Please read the whole thing. I got rid of my facebook (myspace) a week ago without telling my friends at school, who were really excited and happy that I decided to get one. Now they seem po'ed at me. Should I have said something? I thought about it but I onestly thought it would be arrogant of me to think they cared that much. I don;t know though they seemed po'ed before this, I wonder if they thought I was arrogant because I added a lot of friends. I guess I could either apologize, put it back up, act like nothing happen, let it fade away. I honestly thought they would figure out that I got rid of it and they never asked me. I had expected them to ask and then I would tell them. The screwy thing is I'm trying to get to become better friends with these people and I don't know if this screws it up. I also have incredibly low self esteem and social anxiety disorder so I guess I could be misinterpreting anger, like I do a lot, but now they have reason to be pis sed. To be fair, it might look like i took them off my friends list. But I figured they all would have figured it out by now now that I'm on nobodys. And I got invited to be in an internet school group but got rid of it without replying first. I mean I'd consider putting it back up if it might possibly reverse everything (because then it would say we were all friends again) but I honestly want no part of it. I also don't know if i should try sitting with them at lunch like I have wanted to for a while, I don't know if then they'd know everything was ok or they'd just think I was an assh ole.
2006-12-03 02:51:01 · 13 answers · asked by leena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have a great life if this is your heaviest issue this morning. :-)
Whatever you decide to do should be fine. You have no control over how your friends feel, so keep being nice and friendly and eventually they'll all get over it.
2006-12-03 02:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Bingo's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologizy .. i dnt think so. Its up to u, if u wanna be part of myspace or not, internet friends are internet friends. A real life friends is someone that u can rely on, share things together, talk about anything. If you need a shoulder to cry on she/he be there for you. But if you still dnt have one, dnt push anyone to or ask anyone tobe yr friends.
Friends is something that u cant push or ask to be. Friends juz comeby and with their full heart. If you think all of them is not kinda friends that u want, so let it be. Being alone without friends doesnt mean that you are stupid or what. You still somebody. Juz that u need time to look for a special kinda friends. so dnt be shy if u still dnt have one. Juz live up yr life with a smile. Someone will like you as u are.
2006-12-03 10:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me i don't think you should apologize over a internet thing. I find that somewhat stupid. What about myspace? if you want to have more friends then you should just be yourself in the inside and just go and associate with people. say hi, good morning and so on..if you don't like something or doing something then don't do it. Just go sit with them if they ever ask just say you didn't like it or something else not your intrest, just be yourself like always and don't act like nothing happen, its just an "if" they ever ask, just tell them ok its just my opinion but realy good luck! =D
2006-12-03 12:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Element 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be *arrogant* for having people added to your myspace page? It's ok to have hundreds of people on your myspace. And why should you appologize for deleting your myspace? If you don't want it, keep it deleted. If you want it back, then recreate it.
Good Luck.
P.S. If your friends seem to be peed off at you for whatever reason, then you need to talk to them and ask them questions..don't just let them continue to be peed at you, and not know why. COMMUNICATE!
2006-12-03 10:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Daft One 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop Hitting Yourself in the Head, go ask them! Work on your Confidence, and get the answer from them. That will be the only Correct One! Good Luck, and Merry Christmas.
2006-12-03 10:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason you should have a facebook or a myspace if you don't actually want one. If these people are really that upset about it, then they probably don't really deserve your friendship as they sound like really crummy people. I would talk to them about it and explain that you erased it and tell them why you don't want a facebook/myspace. They'll probably understand and if they don't, they're jerks.
2006-12-03 10:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rhelitha D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should put it back up. If you don't want the Myspace acct then don't have it. It may be a good idea to sit with them at lunch and just see how it goes.
2006-12-03 10:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you apologize? if facebook isn't your thing, then why should you feel pressured into having one. Friendships shouldn't be based on things like that. i don't think you should apologize, and i don't think you needed to tell them before you deleted your account. There was no reason to, it shouldn't have offended them.
2006-12-03 10:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by nikki s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-03 10:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not their place to make your choices on what you do on the internet. You need to do what makes you comfortable. If they are true friends they will not be mad at what you do but, they will support your choice. Don't apologize to them they need to apologize to you for acting like so childest.
2006-12-03 11:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by Chillin-it 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