my dad is out of the question and when my mom moved away with her new husband she decided to live with my brothers and I. One night she came home around 3am completely drunk and smeelt like drugs. The next morning when i went to talk to her about it she just keept telling me to f*** off and shyt like that so i took her over the knee and spanked her(clothes on of course) now she's not talking to me but i don't feel bad about it was i wrong?

2006-12-03 00:29:18 · 11 answers · asked by jt_soccer11 1 in Family

I've been dating a wonderful & very faithful guy for going on a year now, he's been married and has a son. The problem is that I'm realizing that his being married previously really bothers me because marriage is a vow of commitment & I fear that I will start resenting his son because his birth was the reason for their marriage. I know this sounds weird, but because his son is around so much, I find myself wanting to keep my distance from him because he constantly reminds me of my boyfriend's ex wife (who is currently remarried). I know this shouldn't bother me, but it does. Also, my boyfriend has had lots of other girlfriends, before me, and it bothers me that they may have been with him intimately. Sometimes I get so frustrated & upset that I sometimes take it out on him even though he's already declared his love for me & wants to marry me. I know everything is just in my head & I should get over it, what can I do to get myself to snap out of it before he gets fed up?

2006-12-03 00:28:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have met some people over the net thru the chat. but when they start to tell me that we should meet in person when they go to my place, i get cold feet., don't know why but i really dont know what to do and what to say if ever i meet with them

2006-12-03 00:28:47 · 12 answers · asked by amanda 2 in Singles & Dating

I FART ATLEST 17 TIMES A DAY IF IM LUCKY I'LL FART ATLEST 28 TIMES BUT THATS RALLY PUSHING THE FRIENDSHIP WITH MY AR$

2006-12-03 00:27:47 · 5 answers · asked by p1mp_1n 1 in Singles & Dating

No, this is not refering to me (i am older) Referring to someone i know. Was just wanting your opinions on this. Be as lunt as you want.

2006-12-03 00:27:44 · 18 answers · asked by Katsika 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 00:27:33 · 18 answers · asked by voice1743 1 in Marriage & Divorce

3 days a go I bout this car from this guy. ... the day I supposed to get the car title. he was late so I have to cal his office. all of the Sedan his assistants answer. .... I asked him if the manager there he said hes on the way. .. I notice his voice was familiar to me. I asked him. I think I heard ur voice a before his said yes. me too. then in moment I realize That I was talking to my first fiance who dispersed 3 years ago. for no reason.I was like.. is that u. he said oh my god. salma.. where are u now. I said I am in this city . he was oh I am coming now. I was Like WHY... he said because I miss u. I said its over a long time a go. and .......I was like why did u go. he said I don't know. I asked him why did u leave me. when I needed u... u know I was so Young. that time I didn't know what I was doing u should have know batter them . if u loved me... u wouldn't go anywhere. u will be still here. he stop talking then he asked me for my family I was like WHY... he said I want to a

2006-12-03 00:27:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

finishing school, getting a degree, getting married, finding that SOMEONE, are really just scared of success?

2006-12-03 00:26:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 00:26:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I thought "Butterfly Kisses" might be nice.

2006-12-03 00:25:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-03 00:25:15 · 17 answers · asked by DANIEL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting re-married to my ex-husband which we are planning for 10/07. My mother in particular wants to know why we are doing something BIG ( a ceremony and reception) instead of just having a JP come to the house and then go out to dinner.
We want to go on a Honeymoon and we want to share our starting over with our family and friends. I have never asked my parents for money seeing that they paid for the 1st wedding. Why is it such a big deal? Can someone give me some advice???
Your suggestions are welcome! Thank you for viewing!

2006-12-03 00:24:13 · 11 answers · asked by missfitts6377 2 in Weddings