Would you date me?
42-year-old woman, 5'3", 245 pounds, severely depressed, no ambition, constantly complaining about job, always making sarcastic comments and cutting down other people, favorite "activities" are sitting on the couch watching TV for hours and sleeping or eating, hates to go outside or exercise, has no friends, hate to go out in public because I don't want other people to see me.
Men, am I a catch or what?? Women, wouldn't you love to have me for a friend?
2006-12-03 02:01:34 · 14 answers · asked by cococo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a life!
2006-12-03 02:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ Jackielynn 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, i personally wouldn't want to date you for the following reasons:
1. I am not a lesbian.
2. You are depressed.
3. You are not doing anything productive about #2.
Now, how would I fix this:
I would go to my family physician and tell him/her about the depression. Anti-depressants work great and are non-habit forming. You may have a chemical imbalance which is NOT your fault. After being on the anti-depressants for a while you will gain a different perspective on life. If you should choose to do so after you feel better this would be an excellent time to address your issue with you weight. However, go to bbpeoplemeet or bbwpersponalsplus on the web. I am significantly larger than what society in general thinks is beautiful but on these two sites I am gorgeous. Good Luck and do something proactive to help yourself instead of complaining about your plight.
2006-12-03 10:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by ladybug221962 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person who complaints ? come on lady a person can like u even though ur on the heavier side but no one likes a nag. Change ur attitude and ur lifestyle the easiest way would be to get rid of ur tv.
ull be bored within a day and ull be forced to go out .Try some outdoor exercise it really refreshes u and puts u in a good mood.plus if u loose some weight well thats an added advantage.
Give it a shot for a month and then get back to me.
my email id is uzair_83@yahoo.com
I have spoken out of my own experience i am 23 87Kgs .
2006-12-03 10:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Uzair(Stormshadow) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you need to do something for yourself. And get busy now! this is a very unhealthy way to live and depressing. Begin with baby steps, walk around the block, get some counseling or self help books. Surround yourself with positive people who are supportive of what you are trying to accomplish. This is really sad, we all desire and deserve love in our lives. However, if one has no self love, you cannot expect anyone else to love you. Go and see a doctor and get a complete health screen and make sure you don't have any medical issues going on. Do something for yourself get up and walk, get a new hair due, something. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-03 10:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you need a good dose of multivitamins or a doctor's check up, do you take anything for your depression? I'd look at upping the dose if i were you, it's not working well.
2006-12-03 10:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont sound like a very interesting friend. And though I like to sleep with girls I woldnt even want you for that.
2006-12-03 10:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
See a doctor, FAST!
2006-12-03 10:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a joke, right?
2006-12-03 10:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by silentknight64 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok then, you sound like a very interesting person
2006-12-03 10:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmmmm everything about you is 100% negative....if i was a guy i would say no.....
2006-12-03 10:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