My boyfriend broke up with me about 5 weeks ago. We had dated for almost 2 and a half years. He stated that does still love me and want to be with me, but needs to get his life together. However, it is clear that we are official borken up.
I went out the other night and was flirting alot with a guy that I knew through friends. We were very touchy, dancing etc..at the end of the night we kissed and exchanged numbers.
However, now I dont know what to do. I am still in love with my ex and do not want to really start dating again. Plus I am afraid that my ex will find out and this will ruin any hope of reconciliation.
Did I do anything wrong? Is it too soon to begin dating again? How do I let the other guy know that I am not ready without hurting his feelings? What do I do about my ex? we havent spoken in 10 days.
Confused!
2006-12-03 02:48:44 · 5 answers · asked by Jenny S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's definitely too soon to start dating again. You're not 100% over your ex. You need to get over your ex. It sounds like you're holding on to a dream of you two getting back together. It's not gonna happen. You need to keep your ex out of your life. You can't get over your ex seeing & talking to him. It never works.
2006-12-03 03:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your ex does need to get his life together, but that shouldnt mean that you have to be single until he figures out when the best time will be for y'all to get back together. Im sure he wont be staying single himself. You need to talk to your ex again and find out exactly what he wants in life. If he says he needs more time, then tell him that you will move on and see other people and have him do the same. Sometimes thats all it takes is for a guy to hear that and he'll come back, but also it could mean that y'all need to see if theres someone else out there for you. It is kinda soon to just move on when your not sure what your ex wants. If there was no problem in y'alls relationship before y'all broke up, I dont see why y'all cant stay together while he gets things straightened up. Talk to him and let him know how you feel and find out exactly how he feels. Best of luck to ya!
2006-12-03 11:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your ex are broken up...move on with your life...IF he should want to reconcile and you are available, then give it consideration at that time (but chances are, it's not going to happen)...but don't put your life on hold and miss out on opportunities in hopes that your ex will want you back...
Why would you want to go back to someone who will toss you aside so easily? When people have issues in life, their partners are there for support...you don't break up with someone in order to get your life together, unless that person is part of the reason your life is in disorder (in which case you don't want them back anyway).
If you like the new guy then move forward...but do it SLOWLY...you apparently aren't over your ex and new guy doesn't deserve to get inovled with a girl who's carrying a torch for someone else...don't get in too deep with new guy, until you are ready to devote all your romantic attentions to just him.
2006-12-03 10:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not too early to start dating again, you've been officially broken up for over a month. however i would try not to let your ex know you've already been out with someone new, it might hurt his feelinlgs. my advice to you is to start dating this new guy as a rebound thing even though you say you're not ready yet....its a good way to get over your ex. if you're meant to be with him you will, but it's not going to happen anytime soon so you might as well move on for now.
2006-12-03 10:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEVER EVER EVER GET BACK WITH AN EX
go find sum 1 else
2006-12-03 10:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