Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

I won't go into the tiny details, but child services, youth services, MHMR (mental health mental retartation), home advocates that visit, phycologists, shrinks, pills, judge, fines, police. basically everybody involved. Yesterday my 'good' girl(have 3, 14-15) didn't like to be kept from friend b/c of skipping school, so she fought with husband IN spegetti sauce in kitchen (don't ask) then she started stabbing leather, damaging walls, spraying clothes with clorine, we're still finding out what she did. We called state police, nothing, we called crisis hotline.. nothing we didn't ALREADY know. We are at WITS END! We want them gone. SO, when it's legal (and not abandonment) has anyone done this and was is at all successful? and if it was, what did you do?!? Please, help! The police/state troops like to scare, but they seem not be able to do a darn thing! Oh, and juvi court is a joke too.

2006-12-03 02:05:52 · 7 answers · asked by Valeria 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

how is it done and what will the effects on the attacker be?

2006-12-03 02:05:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two sons and my wife has one of her own. My wifes son doesn't know his father. I get assuced of not giving her son what he needs. I get accused of not treating the three boys the same, their ages 5, 11, and 12. This is happening a lot. Things like Why did he get a penut butter sandwhich and yours got a pizza from the freezer, responce. There were only two slices and he said a sandwhich was fine. I get the hand and attitude. When I bought a t shirt for my sons band needs, I get sarcasim because I did not think to buy her son a school logo shirt. Argument always beging with the things she thinks/assume/congers I do not do for her son. I yell back I am the wrong man to say these thing to. She should tell the other. His biofather. I tire of this shi!! She refuces to see that this is unhealthy appologies but short after here we are again. I am tired of it, I am so fustrated it hurt me that she think and says this about me. I love my sons and her son but I am starting to resent hers..

2006-12-03 02:04:29 · 13 answers · asked by speeqtruth 2 in Family

Im 28 parents still my buiness and i live next door and wannna move but cant bc i dont drive and none of my friends do so im stuck what do i do i cant have no company at all here im so lonely here . what do i do

2006-12-03 02:04:28 · 8 answers · asked by jemmala2000 2 in Friends

I met this girl and she and I had a great conversation, she is actually shy. We exchanged phone numbers. Then I msged her asked her out for and she replied back saying she's busy for the weekend.

Is it over and should i just move on? Is this the standard girl excuse? Please advise....

2006-12-03 02:03:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm visiting my bf in hawaii for the holidays. it's also gonna be ur 3rd anniv and his bday in december. can you help me with gift ideas? i want one that's gonna be surprising and memorable. creative ones are welcome as well. thanks!

2006-12-03 02:02:29 · 5 answers · asked by ruby r. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been talking a lot lately online and at school. Like lovey dovey sorta things. I know he has a girlfriend but he doesnt seem to care but sometimes it doesnt feel right. Last night his girlfriend told me to stay away from him. She was at his house on his sn talking to me, he must of told her it was me. He doesn't seem to care and i dont know what went down with them. But now he's all about her and i was planning on not talking to him for while. What do you think i should do?????

2006-12-03 02:01:38 · 13 answers · asked by shnaazzy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 02:01:36 · 15 answers · asked by blue_is_cool2000 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you date me?

42-year-old woman, 5'3", 245 pounds, severely depressed, no ambition, constantly complaining about job, always making sarcastic comments and cutting down other people, favorite "activities" are sitting on the couch watching TV for hours and sleeping or eating, hates to go outside or exercise, has no friends, hate to go out in public because I don't want other people to see me.

Men, am I a catch or what?? Women, wouldn't you love to have me for a friend?

2006-12-03 02:01:34 · 14 answers · asked by cococo 1 in Singles & Dating

I was friends with this guy - he asked me out and cus i like him i said yes! But like a week later i told him i thought it would be better if we were just friends! thing is, now I really miss him. we haven't talked since! I really regret breaking up with him! I don't even know why i did it - he was like my first boyfriend and i guess i just paniced!
I know i was his first girlfriend too - When i said i would go out with him, he said it was the best day of his life!
I miss him so much - I guess i just wanna know that if you've liked someone for ages then go out with them, and then break up - would you automatically not 'fancy' them anymore - or could there possibly be a chance he still likes me!
I do really like him - do you think there's any way he would ever like me again - is sending him a text a reeeeally bad idea?

2006-12-03 02:01:32 · 4 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

I've recently exchanged numbers with the guy I like, but the thing is im really shy!!! wen im with him in a group i normally let other ppl do the talking and laugh along with the jokes
and i want to text him, but I dont know wot to say, thats the problem I have wen im with him aswell!! i just get so shy!!
so does anyone hav any convo tips?? or anything just to help me please!?!?

2006-12-03 02:01:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 02:00:29 · 12 answers · asked by shez_a_maneater 3 in Singles & Dating

he wants to file for divorce but i dont want to. i will contest for the custody of my child but since he has a flawed character, i intend to contest his visitation rights too. can i do that?

