Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

I work a few days a week and my husband works long hours usually 6 days a week.

I primarily take care of our home, clean, take care of the children, feed them etc.
I take pride in having a nice, neat, well put together house and like it tidy and clean.

My mother is the only baby sitter I have for the few days a week that I work, and we CAN'T afford a baby sitter for 10-11 hours three days a week.
When I get home after working a long day after my mom has watched my kids,
my house looks like a tornado came through.
OK I'm not exaggerating AT ALL--The cusions and pillows are all over the floors, there is splatter all over the cabinets, she will cook all day and leave a huge sink of dirty dishes that they have been using the entire day, there will be sticky spots on my carpets, dark spots, sometimes even feces on my sofa and floor, my kitchen floor is sticky, dirty and gross, the kids room is so bad, you can't even step in it.

2006-12-03 01:45:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There's also a lot of hype in the media about this these days.

But I just don't get it. I tried it once but it was so uncomfortable bcuz I kept getting moist (aherm...) sorry but I just have to know what the big fascination is... Anybody?

2006-12-03 01:44:49 · 12 answers · asked by Lara D 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 01:42:46 · 24 answers · asked by emo 2.0 3 in Singles & Dating

i REALY like my bros best friend and he likes me but we arnt going out and he trys to make out with me every weekend and then he goes out and gets a gf is that OK?

2006-12-03 01:41:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 01:40:58 · 11 answers · asked by amanda 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have owned "our" bar for month now. He manages, I do the accounting. Everything is going well, with one exception. He does not want me at the bar. He says he doesn't want a bar wife. Which I don't want to be in the least bit, Just be able to go to "our" bar if the baby goes to his grandma's every once in a while, and enjoy seeing our accomplishment. His case is that he is the boss and it is unprofessional that his wife is there. I have been very excited in our new endeavor and just because I want to go every once in while "i'm a bad mother", or "the house isn't clean enough". Before anyone tells me he is cheating. STOP. I just want to know if how he feels is a legitmate way for men to feel "and let him be a man for once" or is some double standard Bu)) Shi#. I would like somes ideas to end this never ending dispute with him.

2006-12-03 01:38:52 · 27 answers · asked by BB 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My father said that it is written in the bible that a man/woman should leave the house of their parents when they get married. He said that it is written that when a man/woman gets married, their family should always come first before their parents. Can someone tell me where it is written in the bible? You see, I'm in a long distance relationship and after my studies I'll be going to my boyfriends place which is really far away from my parents place. I really feel bad thinking that I would be leaving them and wouldn't be able to see them for a very long time. I've been with them since I was a child and have never left them for so long. The longest I think that I left without seeing them was 2 months and when I get married I will move to another country where I won't be able to visit them if I want to. That's why I'm trying to find the scripture. I think it will help me. thanks

2006-12-03 01:37:44 · 5 answers · asked by dauntlessblythe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A lot of the time i feel like i'm bending over backwards to relate. I have gone into my shell a lot since highschool and now at university. I always been one to avoid conflict, whilst throwing away my true emotions. It is not all the time i need to put on this mask of 'great happiness', though i wish to just be myself. I wonder how many people feel the same about themselves...How do you deal with the lonliness of not being able to be yourself?

2006-12-03 01:36:51 · 9 answers · asked by jiven85 1 in Singles & Dating

we have extremely stressful lives, a sick child and a struggling business,but it`s still not fair that i blame her

2006-12-03 01:35:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dun understand what did men describe girl in good or bad?
For mysekf i feel like all girl are good , cos girl did no big mistake.
Please share yr opinion.

2006-12-03 01:35:04 · 3 answers · asked by grace 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 01:34:30 · 13 answers · asked by Tracy B 1 in Family

He getts off the phone after 5 minutes. and never really talks to me.

2006-12-03 01:34:12 · 13 answers · asked by sprit_girl2u 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a natural tomboy. I like sports, cant stand makeup, dolls, or the color pink. And of course pretty much all of my friends are guys. But lately I've been noticing how great they are and i think i have somewhat of a crush on them. All my [girl]friends say im pretty nd that i should get a bf or something. But i still wanna be friends with them. What should i do?!?!?

2006-12-03 01:33:53 · 8 answers · asked by 1m@ h3@rT Br3@k3r 2 in Singles & Dating

they cuss way to much

2006-12-03 01:32:39 · 13 answers · asked by purple lady in rain 1 in Friends

2006-12-03 01:32:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I finally get to go out for the night and take a break from all the hard work i do every day and night. Its been a while and all the friends i have are in other states. I live pretty far out, and usually dont have a car so i dont get into town much so i dont know anyone really in town. I just want to do something fun from 6pm and after. Anyone have any suggestions?

2006-12-03 01:30:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 01:28:30 · 7 answers · asked by hotty 1 in Singles & Dating

My nephews Father has moved in with me and my husband, he has been divorced from my sister for 5 years now. My nephew stays here on the weekends with his dad. The problem is my nephew has a girlfriend who's Mother has a drinking problem. She has been known to leave her daughter alone at home in the past because she obviously just doesnt care. Last night this happened and the girl had to spend the night here. I dont want this to continue in my home anymore but I feel if I tell my nephew shes not allowed over here anymore then my nephew wont visit his dad here. My sister allows his girlfriend to spend the night at her house when the mom forgets to get her daughter but I dont think its appropriate at 14 yrs. old. The Mom left her daughter alone for 3 days without contact and my sister let her stay at her house. I cant be apart of this behavior, what would you do? Please help!!

