Who has successfully kicked out their kid(s), AND there were better for it?

Question

I won't go into the tiny details, but child services, youth services, MHMR (mental health mental retartation), home advocates that visit, phycologists, shrinks, pills, judge, fines, police. basically everybody involved. Yesterday my 'good' girl(have 3, 14-15) didn't like to be kept from friend b/c of skipping school, so she fought with husband IN spegetti sauce in kitchen (don't ask) then she started stabbing leather, damaging walls, spraying clothes with clorine, we're still finding out what she did. We called state police, nothing, we called crisis hotline.. nothing we didn't ALREADY know. We are at WITS END! We want them gone. SO, when it's legal (and not abandonment) has anyone done this and was is at all successful? and if it was, what did you do?!? Please, help! The police/state troops like to scare, but they seem not be able to do a darn thing! Oh, and juvi court is a joke too.

For those that gave asinine answers. I hope it goes around and bites you hard!
For everyone else: I forgot to mention that my husband got downsized and we can't spend money or they would be to 'wilderness therapy' SO fast. Anything free in PA? I hear rumors of something but no offical person will admit to it! I hear it's around Erie.

Anyone else want to add anything? I'd love boot camp and LOVE for them to be 18 and find out about life, but I don't know if I can survive ANOTHER 5 years of this!

Answer 1

Boot camp sister. Then at 18 they are on their own.

Answer 2

Yes juvinille court just wants them on probation that cost you more money and has no place to send them if the do wrong any more. If the family and children srvices blieve that thre is problems between you her and your husband they may put her in a home. When they came to my house about our son saying things at school about us abusing him I told them to take him if they want or get the hell out of my house. They left without him. Unless she thinks it is unsafe to go home they will not make a place for her. Finally at 17 one of ours moved out and sees what the world is like trying to suport a baby. The other swears before long he will. Good luck and don't know what to tell you.

Answer 3

You're paragraph makes no sense, I can't figure out who did what to whom.

A friend of mind's adopted son go into so much trouble that my friend took him to Texas and had him locked away at a facility there, because you can't petition to get out until you turn 18. Texas will not consider emancipation cases.

Answer 4

it fairly is one factor to circulate abode and get some help. counting on how long he has been with you're able to inform you some issues. on condition that he looks to in undemanding terms think of it worth $50 money to stay with you and feed, tub, and look after the two boys with mowing the backyard each as quickly as in a blue moon i might say it fairly is time he discovered his very own pad to stay in. And who has the boys? If he has them each and all of the time he should not be helping out his ex spouse long previous ga-ga over yet another guy till now she left him. She may be the guy who's helping him out money smart with the youngsters alongside with food, outfits and so forth to look after the lil ones. Why help her if she left interior the 1st place. He additionally needs to renowned that this could be in undemanding terms non everlasting and he could be spending his money on the needs of his boys not treating them to each little factor that I call a manage.

Answer 5

My Mother

Answer 6

i did. they were just toddlers at the time. i hear they're out living in the woods with a pack of wolves howling into the night, longing for just a taste of what was...

Answer 7

I HAVEN'T BUT SOMETIMES i FEEL LIKE IT!!





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