Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

I have just come back from Australia with my elder daughter.
(We were there for my brothers wedding)
We loved it so much that after my daughter finishes Uni she will be moving out there to live.
My 20 year old son is at Uni but has his career as a teacher to find out where he will settle.
My younger daughter of 14 is still in school >
So what i want to do is move to Australia when my youngest daughters education has finished.
But my wife of 23 years does not in any circumstances want to move to
Australia.

My heart is with my wife but my head says Australia is
my future and i should go there.

I know you can't help me decide but
What would you do if you was in this situation????

2006-12-03 03:17:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I been arguing with my boy friend who i known for almost 8 months about money or other stupid things.. and when we go out i get mad when he doesn't have enough money for certain things and he tells me before hand he doesn't have enough money but i tend to believe his lieing to me? how can i get over this and trust him? and make our relationship better? i got to school and work very little and have to pay my cell bills and other bills so every pay check is for bills. what can i do? help me? iam tired of arguing i just want to love him!!

2006-12-03 03:16:44 · 6 answers · asked by Vanessa D 1 in Singles & Dating

i told him that i dont want anything, but he got something anyways (he didnt tell me what)
--the reason i dont want anything is because i hate feeling like i NEED to get something for him also. like i feel obligated to.

so... what should i get him for christmas (bc he already got me something) and, how can i tell him not to get me gifts anymore without telling him the reason why...????

2006-12-03 03:15:34 · 13 answers · asked by brookbabe90 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for about 3 months and we dated for about a year before. When we frist met, we had oodles of sex and cuddle time. When we got married however, my husband has pretty much stopped wanting to have sex all that often. I am lucky if I can squeeze about once a week from him. I am always doing the asking, and he won't come give me just general affection unless I pout or ask outright. He chalks it up to being older than me and having a slower sex drive. He is 29, I am 24. Can anyone give me advice? I am feeling really bitter and sad. I can't talk to him about it, he gets very defensive and argumentive, which makes me very upset. Last night he told me to stop bugging him about the issue.

2006-12-03 03:15:15 · 3 answers · asked by scottishonion 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean : Is it possible for ur mind to disagree with ur heart?
What to do in such a case?

2006-12-03 03:14:54 · 15 answers · asked by prety girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 03:14:45 · 7 answers · asked by budi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please help me iam really angry!!! AND NERVOUS!!!?
I gotta question:?
now you see iam right handed, whe iam eating luch or dinner i usually take the fork with my right hand and the knife with my left-hand, is thta normal? instead of taking the fork with my left hand and the knife with my right.
i need to know i think my friend finds it abnormal.

2006-12-03 03:14:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-03 03:14:11 · 10 answers · asked by budi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm asking this cos in the upcoming days I won't have a chance to take a shower at least once every 2 days..so can someone please answer me..( perfums will do for just 4-5 hours and so no)but I want something to do like a whole shower.

2006-12-03 03:14:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont drink,smoke n all d other stuff dat normal guys do?m not very manly n i get along wit girls.i like readingn n very protective of my privacy,

2006-12-03 03:13:19 · 4 answers · asked by andy 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it mother in laws never like son in laws and/or daughter in laws?

2006-12-03 03:12:56 · 7 answers · asked by mirmade13 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know where to start, and have very little information to go with.

2006-12-03 03:12:06 · 1 answers · asked by denny 1 in Family

My fiance left me and the kids 4 weeks ago to move in with a 19 year old coworker. I am 22 he is 24. He said he would never return and that he is happy, so instead of me crying I have been telling him I am happy and I am glad we are done. Well he called 2 days ago and told me that he feels he made a big mistake, he misses me, loves me, but also loves the new girl. he said if he comes home he will never leave again and he was crying. Everyone in his family who has met her says it will not last. Well then he called back and asked for 2 weeks to decide, I said I have been thru hell and I cannot wait that long, I told him 2 days and that is it. So he came over last night to decide. he said he came to tell me he was staying with her, but now that he sees me he wants to be here. he cried a lot. finally i said just tell me it is over so I can start to heal, I just need to hear it. He said I cannot say that because it is not true I want to try again when my heart is ready.

2006-12-03 03:11:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

now you see iam right handed, whe iam eating luch or dinner i usually take the fork with my right hand and the knife with my left-hand, is thta normal? instead of taking the fork with my left hand and the knife with my right.
i need to know i think my friend finds it abnormal.

2006-12-03 03:10:59 · 12 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Friends

2006-12-03 03:10:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know who you are. your that in the closet smoker. it is time to come out and be free.

2006-12-03 03:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by heycanwedoda 2 in Singles & Dating

Agree/Disagree?
And why?

