Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

My school is tiny and i'm new here, so I have no clue if i should try to shut off any feelings i have for him. I'm 16 and he's 15 there is only a 9 month age gap, technically both of us could be sophomores, but i'm afraid i may be rationalizing bc i don't want people to be judgemental of me and it's been tough adjusting to new friends and wicked tough teachers....help!

2006-12-03 02:57:14 · 7 answers · asked by stre77ed 1 in Singles & Dating

I have green eyes that are very deep, and emotional and I have dark brown hair. Is that a good, attractive mix?

2006-12-03 02:57:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been out and had sunday dinna am at home now with my bf and got nowt to do it is horrible wether outside dark and hevey rain any suggestions thanks

2006-12-03 02:56:44 · 11 answers · asked by shell 5 in Singles & Dating

This girl I am seeing can't get over the ex she dumped recently. He contacts her and she feels like she still loves him whenever he does make contact. But shes always saying she wants to forget about him. What can I do to help her forget him.

2006-12-03 02:56:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a girl was "out of ur league" according to ur friend, would you still ask her out?? Why or Why not??

2006-12-03 02:56:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

copy and paste the questions and answer them in order.
If you don't know how to copy and paste the questions, don't answer because I want people who can follow directions.

1) How long have you been married to your spouse?
2) How many kids do you have with this spouse?
3) How much did your wedding cost? If you don't remember, give an estimate/
4) What sort of things do you find about your spouse that's annoying?
5) What qualities do you like about your spouse?
6) How often do you argue?

2006-12-03 02:56:25 · 25 answers · asked by phrani c 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and get married why it is so hard to find the right lady in this world
im over 30th been looking for a long time.its seem like when ic a lady that i would like to get to know some thing in me tell me no and i walk away what is going on with me am i scare of rejection or very shy.this get me really upset.i have a good life and a good sence of humor.why am i so affraid of going up and talking to women??

2006-12-03 02:55:57 · 7 answers · asked by little_bear 3 in Singles & Dating

Specifically, my husband's brother and his wife. Every time we see them all we get is snide remarks and masked jealousy (they have 3 kids they can't afford, she is an unemployed highschool dropout. We both have decent jobs, no kids, and college educations). We have tried reaching out to them many many times but nothing works. The seem to think that we are "rubbing our money in their faces" (it's not like we are rich!!) Now the holidays are coming and that side of the family is getting together, but I don't think I can take another year of being guilt-tripped for being responsible! I am afraid that either myself or my husband are going to be goaded into an arguement and possibly an explosion. What should we do???

2006-12-03 02:53:53 · 6 answers · asked by Blondonna 2 in Family

Hello!!
I am wondering if I should buy a christmas present for my best friend at school, who has been a very good friend to me since May and whom I appreciate much. We are very close. Only problem is, he is a guy, and I'm afraid giving him a gift would be sending him the incorrect message that I like him more than a friend. I also have no clue whether or not he is getting me a gift, and don't feel comfortable asking. Should I just skip the gift? What if he gets me one and I don't have one for him back? Any insights, gift ideas, or suggestions are greatly appreciated.
Thanks!!

2006-12-03 02:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by Aimee 4 in Friends

I don't have alot of friends at school because most of the people have alot of issues and stuff. I only have one friend and she always get into to much trouble at school. Its hard for me to fit in at this high school.

2006-12-03 02:51:49 · 14 answers · asked by Alicia-brandon15 3 in Friends

It drives me so mad, last night I was constantly woken up by this stink. We ended up having a massive row and I kicked him out into the spare room, am I being selfish or is he?

2006-12-03 02:51:39 · 24 answers · asked by georgeygirl 5 in Singles & Dating

She is 34 and we have a two year old son. I caught her having phone sex one night. Since then I have found out that she loves him. She is saying that for years I have ignored her and now that someone else cares I want to be caring and etc. I do love her but she won't stop talking to this guy. How am I supposed to feel . I get upset when he calls and etc. Am I wrong??

2006-12-03 02:51:20 · 13 answers · asked by mtjs06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please read the whole thing. I got rid of my facebook (myspace) a week ago without telling my friends at school, who were really excited and happy that I decided to get one. Now they seem po'ed at me. Should I have said something? I thought about it but I onestly thought it would be arrogant of me to think they cared that much. I don;t know though they seemed po'ed before this, I wonder if they thought I was arrogant because I added a lot of friends. I guess I could either apologize, put it back up, act like nothing happen, let it fade away. I honestly thought they would figure out that I got rid of it and they never asked me. I had expected them to ask and then I would tell them. The screwy thing is I'm trying to get to become better friends with these people and I don't know if this screws it up. I also have incredibly low self esteem and social anxiety disorder so I guess I could be misinterpreting anger, like I do a lot, but now they have reason to be pis sed. To be fair, it might look like i took them off my friends list. But I figured they all would have figured it out by now now that I'm on nobodys. And I got invited to be in an internet school group but got rid of it without replying first. I mean I'd consider putting it back up if it might possibly reverse everything (because then it would say we were all friends again) but I honestly want no part of it. I also don't know if i should try sitting with them at lunch like I have wanted to for a while, I don't know if then they'd know everything was ok or they'd just think I was an assh ole.