2006-12-03 01:58:48 · 29 answers · asked by Lisa A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean c'mon, where do you draw the line?

2006-12-03 01:58:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 01:55:55 · 21 answers · asked by PenguinFan20085 2 in Singles & Dating

For the past few months, I have found myself to be very lethargic and no longer have the energy to do simple, everyday chores. I have ALWAYS been full of energy and tried to keep a healthy lifestyle, especially playing basketball and weightlifting. Now I can't do either because I am always "too tired". I had a bout with depression a few months back, where there were times it was difficult for me to do anything but stay in bed, but I do not think that has anything to do with how I feel physically now. In the past 2 months, I have put on about 20 lbs. because my metabolism has come to a standstill from lack of exercise. I used to come home from work and lift, play some ball or maybe go for a walk, but now I am so tired by the time I get back, I can't do much of anything. It's making me feel lazy, plus making me not feel good about my overall appearance. Could there actually be something physically wrong?

2006-12-03 01:54:31 · 18 answers · asked by PhilliesPhan 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 01:54:13 · 12 answers · asked by that_one_day 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is only 27 and I'm 48. His friends and wifes friends are much younger. She catches me looking at other women, hears me speak of women at the office with co-worker or here us talk about lookers. I tell her I would never do anything to hirt her. I'm just looking like many men and women do. How do I comfort her and still have a life and a wife.

2006-12-03 01:53:04 · 35 answers · asked by T-dog b 1 in Friends

I have a 19 yr. old son doing B.Com 1st year (Correspondence) b'coz didn't admission in regular college. Not sincere in studies, doing nothing to enhance professional qualifications, worries me a lot about his future. Never helps in household chores even though I am working, husband spends nothing (being property dealer I never know about his earnings), I feel too sad and depressed looking about my future life also.
Can anybody tell me, especially what does a 19 year youth think. He never wake up on his own. What can I do to motivate him so that he can lead a respectful life. I have seen a life full of sufferings be it physical, financial, emotions everywhere. I don't want my son to feel depression ever in life which is quite possible seeing his activities nowadays. Plz. serious suggestions only.

2006-12-03 01:52:21 · 25 answers · asked by indianrj 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to make my sexlife interesting by buying diffrent condoms for my husband. What are the varients available. How can I buy them as I want to surprise my husband

2006-12-03 01:51:30 · 10 answers · asked by Queen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 01:51:00 · 9 answers · asked by that_one_day 1 in Singles & Dating

I really want him to be my first (of course protected). He's everythng and more I ever wanted in a boyfriend. I'm not scared to have sex, just wonderin how it is

2006-12-03 01:50:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 01:50:23 · 4 answers · asked by lex1979x 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

days a go I bout this car from this guy. ... the day I supposed to get the car title. he was late so I have to cal his office. all of the Sedan his assistants answer. .... I asked him if the manager there he said hes on the way. .. I notice his voice was familiar to me. I asked him. I think I heard ur voice a before his said yes. me too. then in moment I realize That I was talking to my first fiance who dispersed 3 years ago. for no reason.I was like.. is that u. he said oh my god. salma.. where are u now. I said I am in this city . he was oh I am coming now. I was Like WHY... he said because I miss u. I said its over a long time a go. and .......I was like why did u go. he said I don't know. I asked him why did u leave me. when I needed u... u know I was so Young. that time I didn't know what I was doing u should have know batter them . if u loved me... u wouldn't go anywhere. u will be still here. he stop talking then he asked me for my family I was like WHY... he said I want to a

2006-12-03 01:49:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok... hes 21, loves sport, ermm rap, ....his mum, ..... what else?
Got any ideas?
Price rages between 0 pence - 100 bucks

2006-12-03 01:49:38 · 9 answers · asked by Loving and loved 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a Renault Megane, I buy my butter from Marks and Spencers and I am incredibly racist, whats not to love? So why am I still a virgin? Oh I play lots of computer games too. I'm very good.

2006-12-03 01:47:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hello friends
i am guy and i have seen many case abt indian girls marrying against their wishes to someone whom they don't love ... only because their parents ask them to .. and they don't want to break the tradition and culture .. all done they get married to someone else

now the crucial question is wat happens to them after marriage .. wat goes into their minds for rest of life .. say she was really believed her lover was good but .. does she still remembers him .. i had similar experience but i can't go and ask her .. i am just curious .. yeah do still remember her .. i am not married yet ..lost interest in that thing too

so guys be sincere and say through experience

2006-12-03 01:47:34 · 14 answers · asked by Atulya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 01:46:25 · 18 answers · asked by KENNY T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ours was picture perfect, even in a hurricane.

2006-12-03 01:46:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 14 years old 5 foot with green eyes and I'm also quite thin i weigh 42 kilos. I just wonder why I never get anyone that I like? What type of girls do you boys prefer?

2006-12-03 01:45:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating