I'm 16 and I really love my bf, Just wondering How Was It The first Time you lost your virginity (details)

Question

I really want him to be my first (of course protected). He's everythng and more I ever wanted in a boyfriend. I'm not scared to have sex, just wonderin how it is

Answer 1

let me say something before i answer your question.you may love him but 9 times out of 10 he aint going to be the man you marry people change they grow up and go different ways in life so please wait.force on school and friends and just having fun dont mess your life up by putting sex into ittrust me if i could go back and change things i wouldn t be where im at and i sure wouldnt have had sex when i wasnt married
having sex at a young age is what i did then i was a single parent at age 20 with a baby with tons of health problems and i had no clue what to do by then it was way tolate to change things so please wait until at least you are old enough to enter a club and enjoy real life sex isnt all that every one makes it to be so you really aint missing much right now anyway so why even waste your time wait till you are out of school have a great job and are an a adult then enjoy your husband and his body
okay so now to you question it hurts at first and its kinda scary but after a few seconds it become very passionate and enjoyable take it slow and make sure please make sure you are on the pill and he uses protection never can be to safe but really you should just go with what you think is best for your life and hopefully its the right thing

Answer 2

16 is so young. but i did it when i was 15. looking back i would have waited. It was nothing exciting. It didn't really hurt. It was just a new/different sensation. If you've messed around any then you might kinda know what if feels like. If he's a virgin too, he will probably get off in like 2 seconds and leave you wondering what the heck just happened. good luck. don't get pregnant. be safe. don't necessarily trust him, or your feelings for him. you most likely won't be with him the rest of your life.

Answer 3

I mostly hear about it being horrible, so I suppose I was one of the lucky ones...

I was 16, and had been with the guy for about 6 months. It was sweet and tender, and, despite being... quite well endowed... he was very patient and gentle. It was totally lovey, I didn't bleed or hurt at all, and I felt happy the rest of the day. We went on to have a 3y7m relationship, and I regret nothing of it.

We didn't use a condom, as it was right before I was supposed to get my period, but I really, really don't recommend that. There's always a chance of pregnancy - make sure you use some form of protection. :D

Answer 4

Well, I was 18 years old. It was with my husband (now) and it was short, painful, and the stupidest thing I have ever done. I should have waited until I was married! I now am struggling to get through school with two boys which I love but it's still hard.

If you insist on going on with it, go to a doc or free clinic and get on birth control and use a condom. You're too young to have children! And you don't want any STDS.

I know you think you're in love and its all a dream but reality has a tendency to kick your as s!!!!

Answer 5

it wasn't what i thought it would be. i loved my bf so much that it sometimes felt like i would literally die. but i didn't die and i grew up and now looking back on it i wish i had waited until i was older and more mature. and trust me when i was 16 i didn't think i could get any more maturer but thankfully i did. so to sum all of this up . . . what feels good now may make you feel like crap years from now. so make sure this is something that you can live with because i sincerely doubt this boy will grow up to be the man you marry. as hard as it was not to give into peer pressure i wish my husband had been my first and only. good luck with everything.

Answer 6

Everyone expects their first time to be beautiful and romantic and perfect but 9 times out of 10 its really not...mine wasn't, I regret it and wish I would have waited for the man I truly love(my current boyfriend) but I didn't, I was stupid and I have to live with that for the rest of my life...it is your choice though, just be 100% sure this is what you want.

Answer 7

Sigh...I wouldn't do it if I were you! I LOVED it while we(me and my "first") were in the act, but shortly there after when it was over, reality hit! I went bragging to my brother and cousin and they started warning me of all the risks involved with or without protection...I regretted it right then but what was worse, I wanted to do it again regardless!

Answer 8

Well babe you have everything under control and no dubs about you feel for him, so there is nothing else to say, just enjoy and the pain won´t be long, the pleasure ´ll do the rest.

Answer 9

It is nothing great. He will be always more than willing happy to fulfill your wish. Dont expect too much from the first time experience

Answer 10

****,u try everything once,but do you believe its gonna b perfect,
dont rush it just cos ur legal,and good luck,you will learn from the decisions u take in life,just think of every situation b4 acting.and the bad ones u can laugh about later on.