2006-12-03 02:51:01 · 13 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

Put in order..Most important to least important......Big heart, Big sex organ, Big bank account or Big brain............

2006-12-03 02:50:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...me too the wake. I have been very upset and today I asked her to stay and spend the day with me to comfort me and she got mad because she already has plans to hang out with her friends. We have been together for 2 months but fell in love very quickly. She has even told me me that she wants to marry me some day. ...so when she was leaving... She told me she loves me , and I saidit didnt seem like it cause her friends were more important comforting me. That made her mad cause she says she really does love me and it hurts when i say that. I dont know what to think...i feel like she dosnt care about me.......any comments welcome

2006-12-03 02:49:29 · 16 answers · asked by ajwpoet 2 in Singles & Dating

Girl: Mom Whats Penis
Mom: When you become a good
girl you will get one.

Girl: What if I dont become
a good girl.
Mom: Then you will get many!!

2006-12-03 02:48:45 · 5 answers · asked by Alpha-Male 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me about 5 weeks ago. We had dated for almost 2 and a half years. He stated that does still love me and want to be with me, but needs to get his life together. However, it is clear that we are official borken up.

I went out the other night and was flirting alot with a guy that I knew through friends. We were very touchy, dancing etc..at the end of the night we kissed and exchanged numbers.

However, now I dont know what to do. I am still in love with my ex and do not want to really start dating again. Plus I am afraid that my ex will find out and this will ruin any hope of reconciliation.

Did I do anything wrong? Is it too soon to begin dating again? How do I let the other guy know that I am not ready without hurting his feelings? What do I do about my ex? we havent spoken in 10 days.

Confused!

2006-12-03 02:48:44 · 5 answers · asked by Jenny S 1 in Singles & Dating

No creepy stalker type answers.

2006-12-03 02:47:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father die, He was black and had a baby by a white woman. Now she won't let my fathers famliy see the baby. I want to get the baby and rise him myself. Do i have any rights to do so?

2006-12-03 02:46:25 · 8 answers · asked by asbemk 1 in Family

men seem to complain about this, wanting perfection, like working having kids, tea on the table and look beautiful. Something has to give men. I always notice women look great after separation or divorce (totally transformed into beauties). I also notice men look better when in a relationship. Do men take our beauty away, by being so self centred and demanding?

2006-12-03 02:46:19 · 23 answers · asked by oceanwaves 2 in Marriage & Divorce

All of us get turned on at one time or another, and its usually at the most inappropriate moments. What gets you in the mood? A guys' abs, a girls' bottom, a peek at something you really shouldn't have seen??? Be as open as you like.....

2006-12-03 02:44:12 · 17 answers · asked by ang_172 3 in Singles & Dating

my mother is doing my head in i have 3 kids myself who love xmas and she dosnt belive that we should start celebrating to soon

2006-12-03 02:43:23 · 17 answers · asked by washerwoman 3 in Family

I have been talking to this girl online secretly for about a month and half now and she wants to come visit me. My wife does not know anything about this. What should I do. Should I tell her to come or tell her to stay away.

2006-12-03 02:42:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 02:42:37 · 2 answers · asked by persianooo 1 in Singles & Dating

Im not being picky, but when my wife curses in anger she curses everything the home the kids, me, her mom her sister the cat. I tell her the wall have ears and cursing things have a negative effect I believe. Yea we curse like thats a FU*#! cool game, or Shi! I smashed my Fu@#^& hand but can't stand cursing people, things or objects. I was so pist at it once she cursed my mother I slapped her hard I left my hand on her face. I went to jail and served probation $2,300 later she still does it. I derserved it, the punishment, but what does she deserve, she still curses, I'm sick of it!!!!

2006-12-03 02:42:07 · 4 answers · asked by speeqtruth 2 in Family

understand and take care (*o*)

2006-12-03 02:40:19 · 42 answers · asked by tk 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 02:38:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If I looked like my avatar would you be my gf?

2006-12-03 02:37:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for about a year now, on and off. When we first started dating, there was a strong attraction, but after about a month, I felt kind of over whelmed, almost smothered, so I broke it off. We stayed friends, and I came to know her as a person very well. Around July or so of this year, we started to date again, and then in October, we became "steady." Since then it was great. We spent alot of time together, I told her I loved her, she said the same. Well, the past 2 weeks, she has distanced herself from me, and I started to pick up on it almost immediately. Finally, I confronted her on friday night about it, and she said that with going to school full time, working part time, having a steady boyfriend is killing her performance, and she still doen't know what she wants to do with her life. So, she broke it off, saying she loved me, and I was perfect, but she just can't have a boyfriend right now. I want to give her space, but I am afriad to lose her???

2006-12-03 02:36:56 · 17 answers · asked by Matt M 1 in Singles & Dating

you know how guys all have a fantasy or two about being with two women. do women fantisize about being with two or more men at a time. just curious

2006-12-03 02:34:34 · 19 answers · asked by heycanwedoda 2 in Singles & Dating