2006-12-03 01:27:55 · 13 answers · asked by julia4evert 4 in Family

I have a crush on one of my friends. I think the most gorgeous thing on God's green earth. I know she knows I like her. X-mas is coming up and I don't know what to get her. I know she likes anything pink and she's into knitting.
Oh yeah she looks a bit like this girl:
http://img126.echo.cx/img126/9006/160kv1...
and I got her yesterday a furry white hat that I got from Kohl's. and I'm giving to her as a X-mas present and I'm also giving my friends presents in order to not to her on the spotlight as much and because I like my friends.
ummm....help?

2006-12-03 01:26:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're recently relocated out of state from the entire family. Husband takes the train into DC everyday. I had the great idea to take a photo of the kids dressed in business suits underneath the train station sign which says the name of our city. One kid is looking at her watch, one is looking at the local newspaper and one is looking at his watch, as if waiting for the train. It is really cute.

I'd like to use it as the front of our Christmas cards, but don't have a clever line to put with it. Can you help me come up with something?!

2006-12-03 01:25:44 · 3 answers · asked by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 in Family

He will buy me something and be really nice, then turn around and do something like deliberately blowing bad breath on me (I hate that) and when I confront his rudeness he denies it or does more of it until it's obvious he wants a fight.
I will ask him if he is upset about the gift or doing something for me and he will tell me profusely that he wanted to do the something or for me to have the gift and he isn't mad or wanting to fight.
He will blow bad breath on me or 'accidently' break something or if he has the opportuinity...call me from his cell while we are talking on land lines and when I answer call waiting he hangs up, or he will have someone else call and hang up. He goes out of his way to be a pain and then deny it and try and cover it up only to do it again!
I thought it was immaturity but after all these years I'm thinking something else.
I need imput on my thoughts as he has really stepped up his behaviour and is being more abusive and intollerable. How to deal with it?

2006-12-03 01:25:11 · 10 answers · asked by Knuckledragger 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently doing a MCSA (microsoft certified systems administrator) certification course.

I have finished the intense 2 month training a week ago.

During that time I met my new guy friend who is in the same class~
I also have a long term boyfriend who is on a break with me because of this new guy =|.

I am studying hard for the 1st microsoft exam on XP Pro (installation, configuration and administrating Windows XP Professional) which also includes a lot of stuff on networking and Windows Server 2003.

My trainer has much faith in my abilities so he decided to put me in for the REAL one on Tuesday =O!!

For a few days I did not achieve much improvement because I had been too busy worrying about if the new guy would call me and if he likes me etc. etc.

I believe I can achieve my goal of passing 4 MCSA exams by Xmas.

But sometimes my love life gets in the way.

Hopefully I can focus on my studies because both guys are distant from me.

How about you?

2006-12-03 01:24:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you like girls and guys but you like a girl and a guy at the same time does that make you strate or bisexual? And if you have a Boyfriend and a chick that you realy like askes you out and you say yes does that make you cheating on him? PLEASE HELP (and yes im bi)

2006-12-03 01:23:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going through a divorce and I have had my new boyfriend for about 6 months now. He is awesome in bed, but I am having a horrible time climaxing. He's doing everything that would have made me go in the past, but I am not going. i started taking Wellbutrine to help me relax since i am going through a divorce, but am worried about it now. My boyfriend is GREAT, but I feel so NOT great since I can't go for myself and for him. Even when I try to do myself, it is taking a VERY long time....I might have awesome stamina, but this is getting ridiculious. Please help?

2006-12-03 01:22:54 · 10 answers · asked by ANGELA 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it's odd for a 13 year old to like a 12, but she's really nice and beautiful. I just at least want her to like me one day...

2006-12-03 01:22:02 · 10 answers · asked by Nathan D. 1 in Singles & Dating

i like a senior of my skool.....and i hav given him gr8 hints abt it.....like i gav him a roseon teachers day even though i m not in talking terms wid him....and usually smile 8 him wenever we cross each other....but the thing dat is bothering me is dat i gave him my slambook to fill-in and he returned it blank.....i was quite hurt.....i still like dat guy and dunno wat to do....cud neone plz suggest me how shud i make him notice me....lately he has even started talking to another gal of our skool and his frenz tease him by her name....i think he has taken me 4 granted and feels dat i wud always b w8ing 4 him....but i want him 2 realise my importance.....wat shud i do????

2006-12-03 01:20:48 · 7 answers · asked by khyati 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay there is this boy I really like and I have liked him on and off for 3 years
But I have liked him alot all year
Last night at the dance every1 who knew about me liking him (I accedentally told a blabbermouth about it) and they were all either bugging me to make a move on him and ask him to dance or telling him to ask me to dance and I never ask guys to dance I think its there job. But I told them to stop so many times and it was embarresing and I had to just keep walking off

How can I get them to stop this crap

2006-12-03 01:20:33 · 9 answers · asked by Skittles 4 in Singles & Dating

Time passes...do you make the first move to reconcile, or do you let her stew until she comes to her senses? What if she never does...and a lot of time has passed??

2006-12-03 01:20:04 · 6 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5 in Family

2006-12-03 01:19:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 01:17:54 · 8 answers · asked by michelle k 1 in Singles & Dating