2006-12-03 03:07:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am so confused. My boyfriend has many issues and it seems he hates himself (he used to be a self cutter). I don't know -is it true you can't love another unless you love yourself first?-please answer that question if u repsond.
Also, we had a break up 2 months ago, but he initiated again and we ended up back together.Then yesterday he tells me that when he dated girls in the past he never felt love with them. He knows i love him, but he tells me we can continue to date, but keep our options open. Its so confusing because a few weeks ago he told me he thinks he loves me but not sure b/c he has never experienced it. Will be a year this jan that i have been going out with him and i am the longest relationship he has ever had. He is 24 i am 25. Is it possible he wants to just get his act together as well-he currently is not working and is finishing up one more class for a degree he dosn't even like, but motivated to eventually just work. Its just so hard because i love him so much

2006-12-03 03:06:43 · 8 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Singles & Dating

last night I spent some "quality time" with my boyfriend and I am worried things may hae gone a little to far...is there anyway to salvage our new realationship? We're great together and we make each other happy...but what if we just went too far last night?
thanx for ur help...

2006-12-03 03:06:12 · 8 answers · asked by Raven S 3 in Singles & Dating

OK i go out with some1 now but my ex. who i loved goes out with my "bff" and they told me to my face while i was going out with him they didnt like each other but she told me a day ago she did and i just found out THEY GO OUT!! and im pissed at her how can i get over that and get over him? Its just not fair to my boyfriend.

2006-12-03 03:05:59 · 3 answers · asked by hot-rocker chick-punk 2 in Friends

I have deep, emotional green eyes and brown hair, I am 6'0 tall and I weigh about 165 pounds. You could say I'm intelligent, as I get honors every quarter. I play sports such as basketbal and soccer for fun, and I like to read. I have been told by many people that I'm attractive. Many girls have told me I have a great smile, and my dentist told me my teeth are so clean and white, they almost look fake. I would care for a girl if I had one and I would treat her right and give her whatever she asked for. I have a great attitude and I love to laugh. Do I sound attractive. Do I have what it takes to get a girlfriend?

2006-12-03 03:04:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean it is a lot of trouble.Might even take longer than the actual act itself.I just don't want to be discourteous.What is the proper etiquette?

2006-12-03 03:03:42 · 15 answers · asked by getnabargain 2 in Singles & Dating

like i already know what were going to do but like is there anyspecial way that i should act?

2006-12-03 03:01:56 · 11 answers · asked by lemonada dada 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm always falling for the ones that break my heart. Now everytime i find a guy I'm afraid of haveing to go through this all over again. I want to know i can trust them but I feel like I'm always being used. Then again, I dont want to not trust a guy and find out he was the right one.

2006-12-03 03:01:54 · 18 answers · asked by SAMANTHA B 2 in Singles & Dating

now the wife is having a Sunday afternoon kip.

What have i missed in the last few hours?

2006-12-03 03:01:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i just wanted to how are single gemini are doing, how they single live r doing?
that's it
i don't think is violating anybody right?

2006-12-03 03:01:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok this girl.....wow................i think she likes me, she all ways smile when i see her. she very cute, im n a higher grade than her, im strting 2 like her, but im scarred, her frends hang out w/ me, she even like the same football team i like but she like another college team and i make fun of her and she makes fun of my team, i dk.....plz help...............ask her out or not yet...............................................................................................................................................................................ok so posted this an the people said ask her out...................................so i did ask her to the movies and she said i whould but i dont have any money.....................i whouldive have paid but did she trun me down or she thinks me as a frend

2006-12-03 03:00:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no online crazies plz

2006-12-03 02:59:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is a wonderful husband. Hard worker and very loving. We have 5 kids and he goes fishing/hunting every weekend. I work full time for the school board and he drives a truck. He gets home about an hour before me. I have the kids when he goes off. He doesnt go all weekend but part iof it. I know hw loves me and the kids but I dont get any free time for myvself. I deal with both of our ex spouses and all custody issues. (His kids live with us too) Are kids range from 3-9 years. We have 2 with severe ADHD, 1 with parasomnia (a severe sleeping disorder), and 1 with autisum...This is enough to make even the best of parents go nuts! I have mentioned before to maybe slack down on this but he doesnt see anything wrong with it. Like I said he is a great father and deserves some free time but I feel like I do to. When he does come home though I still ahve to grocery shop and run errands that is to hard for me to do with the kids...That is how I usually end up spending my free time. Why?

2006-12-03 02:58:25 · 17 answers · asked by nekiawhitaker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

THis is the time of year we spend with family . I hate that I have to be around my in laws cause for 1 my mother in law loves to make me the butt of her racial comments just as she did for Thanksgiving.I love my husband & want to make him happy but I'm dreading going to the house of hell for the holidays.He knows how I feel & I try to remain calm around them when they are so nasty but this year I don't think I can be calm cause enough is enough.Help!

2006-12-03 02:57:56 · 5 answers · asked by "karma" 4 in Family